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Should I Continue Working After Receiving Pension Scheme Letter?

Milind Vadjikar |858 Answers |Ask -Follow

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Question by Arun on Nov 28, 2024Hindi

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Yes i have worked for 10 years and i am also pension scheme letter issued by epfo office for that period.

Ans: Hello;

You may claim EPS pension by submitting form 10(D) alongwith with copies of your scheme certificates, kyc to the assigned EPFO.

However I would suggest to wait till you complete 58 years, if possible, else you may get reduced pension now.

Best wishes;

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I was a member of epfo from March'2007 to April 2021 in two different companies, my dob is 20-04-1965, now i am 58+ age , am i eligible for pension and how can i apply for the same, i had not withdrawn my pf as yet, please guide on the same also.

Ans: You can start your pension from EPF in the following circumstances:
• At the age of 58: This is the normal age of retirement for EPF members. If you have completed 10 years of service, you will be eligible to start your pension at the age of 58.
• After the age of 60: If you defer your pension beyond the age of 58, you will be eligible to receive a higher pension amount. For every year that you defer your pension, you will receive an additional 4% of your pension amount.
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Hi, I am about 50 years old, having a EPFO account, Can I claim for early pension at 50 years, if I am unemployed ,Please advice

Ans: Early Pension from EPFO at 50? Let's explore your options.
Thinking about early pension? That's a big decision! Here's what you need to know about the EPFO and early pension:

Eligibility for Early Pension:

The Employees' Provident Fund Organisation (EPFO) allows early pension, but there's a catch!

You can withdraw your EPF corpus and claim a reduced pension if:

You are at least 50 years old.
You have completed 10 years of service.
Reduced Pension:

Choosing early pension before the standard retirement age of 58 means a lower pension amount.

Your pension is calculated based on your salary and service period. With early withdrawal, the calculation considers fewer years, reducing the final pension amount.

Are you unemployed?

Being unemployed doesn't affect your eligibility for early pension if you meet the service requirement (10 years).

Before you decide:

Early pension reduces your monthly income. Consider your financial needs and other retirement savings.
A lower pension can impact your long-term financial security.
Consulting a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) can help:

They can assess your situation and recommend the best course of action based on your goals and financial health.
They can help you understand the impact of early pension on your retirement income.
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Early pension is an option, but it comes with reduced benefits.
Careful planning is crucial to ensure a comfortable retirement.
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Sir thank you for your prompt reply. I have the following queries: 1. As I have completed 10 years of service, can I still withdraw complete EPS amount. 2. For getting pension immediately after retirement as I understand I need to fill form 10D. Can this form be filed online also. 3. After I retire when should I submit the form 10D to EPFO Office to start getting pension. 4. I would be retiring on 30th April 2024 so for how many years can I earn interest on my EPF Account without withdrawing it and what would be my last date by which I should apply for the claim. 5. While applying for the EPF Account after the maximum extended period possible can I apply for the claim online. Thanking you in advance.

Ans: Certainly! Let’s address your queries regarding the Employees’ Pension Scheme (EPS) and the process for pension withdrawal:

EPS Withdrawal After 10 Years of Service:
If you have completed less than 10 years of service or have attained the age of 58 years (whichever is earlier), you are eligible for lump-sum withdrawal from your EPS account.
However, if you have completed 10 or more years of service, you cannot withdraw the EPS amount. Instead, you can opt for a Scheme Certificate by filling Form 10C along with the Composite Claim Form (Aadhaar or Non-Aadhaar).
The Scheme Certificate allows you to transfer your pension benefits if you join another employment later.
Pension will be paid to you after attaining the age of 58 years123.
Filing Form 10D for Immediate Pension:
To receive pension immediately after retirement, you need to fill Form 10D.
Unfortunately, Form 10D cannot be filed online. You’ll need to submit it physically to the EPFO Office.
Submission of Form 10D:
After your retirement, submit Form 10D to the EPFO Office to initiate the process of receiving pension.
Ensure that you complete all necessary documentation accurately.
Interest on EPF Account:
Until you decide to withdraw your EPF amount, it continues to earn interest.
As of now, the interest rate is determined by the EPFO and is subject to change periodically.
Since you are retiring on 30th April 2024, you can continue earning interest until you decide to claim your EPF.
Claiming EPF Account After Maximum Extended Period:
After the maximum extended period (usually 3 years of inactivity), you can still apply for EPF withdrawal.
While the process may not be available online, you can submit the necessary forms physically to the EPFO Office.
Remember to consult with your employer or the EPFO directly for any specific details related to your individual case. Best wishes for your retirement!

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What i have understood from your suggestion is… I have to apply UAN no for the 10 year service (from 1990 to 2000) to the concerned epfo office (i.e epfo Chandigarh). After getting uan no . I should apply for pension. Secondly the period from which i have withdrawn pf and epf pension. That period i have to ignore it for pension benefits. Is i am wright.

Ans: Hello;

Let me simplify this to avoid any confusion:

1. For the work during 2000-2015 you have withdrawn the PF as well as EPS after quitting the jobs hence question of pension payment does not arise.

2. For the period between 1990-1995 only PF may be available since EPS came in 1995.

3. For the period 1995-2000, both PF and EPS may be available.

For withdrawing funds referred to, in points at sr. No. 2 and 3 you may apply personally at the EPF office where your contributions were deposited by your employer of that time.

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Boundaries: It might be time to set boundaries with your ex-wife, especially if staying in contact is causing you more pain. Taking a step back from communication can provide the space you need to heal and gain clarity.
Professional Support: Consider speaking with a therapist or counselor who can help you process your feelings and guide you through the healing journey. Professional support can offer valuable tools and strategies to navigate the complex emotions you’re experiencing.
Remember, healing takes time, and it’s okay to grieve the loss of the relationship. With patience and self-compassion, you can move forward, find peace, and eventually open yourself up to new possibilities and happiness in life.

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Ans: The first step is to acknowledge and respect her current feelings and boundaries. It’s clear she’s navigating her own emotional journey and trying to find clarity in her life. Pressuring her or trying to win her back without considering her current stance may push her further away.

Instead, focus on open and honest communication. If you genuinely care for her, it’s important to express your feelings without being demanding. Share how you feel, but also be willing to listen to her perspective fully. Understand that love and relationships are mutual, and both parties need to feel connected and invested.

During this time, it’s also essential to reflect on your own needs and emotional well-being. Ask yourself if this relationship, as it currently stands, is fulfilling and healthy for you. Relationships can be complicated, and sometimes stepping back to allow both people space to understand their feelings can lead to a clearer path forward, whether that’s together or apart.

Ultimately, your focus should be on building healthy, honest connections and prioritizing emotional well-being for both yourself and the people involved. If there’s a possibility of rekindling the relationship, it will come from mutual understanding, respect, and willingness from both sides.

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