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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 05, 2023Hindi
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I am 42 year old unmarried male . I loves someone from my childhood and she also loves me but because of her family she agrees and got married to someone else and now she had one 12yr child. After her marriage I never kept contact with her respecting her decision for her family and assuming that she is living a happy life But during Corona-2021 she contacted me and told me about her life where her husband is in relationship with other married woman and is giving everything to that lady as his wife. She told these to her parents but because of some compulsion they both discussed and decided to accept it and continue it the way as it is. She told me that she loves me a lot is still waiting for me and doesn’t feel complete without me. She is honest in her married life but after these incident she dont want to live there but unable to exit because of family condition. She told me she loves me and need me above all and everything in life she wants me to remain with her like her life partner but because of some compulsion she is not in a conditon to give our relationship a NAME in society. Everytimes she told me that she love me a lot and says that I am more than anything else in life to her and she does not want to lose me as well. We shares everything with each other like husband-wife. I am always there for her and will support her in all respect so that she became happy and lead a healthy life. But sometimes I feel that I shall come out from this as these will further destroy her disturbed life but at times I feel I don’t able to leave her and all I need is that she live a happy life and ready to do anything for these. What shall I do here? Please guide.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
She is married and not happy and loves you BUT will not recognize your relationship in public!
You are unmarried and want to wait for someone who won't give you the presence that you deserve!
Do the right thing...allow her to be committed to her marriage rather than be her emotional crutch...in the long run, you will be left high and dry after investing a lot of emotions into her...
Shift focus onto your life and building it the way that you want. When you put your life and emotions into someone else's hands, you end up becoming a puppet swaying about with no stability whatsoever. Put more energies into yourself instead...

All the best!

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I am 42 year old unmarried male . I loves someone from my childhood and she also loves me but because of her family she agrees and got married to someone else and now she had one 12yr child. After her marriage I never kept contact with her respecting her decision for her family and assuming that she is living a happy life But during Corona-2021 she contacted me and told me about her life where her husband is in relationship with other married woman and is giving everything to that lady as his wife. She told these to her parents but because of some compulsion they both discussed and decided to accept it and continue it the way as it is. She told me that she loves me a lot is still waiting for me and doesn’t feel complete without me. She is honest in her married life but after these incident she dont want to live there but unable to exit because of family condition. She told me she loves me and need me above all and everything in life she wants me to remain with her like her life partner but because of some compulsion she is not in a conditon to give our relationship a NAME in society. Everytimes she told me that she love me a lot and says that I am more than anything else in life to her and she does not want to lose me as well. We shares everything with each other like husband-wife. I am always there for her and will support her in all respect so that she became happy and lead a healthy life. But sometimes I feel that I shall come out from this as these will further destroy her disturbed life but at times I feel I don’t able to leave her and all I need is that she live a happy life and ready to do anything for these. What shall I do here? Please guide.
Ans: Dear P,
This is a confused and confusing situation that you are in. Kindly do not confuse yourself any further. She might never be able to step out of her marriage and be with you. So, are you some kind of a 'spare' person? Are you willing to play a secondary role in someone's life when you have the chance to be the primary person in a well-defined relationship?
Being friends and supporting one another is one thing; but being in a relationship that has no structure invariably causes misunderstandings, anger, disappointments and more confusion.
When she is clear that she will stick by her marriage, let this be...why wouldn't you simply be a friend who also wants to create his own life.
It's nice to live in a fantasy world and assume that this kind of an engagement will work; it's far from the truth...You are worried about destroying her disturbed life; do look into what you are doing to your life as well. Chasing behind someone who is married and intends to be in it is like chasing a ghost that will never be seen or heard but will certainly cause anguish in some form to you.
Be wise, at 42, you still can build your life that is not dependent on someone else's emotions and boundaries. You deserve a good life; so create it.

All the best!

