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Radheshyam Zanwar is the founder of Zanwar Classes which prepares aspirants for competitive exams such as MHT-CET, IIT-JEE and NEET-UG.
Based in Aurangabad, Maharashtra, it provides coaching for Class 10 and Class 12 students as well.
Since the last 25 years, Radheshyam has been teaching mathematics to Class 11 and Class 12 students and coaching them for engineering and medical entrance examinations.
Radheshyam completed his civil engineering from the Government Engineering College in Aurangabad.... more
Asked by Anonymous - May 22, 2025
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I am a post intern i had to come to home to prepare because my mother wanted but i always knew somewhere that i can't study at home.thats what happened its only 24 days to neet and i have lost. I have not completed my syllabus once. I used to study but i procrastinated a lot. And then added on family issues. I was very disturbed. Now i don't feel like studying. I still want to give 2025 attempt and give it all i can now but i cant. I just end up wasting more time. Feeling lost don't know what to do. Can't tell parents they think i am studying. I know somewhere i have to take another drop but want to join a job first move out. But abhi toh neet pg 2025 ko a good chnace dena hai. Please can anyone help me.

Ans: Hello dear.
I am not sure what your main issue is. Regarding your issue, I would advise you to accept your internship position in order to interact with your mother in a private setting. Maintaining the "study tempo" is crucial, but taking a break is not a big deal. Frustration is there when there is no success. You may be experiencing the same thing. If you want to experience career success, put your domestic issues aside and concentrate more on NEET PG. Get rid of the frustration that has been lingering in the back of your mind.
Best of luck to you.
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