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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Oct 05, 2024

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Vishwa Question by Vishwa on Oct 05, 2024
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I am now 52, i have problem correct at 3 am in (night), i cannot control. My part get hard like rod. I haven't made relationship with my wife since 12 years, after she delivered 2 childerns. I cannot control on my sex after 15 days i need. I have one partner but she is not available aways . I want to reduce my sex. what to do.

Ans: Dear Vishwa,
Seek the help of a medical expert for this please.
And oh, it can be useful to channel that energy into sports or the gym during the day so that you can get a good night's sleep.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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im 62 yrs old have no urge for sex but my wife interested
Ans: It's not uncommon for individuals to experience changes in their sexual desire as they age. A decreased libido can be influenced by various factors, including hormonal changes, stress, medical conditions, medication side effects, and relationship dynamics. It's important to remember that everyone's sexual desire is unique, and what's most important is open and honest communication with your partner to navigate this situation.

Here are some steps to consider:

Communicate: Talk to your wife openly and honestly about your feelings and concerns. Let her know that it's not a reflection of your feelings for her, but rather a natural change that you're experiencing.
Seek medical advice: It's a good idea to consult a healthcare professional to rule out any underlying medical issues that might be affecting your libido. They can offer guidance on potential treatments or lifestyle changes.
Counseling or therapy: Consider seeking the help of a therapist or counselor who specializes in sexual issues or relationships. They can provide guidance and strategies for improving your sexual relationship and communication.
Lifestyle changes: Maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including regular exercise, a balanced diet, and managing stress, can positively impact your overall well-being, including your sexual health.
Intimacy: While you may not feel the same level of sexual desire, you can still nurture emotional and physical intimacy with your partner through cuddling, hugging, kissing, and spending quality time together.
Experimentation: You and your wife can explore new ways of being intimate that don't necessarily involve sexual intercourse. Finding what works for both of you and focusing on mutual pleasure can be a fulfilling alternative.
Remember, there is no one-size-fits-all solution to changes in sexual desire, and it's essential to be patient and understanding with yourself and your partner. If you both are willing to work together and communicate openly, you can find ways to maintain a satisfying and fulfilling relationship.

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Oct 05, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Oct 02, 2024Hindi
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Hi Madam. I am married from last one and half years now, there has been numerous fights in between small and big ones both. In between this time I have become a mother, and, my baby is 7 months old now. My husband does nothing, did nothing in past one and half years. He is only occupied with his work all the time, he goes to office everyday mostly. Right now my baby is 7 months old and from last 7 months me and my parents are taking care of the baby. And, he absolutely shows no understanding when it comes to looking after the baby. Am also a working person. Moreover I pay all the bills when it comes to getting household stuff, paying rent, all the expenses related to baby. He is so shameless that he just doesn’t care too, when I pick these topics or raise concerns about handling the baby he gets abusive. I am not sure what to do now! How insensible can a person get if no one sees my husband would never feel that person like him exist in this world. I feel like filing a divorce petition now. He was the one who wanted to have baby so soon. I was never ready. Now when I have the baby I am the only person along with my parents and sister looking after the baby.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Your husband wants a family without responsibilities and that's why neither is he interested in the baby nor in paying the bills...This is not just insensitivity but lack of emotional immaturity and the unwillingness to take on responsibilities head on...Approach a senior male member within the family who is someone that has been a role model to others in terms executing family responsibilities and is also caring and affectionate. This person can appeal to your husband and talk some sense into him.

If there's no one that fits the bill, the only option is to go to a professional for Couples Therapy. There's a reason why your husband avoids his duties as a husband and father and that needs to be uncovered and sorted out. It will also help the two of bond and connect better. Make this attempt before jumping into divorce; separating is a whole different world that comes with its own set of challenges and with the baby now in the picture, work at the marriage and putting things together.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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Hi, I am interested in retail angel investing for startups. I have heard that there are platforms where retail investors can start investment with as less as 50K or 1 lakh. Is it true? And is it legal? If it is, can you kindly inform me of a few platforms where I can join and invest. Thank you.
Ans: Yes, retail angel investing for the startup is definitely possible; however, it is perfectly legal in India if it happens according to the rules and regulations provided by SEBI- The Securities and Exchange Board of India. One would say that angel investing is all about being a rich person. Well, not anymore. Today, with some of the online portals, you can even invest in starting up with as little as ?50,000 or ?1 lakh. That is a huge plus for retail investors like you who would like to support early-stage ventures but do not have big amounts of capital.

You must be wondering if really small amounts of investment are legal. The good news is that, yes, they are, but they have to happen through regulated channels. SEBI has put forth guidelines under the Alternative Investment Fund (AIF) category so that the process is above board. These platforms connect investors to startups in a structured way and offer transparency with legal safety. Therefore, it is a very risky proposition- the very nature of angel investing means you're essentially betting on new startups. Most of the time, companies either hit huge or hit nothing. Therefore, as mentioned before, legal and accessible always consider the risks and make the right decision.

About the platforms, in India, few are especially for retail investors looking for angel investing. A few of the popular ones are AngelList, LetsVenture, and Tyke. Here you have all these startups at different levels looking to raise funds. It enables you to go through the startups, see what their business models are, and pick the ones you find believable to have some potential. What's so fascinating about these platforms is the way they help to amalgamate smaller investments coming in from many individuals to cater to the needs of the startup. So, even if you are just putting in ?1 lakh, you become a part of a much larger group of investors, making it relatively easy for the startup to raise funds as required.

Now, although your investment sum is smaller, this also has to be approached with caution. You will have to research the backgrounds of these startups, their business plans, and the sectors they focus on. Given that this is a game of high risks, you also want to invest in a few different kinds of startups to differentiate your risk a bit. Furthermore, the other thing that might build up from these platforms would be the provision of access to due diligence reports and investor meetups, which would make you even more confident in making decisions regarding your investments.

In short, Yes, you can begin angel investing with relatively small amounts and some platforms help retail investors like you to get legally involved and safely. Just do your homework right, do some more research, talk to people who have been in the same situation, take some risks, and be patient- it's all part of the exciting journey of startup investing.

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