I am 64 and my wife 60 yrs of age . I want frequent sex twice a week and she is not even interested once a week. I am getting disturbed and effects my behaviour & day to day work. Her reason is we are old now. How to handle this . For me ageing years are the number only and old word is in our mental state only.

Ans: Dear Chaman,
As men and women age, they vary in terms of sexual interest.
She may not be interested as she does not feel the urge anymore. It could be because of natural physiological changes in a woman AND/OR a belief system that she holds which tells her that as people become OLD, sex is taboo!
Which means if you keep insisting, she will keep refusing. Have a chat with her about it without intense focus on sex but more with an intent of reconnecting with her in love.
I can't promise you that she will be ready BUT you can try. And if it comes to a place where she absolutely does not want sex, then you will have to respect it. Old beliefs are hard to drop!
Age is a number; but not everyone thinks of it this way! Aim to reconnect with her first...

All the best!