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Ramalingam Kalirajan has over 23 years of experience in mutual funds and financial planning.
He has an MBA in finance from the University of Madras and is a certified financial planner.
He is the director and chief financial planner at Holistic Investment, a Chennai-based firm that offers financial planning and wealth management advice.... more
S Question by S on May 14, 2024Hindi
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Hi , My age 47 yrs. started SIP in 2010 after watching CNBC TV started with 3000 in 3 fund and increased to 63000 in 16 fund for me and my wife. Accumulated 1 CR. till now. For my son education I Need 25 lac every year for 5 years from next year. I kept 5 lac emergency fund. PPF for family is 1.1 CR. No Fixed deposit. I have adequate Term and health Insurance. Equity 10 lac. Should I withdraw money from MF and put in FD or wait till next year considering volatility in market ?

Ans: Evaluating Options for Funding Son's Education
Congratulations on achieving a significant milestone with your mutual fund investments! Let's assess the best approach for funding your son's education while considering the current market volatility.

Current Financial Position
Investment Success
Accumulating ?1 crore through SIPs demonstrates your disciplined approach and ability to build wealth over time.

Emergency Fund
Maintaining a ?5 lakh emergency fund ensures financial security and provides a safety net during unexpected situations.

PPF Investment
Your substantial PPF investment of ?1.1 crore indicates a long-term savings strategy for future needs.

Funding Son's Education
Financial Requirement
Requiring ?25 lakh annually for your son's education for 5 years presents a significant financial commitment.

Withdrawal Consideration
Evaluate the pros and cons of withdrawing from mutual funds versus maintaining investments given the current market volatility.

Assessment of Options
Pros of Withdrawing from MFs
Immediate access to funds for your son's education without relying on loans or other sources.
Certainty of having the required amount available when needed.
Cons of Withdrawing from MFs
Potential loss of future returns if the market recovers and investments perform well.
Disruption to long-term investment strategy and financial goals.
Considering Market Volatility
Short-Term Impact
Market volatility may affect the value of your mutual fund investments in the short term.

Long-Term Perspective
However, taking a long-term view, historical data suggests that markets tend to recover over time, and staying invested can potentially yield higher returns.

Decision Making
Risk Appetite
Consider your risk tolerance and comfort level with market fluctuations when making the decision to withdraw funds from mutual funds.

Time Horizon
With your son's education starting next year, prioritize liquidity and stability of funds needed for immediate expenses.

Conclusion
While the decision ultimately depends on your individual financial circumstances and risk tolerance, withdrawing funds from mutual funds to finance your son's education may be a prudent choice considering the short time horizon and the certainty of meeting the financial requirement.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
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Your portfolio demonstrates a disciplined approach to mutual fund investing over the years. Let's evaluate your current holdings and chart a course for future investments.

Analyzing Existing SIPs

HDFC Top 200, ICICI Prudential Large & Midcap, and Bandhan Flexicap Funds have been part of your investment journey for several years. These funds offer exposure to different market segments, providing diversification benefits.

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Evaluating Performance and Suitability

Review the performance of each fund relative to its benchmark and peer group. Assess whether the fund manager's investment approach and strategy align with your risk tolerance and investment objectives.

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Deciding Whether to Continue or Exit

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Consider exiting funds that consistently underperform their benchmarks or peers, have experienced significant changes in fund management, or deviate from your risk profile.

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Given your intention to invest an additional Rs. 15,000, consider the following options:

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Good to know you planned investment for your son's education. There a few things to keep in mind when planning investment which are market linked.
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Hi sir I'm 30 years old and started my sip 10 months ago 1.5 lakhs invested till the date . Want to invest for 15 years Below are details Quant small cap 2.5 k per month Nippon India small cap 5k Motilal Oswal mid cap 5k Parag Parikh flexi cap 3k ICICI prudential nifty 50 index fund etf Rs 200/- 1. Currently investing Rs15700/- want to invest 20k suggest which Current MF to invest more amount or any changes need to be done. 2. Should I invest 5 lakhs in lump sum or in sip which is better
Ans: You have made a great start at the age of 30. Investing early builds strong financial foundation. You are investing Rs. 15,700 per month, which is a healthy amount. You are also planning to increase it to Rs. 20,000 monthly. That’s a smart move. You also have Rs. 5 lakhs for lump sum investing. Now let’s evaluate your mutual fund choices, portfolio structure, and ideal action plan.

