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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 19, 2025Hindi
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Hi sir I am.feeling quite low as of lately I am a neet aspirant and i have neet this year I could only score 380 marks . Now the thing is my parents and my teachers are in favour of me takinga drop and start studying again but I am just not able to start. I sleep at odd hours and whenever I feel low , i cry a lot , I think I am slipping into depression, I don't know what to do and what not to do like agar mbbs nahi bhi karni to uske ilawa kya karna hai I got an excellent cuet result but I dropped that plan because after visiting the campuses I felt that I deserved more . Parents ko bhi kya bolu pata nahi the only relief they had regarding their children's future was from my side because my brother doesn't study and I have always been a responsible child but now every day I wake up feeling pointless useless and I don't know what to do

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You are confused because you want something but want to listen to what others say. So, decide what you want to do in life, what your aim is and drop a neat plan and go ahead with just that...
If you feel that you deserve more, then what is the point of overthinking here? You want that medical seat, work hard, stop bothering about external suggestions; do what you must do!

All the best!
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