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Soft Skills Trainer - Answered on Apr 17, 2024

Maxim Emmanuel is the marketing director of Maxwill Zeus Expositions.
An alumnus of the Xavier Institute of Management and Research, Mumbai, Maxim has over 30 years of experience in training young professionals and corporate organisations on how to improve soft skills and build interpersonal relationships through effective communication.
He also works with students and job aspirants offering career guidance, preparing them for job interviews and group discussions and teaching them how to make effective presentations.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Mar 03, 2024Hindi
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Hi Sir/Madam, After my engineering degree in 1999, i got a job in a company through my uncle's influence. I could work only for 5 yrs and left the job...i went into depression and then my husband helped me to get out of the depression, got me another job, there also I couldnot handle the work pressure and left job in 10 months...then realised that i cannot do IT and left it..after one year my son was born. As he started going to school, i joined painting classes, i went to classes from 2011 to 2020, i just went to engage myself to these classes which i enjoyed...After 2 yrs of covid, i went back to tbe same painitng class, but this time i felt the tutor was irritated with me and didnt teach me properly and hence i looked out for other painting classes. I went to another place, where they charged more money and stopped going there...I again went to a third place, here the tutors are excellent, here what i realised was that all the past 10 years where i went for painting class was nothing compared to the new place where am going...I have lost confidence and i think am no where compared to the new tutors..I have lost hopes in life and again gone into depression..how do i come out of this depression...i like to teach painitng, but i dont have the confidence to teach too as i compare myself with other teachers and feel i should start learning painting again from scratch...plz help, what should I do next...

Ans: I believe this was replied earlier too.. Request you to kindly look into the reply!
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Hi Sir/Madam, After my engineering degree in 1999, i got a job in a company through my uncle's influence. I could work only for 5 yrs and left the job...i went into depression and then my husband helped me to get out of the depression, got me another job, there also I couldnot handle the work pressure and left job in 10 months...then realised that i cannot do IT and left it..after one year my son was born. As he started going to school, i joined painting classes, i went to classes from 2011 to 2020, i just went to engage myself to these classes which i enjoyed...After 2 yrs of covid, i went back to tbe same painitng class, but this time i felt the tutor was irritated with me and didnt teach me properly and hence i looked out for other painting classes. I went to another place, where they charged more money and stopped going there...I again went to a third place, here the tutors are excellent, here what i realised was that all the past 10 years where i went for painting class was nothing compared to the new place where am going...I have lost confidence and i think am no where compared to the new tutors..I have lost hopes in life and again gone into depression..how do i come out of this depression...i like to teach painitng, but i dont have the confidence to teach too as i compare myself with other teachers and feel i should start learning painting again from scratch...plz help, what should I do next...
Ans: Life is not a bed of roses.. It also has a thorny side!

Failures are stepping stones to success, realise even GOLD is said as 99.99% purity.
Having said so I realise you have had a chequered past, with a few disappointments.

However I realise you have discovered new joy in your painting. In the quest for success, realise there will be set backs learn to roll the ball... it means get along with life.

Don't compare yourself with anyone, because are an ORIGINAL,remember no one will be like you.

A painter is never compared, each one has a masterpiece... Now coaching others in painting start classes for the young one's ..then go ahead from there..!

Have an exhibition of your and your students painting's.. You will realise you are really special!

