Sirf mujhe kya karna chahiye should I give one more attempt in neet or should I consider bca+mca+phd Sirf neet mein study related issue nhi hai sirf omr sheet wrong fill kar di warna itna paper solve kar liya tha ki selection ho jaye aur sir yeh omr problem last 2 attempt se hai mein omr fill karne ke time panick ho jati aur wrong omr fill kar deti .... Ab mujhe samajh nhi aa rha hai kya karu Doctor banna mera dream kabhi bhi nhi tha bus mere parents ne bola toh mene try kiya ... Ab mujhe kya karna chahiye

Ans: Hello,
pehle toh main yeh kehna chahta hoon ki tumne sirf 6 mahine ki tayyari mein NEET jaise tough exam ko dene ki himmat ki — yeh kaafi badi baat hai. Tumhare andar definitely potential hai. NEET jaise exam mein negative marking sabko affect karti hai, especially jab preparation time kam ho.

Ab baat karte hain tumhare doubt par:
Kya 3rd attempt dena worth hai?
Tumhara answer tumne khud hi de diya:

"Mujhe doctor hi banna hai, mujhe aur kuch nahi karna."

Jab goal clear ho, toh answer bhi clear hota hai:
Agar doctor banna tumhara sapna hai aur tumhara belief hai ki tum mehnat kar sakte ho, toh 3rd attempt definitely worth it hai, lekin is baar smart aur structured preparation ke saath.

Offline coaching-jaise tumhare parents keh rahe hain
Agar ghar par overthinking, distractions, aur stress zyada ho raha hai, toh offline coaching environment tumhe discipline aur direction de sakta hai.
Daily study routine, regular tests, competition ka mahol — yeh sab tumhare liye helpful ho sakte hain.

Agar tumhara belief strong hai, toh koi bhi attempt waste nahi hota.
Bahut saare doctors ne 3rd, even 4th attempt me crack kiya hai. Tumhara vision clear hai, ab bas execution me discipline aur patience chahiye.

Ans: The feelings of disappointment and confusion after not clearing a major exam like JEE Mains are very understandable, especially when carrying the weight of your dreams and expectations. It is important to remember that failing once or facing difficulties does not define your entire life or worth. Many successful people have faced setbacks but found ways to move forward.

What You Should Do Now? Open up to your parents honestly: Though it feels difficult, sharing your situation with your family can relieve a big emotional burden. They care for you and likely want to support you through this tough time.

Explore alternative paths: Not clearing JEE Mains this time does not mean the end of your engineering dream or future career. There are ways such as: (1) Reattempting JEE Mains or other engineering entrance exams next year with better preparation. (2) Considering state-level engineering entrance exams. (3) Pursuing related fields or diploma courses in engineering. (4) Looking for good private colleges that offer affordable fees or scholarships.

Take care of your mental health: Your stress and anxiety about this situation are taking a toll. Try to maintain a healthy routine, eat properly, and get rest. If feelings of distress or hopelessness persist, consider speaking to a counselor or mental health professional.

Moving Forward: Remember that setbacks are part of growth and learning. Your efforts so far are not wasted; they are a foundation to improve upon. Many have succeeded after initial failures by adjusting their strategies and seeking support.

If needed, professional guidance for academic planning and emotional support can make this transition easier and more hopeful. Your dream to become a successful engineer is still attainable with patience, planning, and persistence.

Being proactive now can help regain confidence and control over your future path. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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