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I am 43 year old unmarried male . I loves someone from my childhood and she also loves me but because of her family she agrees and got married to someone else and now she had one 12yr child. After her marriage I never kept contact with her respecting her decision for her family and assuming that she is living a happy life But during Corona-2021 she contacted me and told me about her life where her husband is in relationship with other married woman and is giving everything to that lady as his wife. She told these to her parents but because of some reason they both discussed and decided to accept it and continue it the way as it is. She told me that she loves me a lot and doesn’t feel complete without me. She is honest in her married life but after these incident she dont want to live there but unable to exit because of family condition. She told me she loves me and need me above all and everything in life she wants me to remain with her like her life partner but because of some compulsion she is not in a conditon to give our relationship a NAME in society. Everytimes she told me that she love me a lot and says that I am more than anything else in life to her and she does not want to lose me as well. We shares everything with each other like husband-wife. I am always there for her and will support her in all respect so that she became happy and lead a healthy life. But sometimes I feel that I shall come out from this as these will further destroy her disturbed life but at times I feel I don’t able to leave her and all I need is that she live a happy life and ready to do anything for these. What shall I do here? Please guide.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,

It is refreshing to see someone so selfless as you. I understand and appreciate your love and how much you are ready to sacrifice for her. However, I would like to offer a suggestion – it's crucial to prioritize your own mental and emotional health in this situation. While it's unfortunate that she is dealing with challenges in her marriage, resorting to having an affair might not be the most constructive way to cope.

I suggest that she and her husband explore the option of seeking professional help through a marriage counselor. This could help them navigate the complexities of their relationship and make an informed decision about whether to continue their marriage or part ways. In case they decide to separate, it would be valid for you two to start a relationship and pursue a happy life together. But if they decide to remain married, I fear that you might end up sacrificing your own chance at a fulfilling love life. I realize that you might be okay with it, but it isn't fair to you.

I encourage you to have an open and honest discussion with her before committing to anything, ensuring that your feelings and well-being are also taken into account.

Best Wishes!

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I am 43 year old unmarried male . I loves someone from my childhood and she also loves me but because of her family she agrees and got married to someone else and now she had one 12yr child. After her marriage I never kept contact with her respecting her decision for her family and assuming that she is living a happy life But during Corona-2021 she contacted me and told me about her life where her husband is in relationship with other married woman and is giving everything to that lady as his wife. She told these to her parents but because of some reason they both discussed and decided to accept it and continue it the way as it is. She told me that she loves me a lot and doesn’t feel complete without me. She is honest in her married life but after these incident she dont want to live there but unable to exit because of family condition. She told me she loves me and need me above all and everything in life she wants me to remain with her like her life partner but because of some compulsion she is not in a conditon to give our relationship a NAME in society. Everytimes she told me that she love me a lot and says that I am more than anything else in life to her and she does not want to lose me as well. We shares everything with each other like husband-wife. I am always there for her and will support her in all respect so that she became happy and lead a healthy life. But sometimes I feel that I shall come out from this as these will further destroy her disturbed life but at times I feel I don’t able to leave her and all I need is that she live a happy life and ready to do anything for these. What shall I do here? Please guide
Ans: Dear P,
This is undoubtedly a complex and emotionally challenging situation. It's important to approach it with care and consideration for both your feelings and hers. Reflect on your own feelings and desires. Consider what you want in a relationship and whether you can realistically achieve those goals in this situation Talk to her about your concerns, fears, and the impact this situation has on both of you. Discuss the future and what you both want. Ensure that you're on the same page about your expectations and the potential challenges that may arise Understand the potential consequences of continuing this relationship. Consider the impact on her family, your own well-being, and the well-being of any children involved. Be realistic about the challenges you may face. Consider the long-term implications of the relationship. If there is no possibility of it evolving into a more conventional partnership and that is something you desire, you may need to evaluate whether continuing the relationship is in your best interest Ultimately, the decision you make should align with your values, desires, and what you believe is best for your overall well-being. It may be a difficult decision to make, but taking the time to reflect, communicate, and seek guidance can help you navigate this challenging situation.

