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Zaira Question by Zaira on Mar 04, 2025Hindi
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hello sir i am 17 year old girl i was a topper in class 10th after that i took dummy schooling plus online coaching in my 11th and 12th grade to prepare for neet but then i ruined my life completely by getting into social media and youtube addiction in 11th 1 used to spend 11hrs daily on social media my mental health was ruining i was having constant guilt and anxiety and then in 12th i did continued this routine until october my mental health was completely disturbed i dont have any friends i cant focus on studies my attention span is very bad i cant concentrate on my studies. i feel very bad for my parents they have told me to focus on my board and now my screen time is 3-4 hrs .i am trying to quit social media i have deleted instagram i cant delete youtube because i have to study but i cant study because of procastination now my boards are going on and i have completely ruined myself i dont think that i will be able to score more than 75 % in 12th .i scored 92 % in 10th .i feel bad for my parents they have very high expectation . i am loosing my mind day by day i dont know what to do .i am filled with all the negative thoughts .i have tried quitting social media or say dopamine detox but i have failed many times 13 -17 times .i cant fulfill my own promise which i made to myself .what should i do now?

Ans: You’re caught in a loop, but what matters is how you handle it now. Dwelling on guilt won’t change anything - your action will. Right now, your board exams need your full focus. Forget about NEET for now. Even if you feel unprepared, showing up and giving your best effort is non-negotiable. No excuses. Procrastination isn’t about motivation - it’s about discipline. Set a strict, no-negotiation study schedule. 50-minute study sessions, 10-minute breaks. Keep your phone away while studying. You say you can’t delete YouTube, fine. But are you willing to use it only for study-related content, with no loopholes? Your parents’ expectations are there, but for a moment, shift the focus—what does success look like for you? No overthinking. No self-pity. Just action. What’s one thing you can do right now to move forward?

Wishing you success,
Aamish Dhingra
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Co-Founder, Cocoweave Coaching International, Delhi

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» Monthly Income and Debt

– You earn Rs.1.2 lakh monthly from rent
– Your home loan outstanding is Rs.26 lakh
– Check your loan interest rate.
– If high, you may try to refinance or prepay partly
– Don’t rush to close the loan. Low-cost loans can stay longer
– Instead, invest your savings for higher growth over 8 years
– Let your investment returns beat the loan rate gradually

» Existing Mutual Fund Investments

– You have Rs.15 lakh in mutual funds
– Keep them invested. Don’t redeem early
– Review your fund quality with a Certified Financial Planner
– Stay invested in regular mutual funds via MFD under CFP guidance
– Don’t go for direct mutual funds
– Direct plans miss professional review, tracking, and course correction
– Regular plan with CFP support gives strategy, timing, and goal focus
– Use a diversified mix of equity and balanced mutual funds
– Rebalance yearly with your CFP to match risk and goals

» Avoid Index Funds

– Index funds are passive and follow the market
– They don’t protect your downside in bad markets
– No fund manager means no active planning
– They also don’t suit near retirement phase
– Your goals need better control and tailored returns
– Choose only actively managed mutual funds with CFP support
– Active funds adjust portfolio based on markets, economy, and valuations

» PPF and EPF Holdings

– PPF balance is Rs.14 lakh
– EPF is Rs.35 lakh, which is substantial
– PPF will mature once 15 years complete
– These give fixed but limited returns
– Don’t increase exposure here further
– Returns won’t beat inflation in long term
– Keep them for safety but don’t rely on them fully

» Agricultural Land

– You have 5 acres giving Rs.1 lakh annually
– Keep land for emotional or family reasons if needed
– Don’t depend on it for main retirement income
– Returns from land are low and inconsistent
– It lacks liquidity and is hard to monetise quickly
– Real estate value appreciation is unpredictable
– Avoid further land buying or development for income

» Debt Repayment Plan

– Your home loan is Rs.26 lakh
– Avoid full prepayment now unless interest is above 9%
– If loan is affordable, focus more on investing
– Use EMI benefits for tax reduction till 60
– If surplus is available, part prepay 10%-15% once in 2-3 years
– Use windfalls or bonus income to reduce principal slowly
– Don’t use mutual fund corpus to repay loan now

» Monthly Saving Ability

– You can save Rs.1 lakh monthly for next 8 years
– This is a big strength
– With this discipline, you can create strong wealth
– Begin SIPs in 5-6 good mutual funds via regular plan
– Allocate major part to equity mutual funds
– Keep some in balanced or dynamic funds
– Increase SIPs by 10% every year if possible
– Top-up SIPs help combat inflation

» Asset Allocation Strategy

– You already have EPF and PPF as safe options
– New monthly SIPs should target higher equity exposure
– Around 70%-80% in equity funds and balance in hybrid funds
– This will help wealth compound better in 8 years
– Too much safety will reduce your returns
– Your CFP can adjust allocation yearly as you approach age 50

» Target Retirement Income Plan

– Your goal is Rs.2.5 lakh monthly income after 8 years
– That’s about Rs.30 lakh per year
– After retirement, you can withdraw from mutual funds smartly
– Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP) can help generate monthly cash flow
– Equity mutual funds give better post-tax income via SWP
– After age 50, shift part of equity to hybrid and debt funds
– Your CFP will guide reallocation for smoother post-retirement income

– Equity mutual fund SWP taxation:

LTCG above Rs.1.25 lakh taxed at 12.5%

STCG taxed at 20%

– Debt mutual fund SWP:

Taxed as per your income slab

– Plan redemptions after retirement as per tax-efficient withdrawal strategy

» Emergency Fund and Risk Management

– Keep 6 months expenses in liquid mutual funds
– Avoid using PPF or EPF for emergency
– Emergency fund must be quickly accessible
– Refill emergency fund if used anytime
– Also buy pure term life insurance if not already done
– Medical insurance for self and family is also a must
– Don’t depend on employer coverage alone

» Inflation Impact and Income Protection

– Your monthly income target must consider inflation
– Today’s Rs.2.5 lakh may need Rs.3.5 lakh after 8 years
– Invest aggressively for now, and then shift gradually to safety
– Don’t chase short-term performance
– Long-term investing gives more stable wealth
– Stay disciplined and let compounding work

» Avoid Insurance Investment Products

– Don’t buy ULIPs or endowment plans for retirement
– They offer poor return, low flexibility
– Only term plan is needed for protection
– If you already hold ULIPs or endowment, consider surrendering
– Reinvest surrender value into equity mutual funds
– Insurance and investment must stay separate

» Review and Monitor Annually

– Track fund performance every 12 months
– Don’t make frequent changes
– Review goals, income, and fund health with CFP
– Make changes slowly and logically
– Emotional investing can damage long-term outcomes
– Avoid timing the market or reacting to noise

» Income Streams After Retirement

– Your rental income of Rs.1.2 lakh can continue after retirement
– With SWP from mutual funds, aim to generate another Rs.1.3 lakh
– EPF can give lump sum support if kept untouched till 50
– Avoid withdrawing EPF now
– Use it post-retirement gradually if needed
– Don’t buy pension plans or annuities for income

» Will and Nomination Planning

– Prepare a proper Will before age 50
– Add nominations in all MF, PPF, EPF, and bank accounts
– Land should also be clearly documented and inherited properly
– This helps your family in smooth asset transfer
– Review nominations every 3-4 years

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– You are in strong financial health
– Continue Rs.1 lakh savings with discipline
– Avoid property investments or insurance-based products
– Focus on equity mutual funds through regular plan with CFP
– Track every year and take help to rebalance if needed
– Don’t disturb EPF or PPF till retirement
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43yr, 7-8 lac per month. Plan to work till 60yr. One child6 yrs. SIP in MF 1.2 lac since 1 yr. Ppf maturing next year. Life insurance 2 cr. 2 house, few plots. Kindly advice how to invest my fund for maximum benifit in long term
Ans: You have already taken wise steps. Investing through SIP, having life cover, and PPF maturity next year show good discipline. Your income level gives strong potential for long-term wealth. With right planning, your goals can be met peacefully.

