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Career Counsellor - Answered on Jun 13, 2024

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He started his career as an HR professional and has over 10 years of experience in tutoring and mentoring students from Classes 8 to 12, helping them choose the right stream, course and college/university.
He also counsels students on how to prepare for entrance exams for getting admission into reputed universities /colleges for their graduate/postgraduate courses.
He has guided both fresh graduates and experienced professionals on how to write a resume, how to prepare for job interviews and how to negotiate their salary when joining a new job.
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He has a postgraduate degree in human resources from Bhartiya Vidya Bhavan, Delhi, a postgraduate diploma in labour law from Madras University, a postgraduate diploma in school counselling from Symbiosis, Pune, and a certification in child psychology from Counsel India.
He has also completed his master’s degree in career counselling from ICCC-Mindler and Counsel, India.
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SUJAL Question by SUJAL on Jun 13, 2024Hindi
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I have one problem that is career overthinking...I am always busy in thinking and becoming tensed about my career and I think this is a barrier in my jee preparation..I BELONGED to a Gujarati family, financial condition is good and my parents never force me to do something,My father runs a textile business but he don't want me to come in that business,,, he used to told me that do something of your own if not job but don't come in textile business ..But my behaviour is like just I became tensed after hearing some negative news or views on engineering..I always asked myself whether I am going on right path or not !

Ans: As of now, focus fully on JEE preparation. Think of your interest areas with options whenever time permits. Avoid negative thinking / negative views of others. Once your JEE is over, your mind will definitely clear as to what you can / should do. Be in touch with RediffGURU. Keep reading my answers. Any clarification, ask me. All The BEST.
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Can I begin by saying, "stop blaming anyone for your circumstances". Your sister advised you for your own good. Engineering is a good degree to have. If you are not happy with doing technical work then see if you can add an MBA or some other skills to increase your chances of earning more. Life is all about taking decisions on a minute to minute basis. Take the right decisions now, let's leave the past behind, thinking about it has no meaning now.
... will you promise me not to indulge in the three c's- don't COMPLAIN, CRITICIZE and CONDEMN!!
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Recommendation: Considering consistent cutoff trends and seat matrices, prioritize B.E. Civil and Manufacturing Engineering at BITS Pilani for guaranteed allotment, consider Chemical Engineering at Pilani via waitlist movement, and secure Chemical, Civil, or Manufacturing Engineering at BITS Hyderabad or Goa for assured admission, capitalizing on slightly lower cutoffs and ample seat availability. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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