Hello sir, sir pls mera help kijiye pls sir , sirai ek sal ka drop liya tha lekin jee mains mera clear nhi ho paya aur maine koi aur exam nhi diya tha sir , mai is bat se bahut sarminda hu ki ye bat maine apne parents se nhi bataya hu sir , sir ab to August bhi khatm ho jayega mai kya karu kuchh samajh nhi aa rha hai aur mai pvt engineering college afford nhi kar paungi sir mai kya karu mujhe lagta hai ki mai har gayi sir I failed in my life, maine bahut koshish ki thi sir lekin nhi hua mai kaise apne ghar walo se bat karu aur aage mai kya karu kuchh samajh nhi aa rha hai mera bachpan ka sapna tha mai ek kameyab engineer banu kaise kya karu mai bahut tension ho gaya hai na khana achha lagta hai na kuchh karne ka man nind bhi nhi aati , agar nind bhi aa jati hai to jab nind khulti hai to wahi dar sa ho jata hai mai kya karu sir pls help me sir

Ans: The feelings of disappointment and confusion after not clearing a major exam like JEE Mains are very understandable, especially when carrying the weight of your dreams and expectations. It is important to remember that failing once or facing difficulties does not define your entire life or worth. Many successful people have faced setbacks but found ways to move forward.

What You Should Do Now? Open up to your parents honestly: Though it feels difficult, sharing your situation with your family can relieve a big emotional burden. They care for you and likely want to support you through this tough time.

Explore alternative paths: Not clearing JEE Mains this time does not mean the end of your engineering dream or future career. There are ways such as: (1) Reattempting JEE Mains or other engineering entrance exams next year with better preparation. (2) Considering state-level engineering entrance exams. (3) Pursuing related fields or diploma courses in engineering. (4) Looking for good private colleges that offer affordable fees or scholarships.

Take care of your mental health: Your stress and anxiety about this situation are taking a toll. Try to maintain a healthy routine, eat properly, and get rest. If feelings of distress or hopelessness persist, consider speaking to a counselor or mental health professional.

Moving Forward: Remember that setbacks are part of growth and learning. Your efforts so far are not wasted; they are a foundation to improve upon. Many have succeeded after initial failures by adjusting their strategies and seeking support.

If needed, professional guidance for academic planning and emotional support can make this transition easier and more hopeful. Your dream to become a successful engineer is still attainable with patience, planning, and persistence.

Being proactive now can help regain confidence and control over your future path. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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