Let us structure the answer with a complete 360-degree assessment.

? Income and Savings Potential

– Monthly income of Rs.7-8 lakhs gives excellent saving ability
– Maintain at least 30%-40% of your income as regular investments
– Your current SIP of Rs.1.2 lakh per month is a good beginning
– There is room to gradually increase this by 10%-15% every year
– Avoid lifestyle inflation. Save first, then spend

? Existing SIP in Mutual Funds

– Continue SIPs in actively managed mutual funds through a Certified Financial Planner
– Don’t shift to direct mutual funds.
– Direct funds may look cheaper. But guidance is missing.
– Without CFP’s supervision, there is risk of poor fund selection
– Regular plan with CFP and MFD gives handholding, reviews, and corrections
– Professional advice helps in fund curation and rebalancing
– Regular plans can also help avoid emotional investing errors
– Don’t stop SIPs in correction phases. That’s when most wealth gets built

? Stay Away from Index Funds

– Index funds have low cost, but very little active strategy
– They mirror the market. They don’t protect from market falls
– No downside protection, no active reallocation in tough times
– Index funds lack fund manager’s expertise and judgment
– Active funds can outperform in sideways or volatile markets
– Stick to actively managed funds that are reviewed by your CFP

? PPF Maturity Next Year

– PPF maturity should be reinvested wisely
– Don't spend it unless it is for a goal
– Reinvest in long-term equity mutual funds via regular plan
– Discuss asset allocation with your CFP before reinvestment
– Avoid putting into fixed deposits or insurance-based schemes
– Consider staggering this lump sum in equity via STP over 12-18 months

? Life Insurance Cover – Review Needed

– Rs.2 crore cover is good. But may not be enough now
– With Rs.8 lakh income and child’s future expenses, a review is needed
– Ideally, have a cover of 15-20 times of annual income
– Go only for pure term insurance. No ULIPs or investment-based plans
– If you hold any ULIPs or endowment plans, consider surrendering
– Reinvest surrender proceeds in mutual funds after discussion with CFP
– Review your insurance every 3-4 years or at major life events

? Property and Plots – Use Caution

– You already own two houses and plots
– No need to invest more into property
– Real estate lacks liquidity, rental yield is low
– Hard to exit, especially during emergencies
– Avoid locking more capital into additional plots or flats
– Instead, use surplus funds to invest in financial assets

? Planning for Child’s Future

– Your child is 6 years old now
– You have around 12 years for college planning
– Continue SIPs in child-specific long-term equity mutual funds
– Target higher education corpus using aggressive asset allocation
– Use separate folio for this goal to track easily
– Don’t mix this with retirement goal investments

? Retirement Planning – 17 Years to Prepare

– You plan to retire at 60. That gives 17 years
– Increase SIPs every year as income rises
– Allocate funds to a mix of equity and hybrid funds
– Don’t rely on property rent or inheritance
– Plan assuming self-dependence post-retirement
– Discuss retirement corpus estimation with your CFP
– Use goal-based planning to build retirement bucket separately

? Emergency Fund and Liquidity

– Keep at least 6-8 months of expenses in liquid mutual funds
– Don’t keep too much in savings account
– Use low-duration or overnight mutual funds for emergency buffer
– Review and replenish emergency fund after usage
– Emergency fund must be kept liquid, not in FD or real estate

? Tax Planning and Fund Selection

– Avoid investing only for tax-saving
– Let your investment be goal-oriented, not just tax-saving
– Choose ELSS under regular plan with guidance of CFP
– Diversify between equity, balanced advantage, and flexi-cap funds
– Understand the new mutual fund tax rules while exiting funds