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 20, 2024Hindi
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Sir, I am 27 years old, Single. Its been 2 years + I am doing private 3 years project contractual job this contractual job.its going to complete in Dec 31st 2024. I gave Ctet teacher exam but i failed 3 time. But i m not focusing in State tet so, i want focus but in market lots of content and i dont have gude what shall i do. I am not happy with my current job. This job changes me alot in my caracter now, i cant sleep properly because if this job will finished what shall i do, till yet i have not creck any exam. And if i go in market i started to forgot ex:- After giving money i forgot to take back, after giving money i forgot to take things sometime. My age also gainig if want to marry so, i have earned money or save money i have to bear all expenses because my parents financially poor if I want save, same time i need to look my younger brother study expenses i need to bear and family running mantainance and also have EMI loans need to pay and also i am helping my parents to build their house with my own money my parents does not have money for my marriage. Now i have overthinking, depression, fear, feeling lossing confident, my dream job also get critical in this situation what shall i do. In office also staff try to polling down because i am getting higher salary what shall i do. For this reason just resently my health conditions because worse my pressure 139 felt vomit feel dizzy. What shall I do now Sir.
Ans: I have gone through your query and understand that you are at the Cross roads of Life.

It's at these times... When the going gets tough... The tough gets gong.
That's your strength.. A tough resilient young lady!
Kindly note you are doing an excellent job hence rewarded with better pay in your organization.. Obviously there's going to be jealousy..Be calm & Handle it with maturity.

Now I understand you are very committed selfless person. Who's contributing a lot to your family,... Wow in fact helping build your own new house. !

In regards to your contractual job, talk to your employer, let them know, that you would have to look for another job post December 2024 if there's no clear further commitment.

In regard to your marriage at 27 you aren't too old to find a like minded partner don't rush and regret, start the process through matrimonial apps.

I see you talk about your health, especially blood pressure, well that's because you are unduly stressed.
Add tender coconut water to your diet, talk to a proper Ayurvedic doctor..!

I am sure you will get over this mid life syndrome and invite us all for your happy day!

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I am 34 and earning 1.3 lac can you please help me how to save so that i can happily retire
Ans: At 34, with a monthly income of 1.3 lakh, you have a solid foundation for planning your retirement. Here's how you can save effectively to ensure a comfortable retirement:

Assess Your Current Financial Situation:
1. Evaluate Expenses:
Start by tracking your monthly expenses to understand your spending habits and identify areas where you can potentially save.
2. Build an Emergency Fund:
Set aside a portion of your income as an emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses or financial setbacks. Aim for at least 3 to 6 months' worth of living expenses.
Create a Retirement Plan:
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Estimate your future expenses during retirement, considering factors such as healthcare costs, inflation, and leisure activities.
Implement Savings Strategies:
5. Contribute to Retirement Accounts:
Maximize contributions to retirement accounts such as Employee Provident Fund (EPF), Public Provident Fund (PPF), and Voluntary Provident Fund (VPF) to benefit from tax advantages and compound interest.
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Consider investing in equity mutual funds for long-term growth potential. Choose funds with a proven track record and align with your risk tolerance.
7. Diversify Investment Portfolio:
Diversify your investment portfolio across asset classes such as equities, bonds, and fixed deposits to minimize risk and optimize returns.
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8. Consult a Certified Financial Planner:
Work with a Certified Financial Planner to develop a customized retirement plan based on your financial goals, risk tolerance, and time horizon.
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9. Regularly Review and Adjust:
Periodically review your retirement plan and investment portfolio to ensure they remain aligned with your goals and objectives.
Make adjustments as necessary based on changes in your financial situation, market conditions, and life circumstances.
Conclusion:
By following these steps and staying disciplined in your savings and investment approach, you can build a substantial retirement corpus and enjoy a financially secure and fulfilling retirement.

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 28, 2024Hindi
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10 Sal 4 mahine ka Mera job hai 58 year complete ho gaya hai pension bhi 58 year hone ke bad band ho gaya tha final withdrawal 19 form lagakar kiya tha reason 55 year ka de rahe hain ismein Main Kya kar sakta hun
Ans: Since you've completed 58 years of age and your job has lasted for 10 years and 4 months, it seems you're contemplating your options after ceasing your pension and completing the final withdrawal with Form 19, citing the reason as 55 years. Here's what you can consider:

