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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 06, 2023Hindi
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Sir I have been trying very hard to find a decent job. I am 22 and have switched 3 jobs in a year. I am unable to focus and get easily hurt when a senior screams at me for my lack of experience. I want to learn but I am extremely emotional too. Pls help

Ans: Hi A, Since you have not given your qualifications I don't know what kind of work you are into. Since you have switched 3 jobs that means you can get a job. your problem appears more regarding behaviour, your own behaviour and attitude towards work- you need to look at that. Let us understand that it is not unusual to get a boss who shouts at you. But find out what is the shortfall in you for which you are ticked of or say scolded for. Are you not doing your job properly because you are not capable or you are just too casual and want to shirk work? You need to take people especially bosses in your stride. you will never get a cool boss as people think of. Remember boss also has a boss and he also gets a mouthful from his boss for sure. You are hired to do a job and if you do not satisfy your boss/organization you will get ticked off. Learn to take these things in your stride and don't be oversensitive as jobs are not easy these days. Make efforts to better your performance. switching jobs quickly will also harm your CV.
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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 15, 2025Hindi
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I have debt of rs. 20lakhs which include pl and credit card bill payments and my monthly income is 28k only please suggest how to I am debt free
Ans: 1. Assess and List Out All Debts
List each loan and credit card with:
• Amount owed
• Monthly EMI or minimum payment
• Interest rate
This will help you understand which debts are costing you the most and need to be prioritized.

2. Create a Bare-bones Budget
• List your essential expenses only: rent, food, utilities, transportation.
• Allocate most of your income toward debt repayment: Many people use a “60-30-10” rule—spending 60% of income on debts, 30% on essentials, and 10% on minor needs or savings, if possible.
• Cut all non-essential expenses (entertainment, eating out, subscriptions).

3. Prioritize Payments
Pay expensive loans first: Focus on debts with the highest interest rate (usually credit cards)—this is called the Avalanche Method.
Always pay at least the minimum on all debts to avoid penalty charges or further damage to your credit score.

4. Talk to Your Lenders
Request lower interest rates or extended loan tenures. Some banks and NBFCs might offer hardship or restructuring programs.
Ask about converting credit card balances into loans with lower EMIs.
Check if you qualify for a debt consolidation loan to combine all debts into one EMI at a lower rate.

5. Explore Additional Income Sources
Take up a side job or gig: tutoring, food delivery, freelancing, weekend work, etc.
Sell unused items online.
Any extra amount should go directly to debt repayment.

6. Avoid Taking On New Debt
Don’t use credit cards or personal loans for discretionary spending.
Avoid “payday loans” or instant loans with high interest.

Sample Monthly Action Plan
Step Amount Allocated
Income (per month) ?28,000
Essentials (rent, food, etc.) ~?8,000-?10,000
Debt repayments ?16,800-?18,000+ (60%+)
Other (emergency savings) ?0-?2,000
If your current minimum payments are more than your income allows, you must negotiate with lenders, as defaulting will further hurt your financial health and credit score.

Mindset Tips
• Celebrate small wins; every rupee paid reduces your stress.
• Stick to your plan—discipline will help you get through this.
• Don’t lose hope—many have successfully cleared similar debts with patience and perseverance.

Final Note
Your current income is not sufficient to clear such a large debt in a short time. Becoming debt-free will require:
• Aggressively cutting expenses
• Increasing your income wherever possible
• Negotiating with lenders for the best possible repayment terms
Seek help when needed and stay disciplined throughout the journey.

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