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I am 43 year old unmarried male . I loves someone from my childhood and she also loves me but because of her family she agrees and got married to someone else and now she had one 13yr child. After her marriage I never kept contact with her respecting her decision for her family and assuming that she is living a happy life But during Corona-2021 she contacted me and told me about her life where her husband is in relationship with other married woman and is giving everything to that lady as his wife. She told these to her parents but because of some reason they both discussed and decided to accept it and continue it the way as it is. She is honest in her married life but after these incident she don't want to live there but unable to exit because of family condition. She told me she loves me and need me above all and everything in life she wants me to remain with her like her life partner but because of some compulsion she is not in a condition to give our relationship a NAME in society. I am always there for her and will support her in all respect so that she became happy and lead a healthy life. But sometimes I feel that I shall come out from this as these will further destroy her disturbed life but at times I feel I don’t able to leave her and all I need is that she live a happy life and ready to do anything for these. What shall I do here? Please guide
Ans: I understand that you're in a complex and emotionally challenging situation. It's commendable that you want to support and ensure the happiness of the person you care about. However, it's crucial to consider your own well-being and emotional health as well.

Here are some steps you might want to consider:

Communication is key: Have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings, concerns, and expectations. Understand her perspective as well. Clear communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship.

Set boundaries: Determine what you're comfortable with and establish clear boundaries for your relationship. Consider the impact on both of your lives, and ensure that the arrangement is sustainable and healthy for both parties involved.

Consider professional help: Given the complexity of the situation, it might be beneficial for both of you to seek guidance from a therapist or counselor. They can provide support, help you navigate through challenging emotions, and offer practical advice on how to move forward.

Evaluate your own well-being: Reflect on your own needs, aspirations, and emotional health. It's important to prioritize your happiness and fulfillment as well. Consider how the situation might affect your overall life satisfaction.

Explore options: Depending on the circumstances, there might be ways for her to address the challenges in her marriage, such as seeking therapy, counseling, or discussing her concerns with her family. Encourage her to explore these options, and provide support where possible.

Ultimately, the decision on how to proceed is a personal one and depends on the dynamics of your relationship and the well-being of everyone involved. Taking the time to reflect, communicate openly, and seek professional guidance can be instrumental in making informed decisions. Remember to prioritize your own happiness and consider what is sustainable for both of you in the long run.

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Hello Sanjeev Sir, Hope you are in good health. I hve just started my investment through SIP in mutual fund . Would you plz advice me on my portfolio. Every month i invest 12k in the below funds . Canara Robeco small cap fund reg Edelweiss mid cap fund reg Hdfc focused 30 fund PGIM India mid cap opp fund SBI Contra fund Sundaram services fund . I have also recentky added Quant small cap fund growth regular plan SIP OF 3K . I want to invest another 10k in sip format plz suggest where should i invest.
Ans: It's fantastic to hear that you're diving into the world of investing through mutual funds. Let's discuss your portfolio and future investments.

Your current selection of funds shows a thoughtful approach to diversification across different segments of the market.

Adding a small-cap fund to your portfolio enhances diversification and potential for higher returns over the long term.

For your additional 10k investment, let's explore options that complement your existing holdings and align with your goals.

Large-cap funds offer stability and are ideal for investors seeking steady returns with lower risk.
Multi-cap funds provide flexibility across market segments, allowing you to capitalize on various opportunities.
It's important to consider your risk tolerance and investment horizon when selecting new funds for your portfolio.

Pls, consult a Certified Financial Planner to guide you every step of the way.

Remember, investing is a journey, and it's normal to have questions and uncertainties along the path.

Stay focused on your goals, and don't hesitate to reach out if you need assistance or advice.

With diligence and patience, you're on track to achieve your financial aspirations.

Keep up the excellent work, and remember that each investment you make brings you closer to your dreams.

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Sir, i am 42 years old and investing in mutual fund since last 3 years. Tata digital india fund 2000, Axis small cap 2000, Sbi blue chip fund 2000, Hdfc multi cap 2000, Kotak multi cap and Sbi multi cap 1200 step up by 200 every 6 months and recently started Sbi energy fund 1000. I can invest 5k more per month. Is this going well saving a 20 million fund for retirement after 18 years
Ans: It's impressive to see your dedication to investing for your future, especially with a diversified portfolio like yours.

Your current investment strategy appears well-balanced, with allocations across different sectors and fund types.

Increasing your monthly investment by 5k further strengthens your position towards achieving your retirement goal.