– For equity mutual funds:

LTCG above Rs.1.25 lakh taxed at 12.5%

STCG taxed at 20%

– For debt mutual funds:

Taxed as per your income slab for both STCG and LTCG

– Plan redemptions wisely with help of a CFP to reduce taxes

? Avoid Insurance-Based Investments

– Don’t mix insurance and investment
– ULIPs, endowment plans give low return and low flexibility
– If you hold such policies, check surrender values
– Surrender and switch to mutual funds after careful review
– Use pure term plan for life cover. Invest rest separately

? Annual Portfolio Review – A Must

– Investment journey needs regular tracking
– Once a year, do complete review with your CFP
– Remove underperforming funds, reallocate as per goal progress
– Adjust SIPs based on changed income or family needs
– Portfolio rebalancing keeps risk in control and improves returns

? Wealth Transfer and Estate Planning

– Prepare a Will to ensure smooth succession
– Mention nominations in mutual funds and bank accounts
– If plots are held, register them properly with clear documents
– Don’t ignore succession planning. It avoids family disputes later
– Also assign Power of Attorney to trusted person, if needed

? Behavioral Discipline – Most Important

– Avoid chasing hot funds or short-term trends
– Market timing doesn’t work. Stay invested for long-term
– Never pause SIPs due to market fear or noise
– Focus on your own goals, not others’ portfolio
– Long-term wealth needs patience and consistency
– Trust your financial planner and stick to the plan

? How to Scale Your Investment Strategy

– Increase SIPs by 10%-15% every year
– Use bonuses and windfalls for lump sum investments
– Diversify across 5-6 good equity mutual funds
– Don’t exceed 7-8 funds, else tracking becomes difficult
– Split investments by goals – child, retirement, emergency, etc.
– Take help from CFP to monitor each goal’s progress

? Checklist for 360-Degree Plan

– Monthly SIPs: On track, but scope to increase
– Life cover: Review and upgrade to 15-20x annual income
– Real estate: Avoid further investments, no liquidity
– Child’s education: Build separate corpus via SIP
– Retirement: Plan with 17-year horizon, increase SIPs annually
– PPF: Reinvest on maturity, via STP in mutual funds
– Tax planning: Use ELSS and goal-based planning
– Emergency fund: Maintain liquidity for 6-8 months expenses
– Estate planning: Prepare Will and ensure nominations

? Final Insights

– You are already ahead with your savings mindset
– Keep emotions away from investing decisions
– With the right review and planning, you can retire peacefully
– Continue SIPs, add more as income increases
– Stay invested in regular mutual funds under guidance of CFP
– Avoid real estate and insurance-based investments now
– Track your goals every year. Small corrections give big impact later

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I am a 30 year old Advocate practicing in the District Courts of Delhi, earning 30 to 35 lakhs annually. I got married last year and currently live with my parents and siblings. I used most of my savings during my marriage and now have 20 lakhs as an emergency fund, which I do not want to touch. I have no loans or EMIs, and I have not invested in mutual funds, stocks, FDs, or any other financial instruments yet. My wife and I are covered under government provided health and term insurance. I want to retire at 60 with a post tax income of 2 lakhs per month adjusted for inflation. I am also open to early retirement at 50 if financially viable. I would like to know the target retirement corpus and how much I should invest monthly, preferably in mutual funds or equity, to achieve this. I would also appreciate guidance on asset allocation, inflation assumptions, and tax efficiency.
Ans: You have a strong income and disciplined savings habit. That is truly commendable.
Your emergency fund of Rs 20 lakhs gives you great stability.
Also, no loans or EMIs is a strong foundation.

This is the perfect time to create a long-term, well-thought-out wealth creation plan.

Your Retirement Goal – A Clear Vision

– You aim for Rs 2 lakhs per month post-tax income at retirement.
– You wish to retire at 60 but are open to retiring at 50.
– These are two separate targets. Both need clear planning.
– Planning for both helps you stay flexible and financially secure.

