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R P Yadav is the founder, chairman and managing director of Genius Consultants Limited, a 30-year-old human resources solutions company.
Over the years, he has been the recipient of numerous awards including the Lifetime Achievement Award from World HR Congress and HR Person Of The Year from Public Relations Council of India.
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Sameer Question by Sameer on Oct 01, 2023Hindi
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Hi I m working In Life insurance company operations Executive 16 years. My qualifications is Graduation in Commerce. I want to learn additional qualification in new things, so that will help to look new opportunities in new field. I am working in MS Excel. Pls suggest.

Ans: Dear Sameer,
Since you have 16 years of experience already, you can upskill yourself by pursuing Executive MBA programs to improve your professional skills and employability.
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