Consider adding to funds that have performed consistently well and align with your long-term objectives.

Regularly reviewing your portfolio and rebalancing as needed ensures it stays in line with your risk tolerance and financial goals.

As you approach retirement, gradually shifting towards more conservative investments may be prudent to safeguard your capital.

Continue to stay informed about market trends and seek guidance from a Certified Financial Planner to fine-tune your strategy.

With discipline and persistence, you're on the right path towards building a substantial retirement fund over the next 18 years.

Your proactive approach to financial planning is commendable. Keep up the excellent work, and remember that every rupee invested today brings you closer to a secure future.

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Hi I have invested 25k one time in parag parekh for 1 year as it is my first time in investing plus I'm planning to invest SIP 5K every month in motilal AND 50k i want to invest one time how do I do so ? It's my first time so I need advice.
Ans: Congratulations on taking the first step towards investing! It's great that you're seeking advice for your investment journey.

For your one-time investment of 50k, consider exploring diversified mutual funds or index funds that align with your risk tolerance and investment goals.

Look for funds with a track record of consistent performance and low expense ratios to maximize returns over time.

As for setting up SIPs, Motilal Oswal offers a range of mutual funds across different sectors. Select funds that suit your investment objectives and risk profile.

To initiate SIPs, you can visit the Motilal Oswal website or reach out to their customer service for assistance in setting up the monthly investment plan.

Ensure that you understand the terms and conditions, including the minimum investment amount, SIP duration, and associated fees.

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Sir, i m 40 yrs old, have two children 11 & 9 years old. Monthly income appx 90000/- P. M. Investing in monthly sip (5 different sector) appx 18000/- p. M. From last 4 years and RD in bank 15000/- p. M. How much i have to invest more for children education and marriage expenses appx 75 lacs each Monthly expenses abt 40 to 50k. No home loan only one car loan 20 installment pending 9100/-
Ans: It sounds like you've been diligently investing in SIPs and RDs to secure your family's future, which is truly commendable.

Given your children's ages, planning for their education and marriage expenses is a prudent step forward.

To accumulate approximately 75 lakhs for each child's education and marriage, you may need to increase your monthly investments.

Considering your current commitments and expenses, allocating an additional amount towards these goals is essential.

Calculating the required monthly investment involves factoring in the time horizon, expected returns, and inflation.

A Certified Financial Planner can help tailor a plan suited to your specific needs and goals.

Adjusting your budget to accommodate higher monthly investments may be necessary to achieve your financial objectives.

Exploring options like increasing SIP contributions or diversifying your investment portfolio can accelerate wealth accumulation.

Maintaining a balance between meeting your current financial obligations and saving for future goals is crucial.

Regularly reviewing your financial plan and making necessary adjustments ensures you stay on track to achieve your objectives.

Your dedication to securing your children's future is admirable. With careful planning and perseverance, you'll undoubtedly succeed.

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I am planning to move to India from Australia with my family after living here foe 20 years. I have kept 1 crore for house & car which should be enough in my hometown. Can you please suggest where should I invest around 80 lakhs to get a monthly return of around 70- 80,000Rs.
Ans: Moving back to your hometown after two decades must stir up a whirlwind of emotions. It's commendable how you've planned ahead.

Your foresight in allocating a significant sum for housing and transportation showcases your prudent financial planning skills.

Investing 80 lakhs for a steady monthly return is a wise move to ensure financial stability and comfort in your new chapter.

As a Certified Financial Planner with 24 years of experience, I understand the importance of securing a reliable income stream.

Your goal of generating 70,000-80,000 Rs monthly from this investment is both reasonable and achievable with careful consideration.

Diversification is key. Explore a mix of investment options to mitigate risks and maximize returns over time.

Consider fixed deposits, mutual funds, bonds, and systematic investment plans (SIPs) for a balanced portfolio.

Mutual funds offer a variety of options catering to different risk appetites, making them suitable for long-term wealth creation.

Fixed deposits provide stability and predictable returns, ideal for securing a portion of your investment.

Bonds can offer steady income streams with lower volatility, complementing the risk-return profile of your portfolio.