Inflation – The Silent Expense

– Inflation eats into money’s value.
– At 6% inflation, Rs 2 lakhs today may need Rs 6.4 lakhs at age 60.
– For age 50 retirement, it will still be Rs 3.8 lakhs monthly.
– Retirement income must increase with inflation every year.
– This inflation-adjusted lifestyle must last 30+ years post-retirement.

Taxation – Post-Tax Income Planning

– Your goal is post-tax income. So, taxes during withdrawal matter.
– Equity mutual fund LTCG beyond Rs 1.25 lakhs is taxed at 12.5%.
– STCG is taxed at 20%.
– Debt mutual funds are taxed as per your tax slab.
– All investments must factor these for accurate planning.

Your Retirement Corpus – What You Will Need

– For retirement at 60, you will need Rs 10 to 11 crore approx.
– For early retirement at 50, you may need Rs 13 to 14 crore approx.
– This range depends on inflation, expenses, and post-retirement lifestyle.
– This is a rough benchmark. Regular reviews are needed to stay on track.

Monthly Investment Required – Staying Committed

– You need to invest Rs 1.2 to 1.5 lakh per month consistently.
– This assumes 11-12% average long-term return.
– For early retirement at 50, monthly investment should be Rs 2 to 2.2 lakh.
– Starting now gives you power of compounding.
– Discipline matters more than timing the market.
– Gradually increase SIPs every year as income grows.

Emergency Fund – A Good Buffer

– You have Rs 20 lakhs as an emergency fund.
– Do not use it for investments.
– Keep this in liquid mutual funds or ultra-short-term funds.
– Ensure it grows slightly, beating inflation.

Health and Term Insurance – Covered, But Review Annually

– Government health and term insurance are valuable.
– Please review policy cover amount annually.
– With rising costs, private top-up plans may be required later.
– Ensure your wife has separate term insurance as well.

Asset Allocation – Balance of Growth and Safety

– Your investment horizon is 20-30 years.
– You can afford high equity allocation.
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80% in equity mutual funds

20% in debt mutual funds or conservative hybrid funds
– This allocation balances growth with some stability.
– Review yearly and rebalance if asset mix shifts.

Why Mutual Funds – Powerful Wealth Creation Tool

– Mutual funds are ideal for long-term investors.
– They offer diversification and professional fund management.
– You benefit from expert research and risk control.
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Regular Funds vs Direct Funds – Choose Wisely

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– Mistakes can cost lakhs over time.
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– You get portfolio review, tax planning, rebalancing, and behavioural coaching.
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Debt Mutual Funds – For Stability and Liquidity

– Use debt mutual funds for your 20% allocation.
– Choose high-quality short-duration funds or conservative hybrid funds.
– These give stability without locking funds like FDs.
– Returns are better than savings account, though not very high.
– Be aware: Taxed as per your income slab.
– Use only for parking funds or reducing overall volatility.

SIP Strategy – Build Step by Step

– Start SIPs across diversified equity mutual funds.
– Include large-cap, flexi-cap, mid-cap, and focused funds.
– Start with 3 to 5 good funds.
– Add more only if your income and SIP size grows.
– Review SIP performance yearly.
– Increase SIP amount by 10% yearly to match income growth.
– Stay invested during market dips. Avoid panic withdrawal.

Retirement Planning – Not Just Numbers

– Planning is not only about investing.
– You must plan post-retirement expenses and lifestyle too.
– Consider healthcare, hobbies, family support, and legacy.
– Plan for income stream, not just a lump sum.
– Think about Systematic Withdrawal Plans (SWP) after retirement.
– Withdraw monthly from mutual funds tax-efficiently.