Age, Time Horizon and Investment Profile
Age: 30 years

Investment horizon: 15 years

Monthly SIP: Rs. 15,700 currently

Planning to increase to: Rs. 20,000

Lump sum available: Rs. 5 lakhs

Your strengths:

Long time horizon gives high compounding benefit

SIP is already running in good amount

You are open to increasing your investment

You are thinking long term. That’s the right mindset

Let’s analyse your mutual funds in a structured way.

Analysing Your Existing SIP Portfolio
1. Small Cap Exposure
Two small cap funds: Rs. 7,500 per month

These are high-risk, high-return funds

You are investing 48% of SIP into small cap category

That is a high concentration for a young portfolio

Small caps can be very volatile

Better to reduce exposure a little

2. Mid Cap Exposure
One mid cap fund: Rs. 5,000 per month

Mid cap funds are ideal for long-term investors

They balance growth and stability

32% allocation to mid caps is fine

3. Flexi Cap Exposure
One flexi cap fund: Rs. 3,000 per month

Flexi cap funds give fund manager freedom to move between cap sizes

These are good for diversification and dynamic allocation

You can increase allocation here

4. Index Fund (ETF)
Monthly investment: Rs. 200 only

You mentioned it as Nifty 50 ETF

This is an index fund

Index funds have no flexibility

They can’t protect in falling markets

They follow the index blindly

Active funds have proven to beat index consistently over time

Avoid index funds in wealth creation journey

You may exit this and reallocate to active funds

Suggested Portfolio Changes
You aim to invest Rs. 20,000 per month going forward. Let’s realign your portfolio with a strong mix.

Suggested fund category allocation:

Small Cap Funds: 25% of SIP

Mid Cap Funds: 30% of SIP

Flexi Cap Funds: 25% of SIP

Large & Mid Cap Funds: 20% of SIP

New monthly SIP allocation suggestion (Rs. 20,000 total):

Small Cap: Rs. 5,000

Mid Cap: Rs. 6,000

Flexi Cap: Rs. 5,000

Large & Mid Cap: Rs. 4,000

Key actions to take:

Reduce SIP in one small cap fund by Rs. 2,500

Continue with one small cap only. Pick the more consistent one

Increase allocation in Flexi Cap fund

Introduce one Large & Mid Cap fund to diversify

Exit the index ETF fund completely

It adds little value and lacks protection in correction

Should You Invest Rs. 5 Lakhs as Lump Sum or SIP?
This is a very important question. Your decision must consider market timing risk.

Risks in lump sum investing:

If market falls just after lump sum, portfolio value drops

Emotionally it becomes hard to continue

Market may not recover quickly

You may exit at wrong time if not mentally prepared

SIP offers smoother entry:

Rupee cost averaging works well in SIP

Emotional comfort is higher

Volatility is absorbed better

You avoid regret of wrong timing

Best way to invest Rs. 5 lakhs:

Do not invest all in one go

Spread it over next 6 to 9 months

Do STP (Systematic Transfer Plan) from liquid fund to equity funds

This gives safety and gradual market exposure

Choose funds where you are continuing SIP for long term

Avoid lump sum in small cap or sector funds

Suggested STP action:

Put Rs. 5 lakhs in a low-risk liquid fund

Transfer Rs. 55,000 to Rs. 80,000 per month into chosen equity funds

Use the same four fund categories for STP

Asset Allocation View for 360-Degree Planning
You are young. You can afford high equity exposure. But that doesn't mean 100% small caps.

Suggested equity exposure:

Total equity exposure: 90%

Liquid/emergency: 10%

You can take this exposure for next 10 years

Ideal allocation among equity styles:

Large cap and large & mid cap: 30%

Mid cap: 30%

Small cap: 20–25%

Flexi cap and multi cap: 15–20%

This structure gives better balance. It protects from high volatility and improves long-term returns.

Regular Funds vs Direct Funds
You didn’t mention if you are using direct plans. If yes, then please note these:

Disadvantages of Direct Funds:

You get no guidance during market volatility

You may stop SIP at wrong time

No proper rebalancing or strategy check

Emotionally hard to manage alone

Many direct investors make mistakes in fund choice and exit timing

Benefits of Regular Funds through Certified Financial Planner:

Ongoing tracking and review of your portfolio

Behavioural coaching during market fall

Proper rebalancing and performance audit

Long-term handholding for goal-based planning

Worth more than the small trail cost involved

For long-term wealth creation, professional support is very useful.

