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Mayank Rautela is the group chief human resources officer at Apollo Hospitals.
A management graduate from the Symbiosis Institute of Management Studies with a master's degree in labour laws from Pune University, Rautela has over 20 years of experience in general management, strategic human resources, global mergers and integrations and change management.... more
Shivaram Question by Shivaram on Mar 02, 2021Hindi
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Dear Sir,
I got a job in mid-February 2020 in the UAE. All medical tests were done.
However, by mid-March, the COVID lockdown was announced by government of India, which resulted in the cancellation of the project. I came to know about this in November 2020.
My work experience has been abroad for 15 years and many employers are sceptical about employing me in India.
I started a tie-up of apparel business in September 2020 in the Mumbai region. But, due to COVID, no one is buying new apparels after Diwali.
I am into daily prayers, exercise and yoga but I am at times depressed due to the current pandemic and the slow economy. There have been numerous fights in my house due to no income.
I am seeking your necessary professional help to revive my career again.
What should I do?
Shivaram Viswanathan

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Hi Shivaram.

Let me address your points one at a time.

1. If you have the right skill sets, most of the companies in India would be open to providing you job opportunities.

2. Spending levels in the market are bouncing back to normal and soon your apparel business will pick up. Hold on to that and do not exit in a hurry and make losses.

3. COVID has impacted most of us so please don't take out your frustration in arguments with your loved ones.

It’s good to know that you are focusing on your health. Continue doing that and take care of your family. Shower them with your love.

 

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Update your resume and cover letter: Make sure your resume and cover letter are up-to-date and tailored to the job you’re applying for. Highlight your skills and experience that are relevant to the job.

Network: Reach out to your professional network and let them know you’re looking for a job. Attend industry events and conferences to meet new people and make connections.

Apply to family-friendly companies: Look for companies that have a reputation for being family-friendly. These companies may offer flexible work arrangements, such as telecommuting or part-time work.

Search for jobs with specific keywords: Use keywords such as “family-friendly,” “flexible hours,” or “work-life balance” when searching for jobs online. This can help you find jobs that are more likely to meet your requirements.

Consider freelancing: Freelancing can be a good option if you’re looking for more flexibility in your work schedule. You can work from home and choose the projects you want to work on.

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