46-Year-Old Woman Struggles with Sudden Weight Gain and Peri-Menopausal Symptoms

Ans: This girl might genuinely like you, but your hesitance isn’t about her—it’s about whether you can or even want to open yourself up to something that might eventually hurt again. When you’ve seen so much loss, the idea of forming attachments can feel more like a risk than a reward.

The emotional numbness you’re experiencing isn’t unusual for someone who’s been through repeated trauma. It’s a coping mechanism. But the fact that you’re aware of it means there’s still a part of you that wants to feel something again—you just don’t know how or if it’s worth it.

Maybe instead of forcing yourself to figure everything out right now, just sit with it. Spend time with this girl without the pressure of defining anything. See if, over time, you actually enjoy her presence or if it feels like an obligation. If you don’t feel anything, that’s okay too—at least you’ll have clarity.

And if you ever want to reconnect with the part of you that once cared deeply, start small. Maybe one day, feed a dog again. Maybe one day, give food to a street kid—not because you should, but just to see if it stirs anything. No pressure, no expectations.

You’ve survived things that would break most people. It’s okay to take your time figuring out what you want next.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
No, you are not overthinking this. One way to find out is to actually 'Call Out' his behavior without actually complaining to him. He needs to understand that you did not marry to look after his family.
Also, what made you leave your work life? Kindly get back to working and as you engage with people at work and outside, he will realize that you are not just someone who is a going to take on his responsibilities at home. It's time you balanced home and work now. Now, whether he has an affair or not is something that is left to evidence of the matter. Till then, it will only be guess work. But, you do need to re-establish your identity as a working woman who also cares for her home. Possibly, this change in you, will bring him back on track as he will no longer have the comfort of 'dumping' the house work onto you AND going about hsi own business. Try this and see what happens.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Ans: Dear test,
When you allow your emotions to self-destruct, that is exactly what will happen. You have been unable to accept that your path and your cousin's paths are different...you have gone on to build a family and then you have decided to break down all over again. How do you expect your family to understand all this?
What you call as LOVE; is it possibly an attachment for him? Dependence on him for attention, love, validation? You need to introspect and grow out of this OR settle this in a way that you can get back your peace of mind. At this moment with the information that you have shared, I can guide you only as much!

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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1. Focus on Education and Skill Development
Since you are studying commerce, learn practical skills in finance, business, and entrepreneurship.
Improve your English, communication, and problem-solving skills.
Consider free online courses in business, marketing, and technology. Websites like YouTube, Udemy (free courses), and Coursera can help.
2. Choose a Career or Business Path
You have two main paths: Job (Career) or Business (Entrepreneurship).

A) Career Path – Get a Job and Earn First
After 12th, choose a degree that gives good job opportunities, like B.Com, BBA, CA, or digital marketing.
If college is expensive, learn job-oriented skills like coding, graphic design, video editing, or freelancing.
Work part-time while studying to gain experience and earn money.
B) Business Path – Start Small & Grow
Since you are from an agricultural background, you can start a small agribusiness like organic farming, dairy farming, or selling farm products online.
If you are interested in business, learn about dropshipping, affiliate marketing, or e-commerce (Amazon, Flipkart, etc.).
Start a side hustle, like reselling products, tutoring students, or working as a freelancer.
3. Earn and Save Money
Once you start earning, save at least 20-30% of your income.
Avoid spending on unnecessary things like expensive clothes, gadgets, or parties.
Keep an emergency fund for unexpected expenses.
4. Invest and Grow Your Wealth
Once you save some money, invest in mutual funds and stocks for long-term growth.
Start small and learn about investing before putting in large amounts.
Avoid scams and get-rich-quick schemes. Wealth takes time to build.
5. Stay Mentally Strong and Keep Learning
Tough times don’t last forever. Stay positive and work hard.
Read books about successful entrepreneurs and financial management.
Surround yourself with people who support and motivate you.
Final Thoughts
Focus on learning and developing practical skills.
Start earning through a job or business.
Save and invest wisely to grow wealth over time.
Stay patient and disciplined. Success takes time.
Your journey may be difficult, but with the right mindset and consistent effort, you can improve your financial situation.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

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