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Krishna Kumar is the founder and CEO of GoMoTech, a company that provides strategic consulting in B2B sales, performance management and digital transformation.
Before branching out on his own, he worked with companies like Microsoft, Rediff, Flipkart and InMobi.
With over 25 years of experience under his belt, KK is a regular speaker at industry events and academic intuitions, both in India as well as abroad.
KK completed his MBA in marketing from the Sri Sathya Sai Institute of Higher Learning in Andhra Pradesh and his management development programme from XLRI, Jamshedpur.
He has also completed his LLB from Nagpur University and diploma in PR from Bhavan’s College of Management, Nagpur, where he was awarded a gold medal.... more
Jahanara Question by Jahanara on Apr 23, 2024Hindi
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Hii, I am Jahanara Moral, Working in a private company almost 8 yrs and Pursuing my B.Arch last year, I am 28 years old, now I am stuck in my career and marriage. What should I do, Looking for a partner or focused on career??

Ans: Hello

Life is all about juggling multiple balls... however there are some which takes higher priority.

Between family matters and career suggest you discuss your career situation with family and seek their support in understanding your challenges. Inam sure they will look at things from your perspective as well.

At 28 you are too young to have this kind of stress as you have just started your career. While at times situation may seem tough but then we all have to walk that phase...hold on...be strong... believe in yourself.

All the best.
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