Mayank Rautela | Answer |Ask -Follow
HR Expert - Answered on May 18, 2022
Hi Mayank.
My question may seem silly but it bothers me a lot.
I don’t smoke or drink but in my office a lot of people do.
A lot of bonding and work stuff happens on cigarette breaks and when people go out after work for a drink.
I have tried joining but things get a bit awkward because I don’t smoke or drink.
How do I break this barrier?
Hi.
First of all, I am really happy to know that you don't drink or smoke; that’s really healthy.
Please don’t start to do so under social pressure or to get connected at work.
You can speak to the management and ask them to organise informal gatherings where drinking and smoking is not allowed.
Also, connect with people over a cup of coffee or tea.
Look for people who have similar habits like yours and bond with them.
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