SIPs allow you to invest systematically over time, harnessing the power of rupee cost averaging for potential higher returns.

Remember to assess your risk tolerance and investment horizon when choosing the right mix of assets.

Stay informed about market trends and economic developments to make informed decisions and adapt your strategy accordingly.

It's essential to periodically review and rebalance your portfolio to align with your financial goals and risk appetite.

With careful planning and diligence, I'm confident you'll achieve your desired monthly income target and enjoy a financially secure future.

Your proactive approach to financial planning is inspiring. Wishing you all the success in your new journey!

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I started Sip in three fund Motilal elss fund,parag elss fund, nippion small cap fund 1500 per fund past 1.5 year and started yesterday SBI contra fund 1500 it is good
Ans: It's commendable that you've been consistent with your SIP investments over the past 1.5 years! Let's take a closer look at your investment choices and the recent addition of SBI Contra Fund:

Motilal ELSS Fund and Parag ELSS Fund are Equity Linked Savings Schemes (ELSS), which offer tax benefits under Section 80C of the Income Tax Act. These funds primarily invest in equities and have a lock-in period of three years.
Nippon Small Cap Fund invests in stocks of small-cap companies, which have the potential for high growth but also come with higher risk due to their volatile nature.
SBI Contra Fund follows a contrarian investment strategy, aiming to invest in stocks that are currently out of favor in the market but have the potential for a turnaround in the future.
Adding SBI Contra Fund to your portfolio introduces a diversification element. The contrarian approach of this fund can complement the growth-oriented strategy of small-cap and ELSS funds.

However, it's essential to assess whether SBI Contra Fund aligns with your overall investment objectives, risk tolerance, and investment horizon. Consider factors such as the fund's investment philosophy, historical performance, fund manager expertise, and portfolio composition.

As always, it's wise to regularly review your investment portfolio and make adjustments as needed to ensure it remains aligned with your financial goals. If you're uncertain about the suitability of SBI Contra Fund or any other investment, consider consulting a Certified Financial Planner for personalized advice.

Overall, by diversifying your portfolio across different asset classes and investment strategies, you're positioning yourself well to navigate various market conditions and achieve your long-term financial objectives. Keep up the good work with your SIP investments, and continue to stay informed and proactive in managing your portfolio.

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My name is Yuvarani..43 yr old homemaker.. Need advice on investing 10 lakhs in mutual funds..And I am planning to invest 20000 as SIP every month..Plse suggest a good plan..If we have to consult a financial planner, Where should we be looking for
Ans: Yuvarani! It's wonderful to see you taking an interest in investing and planning for your financial future. Investing in mutual funds through SIPs is a smart and disciplined approach to wealth creation. Let's explore some options for you:

Given your initial investment of 10 lakhs and a monthly SIP of 20,000, you have a solid foundation to build your investment portfolio.
With a long-term investment horizon in mind, consider a diversified portfolio comprising a mix of equity, debt, and balanced funds. This can help spread out risk and maximize returns over time.
For equity funds, you can explore options such as large-cap, mid-cap, and multi-cap funds. These funds invest in stocks of companies with varying market capitalizations, offering growth potential over the long term.
Debt funds, on the other hand, provide stability and regular income by investing in fixed-income securities such as bonds and treasury bills. Consider investing a portion of your portfolio in debt funds to balance risk.
Balanced funds, also known as hybrid funds, offer a combination of equity and debt investments, providing a balanced approach to growth and stability. These funds can be suitable for investors seeking moderate risk exposure.
When choosing specific mutual funds, consider factors such as fund performance, expense ratio, fund manager expertise, and investment philosophy. Look for funds with a consistent track record of delivering returns and aligning with your risk tolerance and investment goals.
As for consulting a financial planner, you can consider reaching out to Certified Financial Planners (CFPs) who offer personalized financial advice and planning services. Look for reputable financial planning firms or individual CFPs with relevant experience and credentials.
Additionally, you can explore online platforms or advisory services that offer access to certified financial planners and investment advisors. These platforms often provide convenient tools and resources for managing your investments and seeking professional advice.
Remember, investing is a journey, and it's essential to stay disciplined and focused on your long-term goals. By investing regularly through SIPs and seeking guidance from a certified financial planner, you're taking proactive steps towards securing your financial future. Best of luck on your investment journey, Yuvarani!