Tax-Efficient Withdrawal – Protect Your Income

– Avoid fixed deposit-type withdrawals after retirement.
– They attract full tax.
– Instead, withdraw from equity mutual funds using SWP.
– Use capital gains tax slab wisely.
– Keep gains under Rs 1.25 lakh LTCG to pay 0 tax.
– Plan withdrawal across financial years smartly.
– A Certified Financial Planner can structure this better.

Review Existing Policies – If Any

– You did not mention having LIC, ULIP, or investment-insurance policies.
– If you have any such policies from past, please review them.
– These often give low returns and high charges.
– Consider surrendering and switching to mutual funds.
– Reinvest in equity mutual funds for better long-term results.

Monitoring and Annual Review – Must Be Ongoing

– Retirement planning is not set-and-forget.
– Review progress once a year.
– Rebalance portfolio to maintain asset allocation.
– Track fund performance.
– Remove consistently underperforming funds.
– Add new funds if needed.
– Increase SIPs as income rises.

Behavioural Discipline – Key to Wealth Creation

– Avoid pausing SIPs during market fall.
– Never withdraw due to market fear.
– Follow asset allocation even during bull runs.
– Avoid chasing returns.
– Focus on long-term wealth and financial freedom.

Spouse Involvement – Shared Financial Vision

– Involve your wife in financial planning.
– Align both your goals and expectations.
– Share access and awareness of investments.
– Nominate each other across all investments.

Goal Segmentation – More Than Retirement

– Retirement is one goal.
– You may plan for home, travel, children, etc. later.
– Tag SIPs to separate goals.
– Avoid mixing short-term needs with long-term investments.

Investing Through MFD With CFP Support – A 360° Solution

– An MFD with Certified Financial Planner support gives complete handholding.
– You get right asset mix, fund selection, rebalancing, tax strategies, and emotional control.
– They help with realignment when life stages change.
– You avoid DIY mistakes and emotional investing traps.
– This creates peace of mind with professional insight.

Finally

– You are in a strong financial position.
– Early action can build Rs 10 to 14 crore comfortably.
– Stick to SIPs in regular mutual funds with proper asset allocation.
– Avoid direct funds and index funds due to lack of strategy and support.
– Track inflation, rebalance, and increase SIP every year.
– Trust the power of compounding and professional guidance.
– Early retirement is possible with discipline, commitment, and right choices.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 01, 2025Hindi
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Sir my jee CRL rank is 310693 and my caste is sc and my hs is assam is their any chances of getting nit iiit or gfti in csab . Sir please tell me
Ans: Your SC Category Rank?
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Sir sc categories rank 18653
Ans: For an SC Category JEE Main rank of 18,653 and a General category rank of 310,693 with Assam as your home state, your chances of securing Computer Science or related branches in top NITs through CSAB Special Rounds are limited, as most closing SC ranks for CSE at core NITs—including NIT Silchar—remain below 8,000–12,000, even after special rounds. However, at Assam University Silchar, GFTIs, and select new IIITs and NITs (for circuit branches or less in-demand specializations), closing ranks for the SC category often extend much higher—sometimes beyond 18,000 for non-core branches or new locations, particularly for home state quota. CSAB rounds routinely witness drops in closing ranks due to vacant seats, maximizing the possibility of admission into peripheral branches, interdisciplinary programs, or at newer institutes. Analysis of recent years’ data shows that GFTIs and certain IIITs accept SC category ranks comparable or above your range; at Assam University Silchar (a GFTI), for example, SC closing ranks have gone much higher, making BTech seats realistic for you. Utilization of special counseling rounds and diverse preferences significantly increases your likelihood of gaining a seat.

Recommendation: For your SC rank, actively participate in CSAB rounds, prioritize Assam-based or northeastern NITs, IIITs, and all GFTIs, and apply widely to peripheral branches for higher success—your SC rank provides a reasonable shot at admission, especially if you include non-core specializations and emerging institutes within your preference list. Have 2-3 Private Engineering Collges of Assam as back-ups instead of relying only on CSAB. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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