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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 20, 2024Hindi
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Hello I am a neet 2025 aspirant and it is my 2nd drop ....when I started preparing for neet 2025 I was very confident and was studying sincerely but then I lost my interest in studies I wasted 3months and now only 4months left for neet I am getting worried what to do next plz help me....I am preparing from online and living at my home I am getting distracted by my surrounding and also by the mobile phone

Ans: My initial recommendation for you is to avoid placing sole reliance on NEET. It is prudent to devise alternative strategies, such as Plan B and Plan C, to adequately prepare yourself for various medical-allied courses by participating in an additional 3-4 entrance examinations as well. In the midst of a demanding phase such as NEET, it is quite common to experience feelings of being overwhelmed. Nonetheless, through a thoughtful approach and consistent effort, one can effectuate substantial transformations. Initially, assess and recalibrate your situation, transition your perspective from worry to proactive engagement, and segment the journey into manageable components. Focus on subjects that offer substantial intellectual returns, such as Biology, Physics, and Chemistry. Organize your study environment and monitor your phone usage. Develop a comprehensive four-month plan, commencing with biology and subsequently progressing to subjects of greater weight and complexity. Mitigate distractions through the regulation of mobile device usage, fostering communication with family members, adhering to a structured routine, seeking assistance and motivation from diverse platforms, and promoting overall well-being by ensuring adequate sleep, consuming nutritious foods, and engaging in physical activities such as yoga and meditation.
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