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12 Year Old Daughter Disrespectful and Aggressive: How Can I Help?

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Feb 14, 2025

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 13, 2025Hindi

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12 year old daughter not respecting parents and arguing in every matter whether study or anything else, showing no manners. Always fighting with her younger sister who is 5 year old.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
At 12, a girl is at the cusp of puberty and her hormones are going to be all over the place. Her body is changing, her moods are changing...who else other than the family that can support her with a lot of love at this time.
Yes, she may seem like she has lost manners; talk softly and ask her what is it that can help her calm down?
Yes, she may seem like she has lost interest in studies; talk softly and ask her what you can do to help her?

When you give her the feeling that you understand her, she will automatically feel reassured and calmed and will get back her focus. No amount of screaming and yelling is going to help; so don't even try that path...it will only push her back more...Lot of love and support...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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