Additional Suggestions for Long-Term Success
Emergency Fund Planning:

Keep 6 months expenses in a liquid fund

Never invest this portion in equity

Insurance:

Take pure term insurance if not yet done

Health insurance for self and family is also must

Periodic Review:

Review your SIP funds every 12 months

Do not change funds based on short-term return

Stick to the goal and asset allocation

Avoid These Mistakes:

Do not invest in traditional LIC plans, endowment or ULIP

Avoid high exposure to sector or thematic funds

Don’t go for trending new funds or NFOs

Avoid real estate for now. Liquidity is poor and returns are slow

Do not invest in index funds unless portfolio is very large

Taxation Point to Note:

Equity mutual funds: LTCG above Rs. 1.25 lakhs taxed at 12.5%

STCG taxed at 20%

Debt fund returns taxed as per your income slab

Plan redemptions carefully to reduce tax impact

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You have a great start at 30.

Keep investing consistently for 15 years

Reduce small cap exposure a little

Remove index fund ETF from your SIP

Use STP for Rs. 5 lakhs investment

Add one large & mid cap fund to portfolio

Review regularly with a Certified Financial Planner

You are on the right path. With a few changes and disciplined investing, you will build long-term wealth.

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I am 61 years and gets a monthly pension of 44,000 which I invest in MF through SIP. I get monthly interest of 25,000 from 34 lacs which I contribute as my share towards total household expenditure of 50 thousand, since my wife is also retired and draws around the same amount of pension. I have invested around 30 lacs in MF through SIP and as per yesterday's nav is 52 lacs. My wife has 52 lacs in fd and nav of 30 lacs in MF. We have our own flat and have a son who got married recently and lives in another city. My wife invests 25 lacs in monthly sip. Can we continue with our sip or should go for fd. Our risk appetite is good.
Ans: At 61, with a pension-backed lifestyle and a strong mutual fund portfolio, you and your wife are in a better financial condition than many retirees. You have been investing smartly and consistently. This shows your discipline and patience. Let us now take a detailed look at your situation and provide a 360-degree strategy to help you make informed decisions on whether to continue with SIPs or shift to fixed deposits.

Overview of Your Current Financial Position

Let us first look at your numbers clearly:

You are 61 and retired. You get Rs. 44,000 as monthly pension.

You invest this pension into SIPs in mutual funds.

You have Rs. 34 lakh in fixed deposits. You get Rs. 25,000 monthly from it.

You contribute Rs. 25,000 to the monthly household cost of Rs. 50,000.

Your wife is also retired and receives about the same pension.

She has Rs. 52 lakh in fixed deposit and Rs. 30 lakh invested in mutual funds.

You have invested Rs. 30 lakh in mutual funds which have grown to Rs. 52 lakh.

Your wife is investing Rs. 25 lakh through SIPs now.

You own your flat and have one married son living in another city.

This is a financially balanced situation. Now let us assess each part to offer deeper insights.

1. Monthly Cash Flow – Sustainable and Comfortable

Together, you and your wife receive around Rs. 88,000 per month as pension.

You also get Rs. 25,000 monthly as FD interest.

This makes your total monthly income around Rs. 1.13 lakh.

Your household expense is only Rs. 50,000. That leaves a surplus of over Rs. 60,000.

You are not dependent on your mutual fund corpus for monthly expenses. This is a very strong position for any retiree.

2. Fixed Deposit Income – Reliable but Low Growth

Your total FD value (you + wife) is Rs. 86 lakh.

You both get monthly income from it.

This is good for safety and liquidity.

But FD interest is fully taxable and may fall in future.

FD returns rarely beat inflation over long term.

You can keep some FD for stability, but not everything.

FD should be used only for emergency buffer and short-term goals.

3. Mutual Fund Corpus – Impressive Growth and Wealth Creator

Your mutual fund investment of Rs. 30 lakh has grown to Rs. 52 lakh.

That is a strong capital appreciation.

Your wife has Rs. 30 lakh in mutual funds.

Together, your mutual fund corpus is Rs. 82 lakh.

This shows you have trusted mutual funds and stayed invested.

This decision has paid off well, and you should continue.

4. Ongoing SIPs – Excellent Habit, Keep It Going

You invest your entire pension in SIPs.

Your wife is investing Rs. 25 lakh through SIPs.

These SIPs are creating long-term wealth.

Mutual fund SIPs are flexible, tax efficient and help in rupee cost averaging.

You should continue the SIPs without stopping them.

These SIPs will give you more financial freedom later.

5. Should You Shift to FD from SIP? No, Here’s Why

SIPs are giving higher returns than FDs over 5–10 years.