Understanding Retirement Options:
1. Explore Alternative Income Sources:
Consider exploring alternative sources of income such as part-time work, freelance opportunities, or consulting services to supplement your financial resources.
Evaluate your skills and expertise to identify potential avenues for generating income during retirement.
2. Review Investment Portfolio:
Review your investment portfolio to ensure it aligns with your retirement goals and risk tolerance.
Seek guidance from a Certified Financial Planner to optimize your investment strategy and maximize returns.
3. Assess Social Security Benefits:
Determine if you are eligible for any social security benefits or government schemes that could provide additional financial support during retirement.
Consult with relevant authorities or financial experts to explore available options for accessing social security benefits.
4. Consider Delaying Retirement:
Evaluate the option of delaying your retirement to continue earning a steady income and build a larger retirement corpus.
Assess your health, lifestyle preferences, and financial obligations before making a decision to postpone retirement.
5. Seek Professional Advice:
Consult with a Certified Financial Planner to develop a comprehensive retirement plan tailored to your specific financial situation and goals.
Discuss various retirement options, investment strategies, and income sources to make informed decisions for your retirement years.
Conclusion:
As you navigate your retirement journey, it's essential to explore various income sources, review your investment portfolio, assess social security benefits, consider delaying retirement if feasible, and seek professional advice from a Certified Financial Planner. By taking proactive steps and making informed decisions, you can secure a financially stable and fulfilling retirement.

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Hello sir, I am just new in sip. I wanted to what will be the best way to start? Which ones to choose to get good returns in long term? My risk appetite is medium or above. Thank you
Ans: Starting Your SIP Journey: A Guide for New Investors
Welcome to the world of SIPs! Starting your SIP journey is an exciting step towards building wealth for the future. Let's explore the best way for you to begin and identify suitable investment options for achieving good returns over the long term.


Congratulations on taking the initiative to start your SIP journey! Your decision to invest in SIPs demonstrates a proactive approach towards securing your financial future.

Understanding Your Investment Goals and Risk Appetite
Investment Goals:
Define your financial goals and objectives, considering factors such as retirement planning, wealth creation, or education funding.
Establishing clear investment goals will help you select SIPs that align with your objectives.
Risk Appetite:
Assess your risk tolerance to determine your comfort level with market volatility.
Since you indicate a medium to high risk appetite, you may consider equity-oriented SIPs for potentially higher returns.
Choosing SIPs for Long-Term Growth
Equity Mutual Funds:
Equity mutual funds have historically delivered higher returns over the long term compared to other asset classes.
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Balanced Funds:
Balanced funds, also known as hybrid funds, offer a mix of equity and debt investments, providing a balanced approach to risk and return.
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Thematic Funds:
Thematic funds invest in specific sectors or themes, offering exposure to emerging trends or industries.
While thematic funds can potentially generate higher returns, they also carry higher risk due to concentrated exposure.
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Diversification:
Maintain a well-diversified SIP portfolio across different asset classes, sectors, and fund categories to reduce risk.
Avoid concentration in any single investment or sector to mitigate the impact of market fluctuations.
Regular Review and Rebalancing:
Periodically review your SIP portfolio to assess performance and ensure alignment with your financial goals.
Consider rebalancing your portfolio if necessary to maintain the desired asset allocation.
Getting Started with SIPs
Selecting SIPs:
Research and shortlist mutual funds based on their track record, fund manager expertise, investment philosophy, and risk-adjusted returns.
Consult with a Certified Financial Planner to identify SIPs that align with your financial goals and risk profile.
Systematic Investing:
Start your SIPs with an amount you are comfortable investing regularly, considering your cash flow and financial obligations.
Set up SIPs for a fixed amount at regular intervals (e.g., monthly or quarterly) to benefit from rupee cost averaging.
Conclusion: Embarking on Your SIP Journey
Starting your SIP journey requires careful consideration of your investment goals, risk appetite, and fund selection. By choosing suitable SIPs aligned with your long-term financial goals and regularly monitoring your portfolio's performance, you can lay a solid foundation for wealth creation.

Best Regards,
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Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

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