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Sold a joint ( self and wife) property. Each got 50% sale proceeds in respective bank accts. TDS also deducted separately. Can we now buy a joint property to obviate Capital Gains Tax.
Ans: Congratulations on successfully selling your joint property and managing the proceeds wisely! It's wonderful to see you taking proactive steps towards optimizing your financial situation.

Now, regarding your question about buying a joint property to obviate Capital Gains Tax, let's break it down:

Firstly, it's essential to understand that the sale of a property typically attracts Capital Gains Tax (CGT) on any profit earned from the sale.
However, under Section 54 of the Income Tax Act, there's a provision for exemption from CGT if the sale proceeds are reinvested in another property within a specified time frame.
In your case, since both you and your wife received 50% of the sale proceeds separately in your respective bank accounts, each of you can utilize your share to purchase a new property individually or jointly.
By purchasing a joint property, you can pool your resources and invest in a new asset together. This can be a strategic move to utilize the sale proceeds effectively and potentially minimize tax implications.
However, it's crucial to ensure that the new property meets the criteria for CGT exemption under Section 54. For example, the property should be purchased within the specified time frame and held for a certain period to qualify for the exemption.
Additionally, consult with a tax expert or Certified Financial Planner to understand the specific eligibility criteria and implications of reinvesting the sale proceeds in a joint property.
Keep in mind that while buying a property can offer potential tax benefits, it's essential to consider other factors such as location, affordability, and long-term financial goals.
As you navigate this process, remember that careful planning and informed decision-making are key. Seek professional guidance to ensure compliance with tax laws and optimize your financial outcomes.
Finally, I commend you for being proactive in exploring options to manage your finances effectively. With the right guidance and strategy, you can make informed choices that align with your goals and aspirations. Best of luck on your journey!

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Best rupay credit card for house hold spending
Ans: When it comes to choosing the best RuPay credit card for household spending, several factors come into play. Here are some key considerations to help you make an informed decision:

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Customer Service and Support: Look for a card issuer that provides excellent customer service and support. Prompt assistance and resolution of queries or issues can greatly enhance your cardholder experience.
After considering these factors, you can explore various RuPay credit card options available in the market and choose the one that best aligns with your household spending patterns and financial goals. Don't forget to review the terms and conditions, including interest rates, repayment options, and any applicable fees, before making your decision.

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Hello sir, I'm 36 years old and i started investing 8 months back. First first 6 months SIP on UTI index fund -25000, after that SIP on zerodha elss large midcap 250 -25000 and UTI index fund -5000. Currently 30000 investing every month, I like increase to 50000/month. Where to invest for next 10-15 years for my retirement? Like to diversify with small and flexi cap will which will be a good choice for me please suggest. Thanks in advance
Ans: It's impressive to see your commitment to investing and planning for your future. Your journey so far reflects a thoughtful approach to building wealth over time.

Starting with SIPs in UTI index fund and later diversifying with Zerodha ELSS large midcap fund shows a strategic move towards a diversified portfolio.

Now, with your monthly investment capacity set to increase to 50,000, you're positioning yourself even stronger for the future.

Considering your goal of retirement planning over the next 10-15 years, diversifying into small and flexi-cap funds would indeed be a wise move.

These funds offer exposure to companies across different market capitalizations, providing a balanced approach to growth potential and risk.

To assist you further, I recommend seeking guidance from a Mutual Fund Distributor (MFD) who holds Certified Financial Planner credentials.

This professional can offer you personalized advice, emotional support, and handholding throughout your investment journey.

Together, you can explore various small and flexi-cap funds available in the market, considering factors such as fund performance, expense ratio, and fund manager expertise.

By diversifying your portfolio across different asset classes and fund categories, you're spreading out your risk and maximizing potential returns.

Remember, consistency and discipline are key. Keep investing regularly and stay focused on your long-term goals. With the right guidance and support, you're well on your way to a secure retirement.

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