FD returns are taxable fully and get lower in real value due to inflation.

SIPs in equity mutual funds are taxed efficiently.

LTCG above Rs. 1.25 lakh is taxed at only 12.5%.

STCG is taxed at 20%.

SIPs offer better inflation protection and long-term growth.

Since your risk appetite is good, and you do not depend on MF money for expenses, you can take market ups and downs calmly.

Stopping SIPs now will reduce future wealth.

Stay invested. Do not stop or pause the SIPs.

6. Use Mutual Funds for Future Monthly Income

After 65 or 70, you can start Systematic Withdrawal Plans (SWP).

This will create monthly income from mutual fund corpus.

SIP grows wealth. SWP gives regular income later.

This will help reduce FD dependence later.

Use SWP only after your capital grows more.

For now, keep investing. Later, enjoy the income.

7. Asset Allocation – Review Regularly, Not Reactively

You have almost Rs. 1.68 crore between you both.

About 48% is in mutual funds. Around 52% is in fixed deposits.

This is a balanced allocation for your stage.

But over the next few years, gradually increase mutual fund share to 60%.

Keep 30% in fixed deposit.

Remaining 10% can be in liquid or ultra-short funds for short-term needs.

Do not over-allocate to FDs even in retirement.

8. Emergency Fund – Always Keep a Separate Pool

Keep Rs. 4–6 lakh each in a separate emergency fund.

Use liquid funds or short-term FDs for this.

Do not disturb long-term mutual funds for sudden needs.

This keeps your investments stable.

Safety pool is essential for peace of mind.

9. No Need for Real Estate or Gold

You already own a flat.

You do not need to invest more in real estate.

Real estate is illiquid, costly, and hard to manage.

Also, do not over-invest in gold.

Keep only small amount for personal use.

Keep your capital in growth and income-generating assets.

10. Avoid Index Funds and Direct Funds

Do not invest in index funds now.

Index funds invest in all stocks, good and bad.

They give no active selection or risk management.

In falling markets, they fall as much as the index.

Actively managed funds are better in volatile times.

Fund managers help select good stocks, avoid poor ones.

Also avoid direct mutual funds:

Direct funds have no advisor support.

No one guides you on when to redeem or switch.

Emotionally hard to manage during market corrections.

Regular plans through a Mutual Fund Distributor with CFP give full support.

Keep investing through regular plans only.

11. Estate Planning – Act Now, Not Later

You have significant wealth. Now is the right time for estate planning.

Write a Will each.

Include details of mutual fund holdings, FDs, and your flat.

Mention who gets what.

Register the Will to avoid legal trouble later.

Also, ensure nominee names are added in all financial assets.

Nominee is not the legal heir. Only Will decides distribution.

Plan this early. It will protect your family from confusion later.

12. Tax Planning – Keep Things Clean and Simple

Keep a track of all capital gains in mutual funds.

Do not redeem unless needed, or for rebalancing.

Redeem wisely to avoid higher tax.

Use joint names in FDs and mutual funds for convenience.

Keep all investments linked to PAN and updated KYC.

Keep your documentation clear and updated.

13. Retirement Security – You Are Already There

Your expenses are less than income.

Your investments are growing well.

You do not need to depend on your son financially.

You have enough funds for future.

But keep tracking expenses. Inflation can rise slowly over years.

14. Health Insurance – Important to Recheck

Please make sure you and your wife have a good health insurance cover.

Minimum cover should be Rs. 10–15 lakh.

Use a super top-up plan if needed.

Keep health policy active till the end of life.

Medical costs can rise suddenly.

15. Role of Certified Financial Planner – Don’t Skip It

You both are managing well.

But engaging a Certified Financial Planner can help optimise further.

A CFP helps with:

Goal mapping

Asset rebalancing

Tax-efficient withdrawals

Portfolio review

Succession planning

CFP offers guidance that is personal, not generic.

They help avoid emotional or wrong decisions in future.

Finally

You are in a very strong financial position today. Your lifestyle is secure. Your investments are growing. Your habits are disciplined. This is a clear example of smart retirement planning.

There is no need to move to FD from SIP. You can continue SIPs as long as you are financially comfortable and mentally relaxed. SIPs are building your financial legacy and keeping you ahead of inflation.

What you need now is:

Continue SIPs in regular mutual funds.

Slowly shift from growth to income-oriented strategies (like SWP) after a few years.

Rebalance asset allocation every 1–2 years.

Keep insurance updated.

Complete estate planning soon.

Your journey so far has been consistent and thoughtful. Keep going.

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