I have a loan of 9 lakhs, monthly emi 26k, trying to pay with credit cards and taken from others, my salary goes to take care of my family needs only, this 10 lakhs is additional for which no source of income, credit card bills are getting another burden to me, max I can clear EMI of loan for another 2months with extra 2.5lakhs credit card due!!
Please suggest me a way to come out from this debt trap! Friends & relatives are not going to help! I alone should struggle to clear these loans! Already working for more than 12hours for my livelihood, so no time to work extra, what to do? How to clear the loans?
Ans: You are carrying a huge burden. Still, you are not giving up. That shows strength.
Now, we need a 360-degree plan to escape this debt trap.
This answer is detailed, practical, and designed to rebuild your financial life.
1. Understand Your Current Debt Burden
Rs. 9 lakhs loan with Rs. 26,000 monthly EMI.
Rs. 2.5 lakhs credit card dues added pressure.
No savings. No help from others.
You are using credit cards to pay EMIs.
This cycle is dangerous and needs to stop now.
2. Respect Your Courage First
You are working over 12 hours every day.
You are managing home needs and family.
Even in this pressure, you are still standing.
You deserve appreciation for not running away.
That self-discipline is your biggest asset.
3. The Truth – You Cannot Continue Like This
This debt trap will grow every month.
Credit card interest is above 36% yearly.
Paying EMI from cards creates bigger problem.
In 2 months, situation will get worse.
4. Take Control – Accept Reality First
You cannot solve this by earning more.
You have no time to work extra.
You must now reset your financial structure.
5. Step One – STOP Using Credit Cards Immediately
Do not swipe them again for anything.
Do not use cards to pay EMI.
Do not pay minimum due only. Pay in full if possible.
6. Step Two – List All Your Debts
Make a simple sheet with 3 columns:
• Amount you owe
• Monthly EMI or bill
• Interest rate
List loan, credit cards, other dues separately.
This gives you full picture of your debt.
7. Step Three – Prioritise Debt Based on Risk
Credit cards come first – they have highest interest.
Unsecured loans come next.
Family debts come last.
8. Step Four – Approach the Lender for Loan Restructuring
Contact the bank or NBFC where you have loan.
Ask for “restructuring” under RBI’s personal loan scheme.
They may allow:
• Lower EMI for longer term
• Temporary EMI holiday for few months
You need to write a request letter to them.
Mention your financial stress and genuine intention to repay.
9. Step Five – Convert Credit Card to Personal Loan
Most banks allow this.
Convert the Rs. 2.5 lakhs into term loan.
That gives fixed EMI and stops interest growth.
Interest on term loan is lesser than card interest.
10. Step Six – Avoid Minimum Payments on Cards
Paying only minimum keeps the card running.
But interest keeps growing every month.
Within 6 months, amount doubles.
11. Step Seven – STOP Any Fresh Loans
Don’t take new loans to repay old ones.
This is not a solution. This is poison.
12. Step Eight – Talk to a Certified Financial Planner
A CFP will guide debt restructuring.
He will suggest repayment plan based on cash flow.
You cannot handle this stress alone.
13. Step Nine – Cut All Non-Essential Expenses
Reduce phone recharge, DTH, fuel usage.
Postpone all festivals, trips, functions, purchases.
Stop all online shopping, gifts, donations temporarily.
14. Step Ten – Pause All Investments for Now
If you are doing SIPs, stop them temporarily.
Your priority now is to clear debts.
SIP can restart later when stable.
15. Step Eleven – Build Emergency Cushion Slowly
Even in tight cash flow, save Rs. 500/month.
Keep in a separate savings account.
This avoids using card for small needs.
16. Emotional Discipline is Now Your Biggest Tool
Say “No” without guilt to social pressure.
Your family must know your full financial truth.
Be honest and take them into confidence.
17. No Shortcuts – Avoid These Traps
Don’t try day trading or crypto schemes.
Don’t fall for quick-money jobs or part-time scams.
Don’t apply for payday loans online.
18. Use Professional Help If Required
There are RBI-registered debt resolution agencies.
They negotiate with banks on your behalf.
They may reduce interest or combine loans.
19. Stay Away from Informal Money Lenders
Never take from local agents or unlicensed lenders.
They can become dangerous if unpaid.
20. Sell Unused Assets If Any
Do you have gold, gadgets, or vehicle?
If not essential, sell to reduce debt.
A temporary sacrifice gives long-term peace.
21. Speak to Employer If Trusted
Some companies offer salary advance or loan.
Check if your HR has such policy.
Keep repayment terms clear and transparent.
22. Review All Bank Accounts
Do you have any FD or RD?
Break it and use it to clear debt.
23. Debt Avalanche Method – Use When Situation Stabilises
Once stable, start paying highest interest loan first.
After that, clear next highest.
24. Inform Lender Before You Default
If you miss EMI, inform bank in writing.
Don’t avoid calls. That worsens credit record.
25. Start Rebuilding Credit Score After 6 Months
Once you close credit card debt, wait 6 months.
Keep one card with Rs. 5,000 limit.
Use it once a month and pay full.
26. Remember – This Pain is Temporary
You are in deep stress today.
But your mindset is strong.
You are ready to act.
That alone can bring you out of this trap.
27. Final Insights
Your life is more valuable than this debt.
You have already proven hard work.
Now you must build financial wisdom.
Stop credit card use immediately.
Speak to lender. Ask for EMI restructuring.
Convert credit card dues into lower-interest loan.
Cut expenses. Postpone luxuries.
Pause investments till loan burden is reduced.
Set a monthly budget. Stick to it.
Don’t give up. Don’t lose hope.
Within 12 months, you can come out.
After that, you will feel proud.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment