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I am 70 uears old n my husban is 78 years old we have 2 industrial gala which we have put on rent and we get about1lakh fifty thousand rent also we have 2 flats worth 2.5 crores and fixed deposit in saraswat bank 35 laks kotal bank 35 laks n state bank 50 lakhs 15 laks in shares n 5lakhs in mutual fund. We we plan to move to dubai with our son is it advisable and even if we how should we go about

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In want to retire from next month, I am living in Bangalore , after that I will move to Jabalpur.i m 42, my monthly expenses are around 1.2 lac. Currently I have 6(pf+fd+mf+stock) cr cash, I m 42, i have 2 kids, i have house in Bangalore and jabalpur, bangalore house i will put on rent , I will get 45k., is it safe?
Ans: Retirement at 42 requires careful planning. Your financial position is strong, but expenses are high. A structured approach is essential for long-term security.

Current Financial Position
You have Rs. 6 crore in cash (PF, FD, MF, stocks).
Monthly expenses are Rs. 1.2 lakh.
Rental income from Bangalore property is Rs. 45,000 per month.
You own two houses—one in Bangalore and one in Jabalpur.
You have two kids who will require future financial support.
Assessing Financial Security
Your total annual expenses will be Rs. 14.4 lakh.
Rental income will cover only Rs. 5.4 lakh per year.
You need an additional Rs. 9 lakh per year from investments.
This income requirement will increase due to inflation.
At 6% inflation, your expenses will double in 12 years.
Your investments must generate sustainable cash flow.
Investment Strategy for Monthly Income
Avoid locking all funds in fixed deposits.
A mix of equity and debt funds is essential for steady income.
Debt funds will provide stability and liquidity.
Actively managed equity funds will help beat inflation.
A systematic withdrawal plan (SWP) from mutual funds can provide monthly cash flow.
Fixed income instruments can provide additional safety.
Keeping some cash reserves will help manage unexpected expenses.
Health and Emergency Planning
Ensure you and your family have sufficient health insurance.
Maintain an emergency fund of at least 2 years' expenses.
This will provide security against unforeseen medical or financial needs.
Future Expenses – Kids’ Education and Other Needs
Higher education expenses will be significant in 10-15 years.
Setting aside funds in a mix of growth-oriented and stable investments is necessary.
Avoid relying solely on existing capital for future needs.
Inflation-Proofing Your Portfolio
Your current savings may seem sufficient today.
Inflation will reduce purchasing power over time.
Keeping a portion of investments in high-growth assets is important.
Final Insights
Your financial standing allows for early retirement.
However, a structured investment plan is essential.
Relying solely on rental income is risky.
A diversified investment approach will ensure steady income.
Reviewing and adjusting the plan regularly is crucial.
Best Regards,

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 11, 2025
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Is it wise to give my hard earned money to my good earning only son for buying a property in UAE and what is the risk
Ans: Understand Your Own Financial Position First

Check if your retirement corpus is already sufficient and growing steadily.

Assess your income sources like pension, rental income, or dividends for post-retirement life.

Ensure that you have an emergency fund set aside for medical or family needs.

Review your health insurance coverage and ensure it is adequate for your future.

If all these are in place, you can consider helping your son. Otherwise, hold back.

Your financial independence should come before generosity. Helping now must not lead to dependency later.

Avoid giving from your retirement savings unless you are fully secure.

Ask These Questions Before Giving

Is your son asking for this help, or are you offering it voluntarily?

Is this a loan, a gift, or a part of your inheritance in advance?

Will you get anything in return, like co-ownership or rental benefit?

Will he repay the amount, and if yes, what is the timeline?

Is this property a necessity for him or a luxury or status-driven decision?

Understand the Financial Risk Involved

UAE property market can be unpredictable and is not regulated like India.

Ownership laws may differ for non-residents. Your name may not be added easily.

There is a risk of market crash or legal issues in foreign countries.

If your son faces job issues or relocates, managing the property can be hard.

Reselling in UAE may take time and may involve high charges or tax.

Your money may get locked up with no real benefit to you.

Emotional and Legal Aspects Matter Too

Relationships can change. Money involvement can create future tension.

There is no legal guarantee your son will return the money unless documented.

Discuss openly with your son before taking a decision.

Document the transaction clearly even if he is your only child.

A written agreement helps avoid misunderstandings in future.

Better Ways to Help Without Risking Your Security

You can consider a partial contribution, not the full amount.

Offer a loan with soft terms, but legally documented.

Instead of giving a lump sum, offer monthly support if needed.

You can consider investing in Indian mutual funds in his name, which he can use later.

Keep some control or co-ownership if investing directly in the property.

Avoid liquidating long-term retirement savings or insurance proceeds to fund this.

Why Emotional Pressure Should Not Drive Financial Decisions

Many Indian parents feel emotional obligation to help children even if it hurts them.

Always think with both heart and mind together.

Your son is already earning well. He can take a loan if needed.

Giving now can affect your peace if your own expenses rise later.

You worked for years to build this money. It must serve your future first.

Final Insights

Helping children is a noble thought, but not at the cost of your safety.

It is better to be financially secure and emotionally supportive than just generous.

If your son is sincere and the property is essential, support in a documented and limited way.

Always consult a Certified Financial Planner before giving a large amount.

Protect your financial health while caring for your family. Both are important.

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K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 06, 2025Hindi
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Is it wise to gift my hard earned money to my NRI son to invest in real estate in UAE. I am sceptical on this
Ans: Your scepticism is healthy and actually very necessary. Gifting your hard-earned money to your NRI son for real estate in UAE may look like support, but it comes with serious long-term implications.

Let us evaluate this decision with a 360-degree lens.

Emotional Value vs Financial Value
You love your son. That’s clear.

But love must not override wise decisions.

You spent years earning that money.

You need clarity before letting go of control over it.

Understanding Real Estate in UAE
Real estate in UAE is highly speculative.

Prices are driven by demand from expatriates and global factors.

There is no permanent ownership for foreigners in many areas.

Rental yields can be low and inconsistent.

Real estate is not a liquid asset.

Selling property during urgency may take months or even years.

You may end up gifting money that locks itself away.

Legal & Control Issues in Gifting
Gift to NRI child is permitted under LRS (Liberalised Remittance Scheme).

But once given, you have no legal control over how it is used.

You can’t reclaim the money, even if plans fail.

If your son buys in his name, you can’t access or sell the property.

It’s not like FD or mutual funds where joint holding can give fallback.

What If Things Don’t Go as Planned?
UAE economy is oil and expat driven.

Suppose your son loses his job or plans to move – what happens to the property?

You won’t be able to manage it from India.

Even if he rents it out, managing tenants from a different country is tough.

Real estate is not just buying. It's about upkeep, legal, tenant issues, resale.

Risk to Your Own Retirement
Have you completed your own retirement plan yet?

Do you have Rs 4 to 5 crore retirement safety net in place?

Do you have emergency funds and health funds built?

Are all your goals like daughter’s wedding, family medical fund, travel set aside?

If not, gifting a large sum is like taking oxygen off your own mask first.

Better Alternatives You Can Offer
If your son is trustworthy and you want to help, consider:

Loan instead of gift, with proper documentation.

Partial support, not entire funding.

Ask him to contribute equally or take a loan in UAE.

Support through mutual fund SIPs in his name.

Help him build liquid, growing assets, not locked real estate.

This way, he gains and you are not fully exposed.

Real Estate Is Not a Great Wealth Creator Today
You must avoid the emotional belief that property equals security.

Real estate doesn’t grow consistently.

Mutual funds with active management have outperformed property in last 10 years.

Property also has costs, taxes, repairs, and no regular income.

Mutual funds are far superior for growth, liquidity, and risk control.

Questions You Must Ask Before Gifting
Can I afford to lose this money forever?

Have I written my own financial plan and retirement strategy?

Is my emergency, health, and life cover fully secured?

What if the property fails to generate returns?

Will this affect my peace of mind in old age?

If any of these answers cause hesitation, don’t gift.

Emotional Boundaries in Money
Helping a child is fine.

But giving up your financial independence is not fine.

Children may not understand money the way you do.

If the money is wasted, the emotional scar stays with you, not them.

So act not just with heart, but with eyes open.

Final Insights
You are right to feel unsure. That means you are thinking wisely.

Gift only if:

Your own retirement and future is 100% secure.

You don’t need the money ever again.

Your son has detailed plan, not vague hope.

Property is just a part of a diversified portfolio.

Else, help him partially, not fully. Help with knowledge, not only money.

Build your own peace and dignity in retirement first.

Then give from abundance, not from pressure or guilt.

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Hi i am 40M. would request your help to understand what should be the corpus required for retirement as i want to get retired in next 3-5yrs. currently my take home is 2.3L monthly & my wife also works but leaving the job in next 2-3 months. we have a daughter 10yrs, currently i stay on rent and total monthly expense is 1.1L month. once i will retire we will shift in our own parental flat, where hopefully there will be no rent. current Investments 1. 50L in REC bonds getting matured in 2029 2. 42L in stocks 3. 17L in MF 4. 16L FD 5. 15L in PPF 6. 1.3L SIP monthly i do My Wife Investments 1. 30L corpus 2. flat with current value 40L and we get rental of 10K monthly. Please guide what should be the retirement corpus required combined to retire, assuming i need 75L for my daughter post grad and marriage and we would be requiring 75K monthly for our expenses after retiring
Ans: You have explained your income, goals, current assets, and future plans with great clarity. Your early planning spirit is strong. This gives a very good base. You can reach a peaceful retirement with smart steps in the next few years.

» Your Current Position

You are 40 years old. You plan to retire in 3 to 5 years. You earn Rs 2.3 lakh per month. Your wife also works but will stop working soon. You have one daughter aged 10. Your current monthly cost is around Rs 1.1 lakh. This cost will reduce after retirement because you will shift to your parental flat.

Your investment base is already good. You have saved in bonds, stocks, mutual funds, PPF, FD, and SIP. Your wife also has her own savings and rental income from a flat. All these create a good starting point.

This early base helps you plan stronger. It also gives room for more shaping. You are on the right road.

» Your Family Goals

You need Rs 75 lakh for your daughter’s higher education and marriage.

You want Rs 75,000 per month for family living after retirement.

You want to retire in 3 to 5 years.

You will shift to your parental flat after retirement.

You will have rental income of Rs 10,000 from your wife’s flat.

These goals are clear. They give direction. They allow a strong plan.

» Your Present Investments

Your investments include:

Rs 50 lakh in REC bonds maturing in 2029.

Rs 42 lakh in stocks.

Rs 17 lakh in mutual funds.

Rs 16 lakh in fixed deposits.

Rs 15 lakh in PPF.

Rs 1.3 lakh as monthly SIP.

Your wife holds:

Rs 30 lakh corpus.

A flat worth Rs 40 lakh with rent of Rs 10,000 each month.

Your combined net worth is healthy. This gives good power to build your retirement fund in the coming years.

» Understanding Your Expense Need After Retirement

You expect Rs 75,000 per month after retirement. This includes all basic needs. You will not have rent. That reduces cost. This assumption looks fair today.

Your cost will rise with inflation. So you must plan for rising needs. A strong retirement corpus must support rising cost for 40 to 45 years because you are retiring early.

An early retirement needs a large buffer. So you need safety along with growth. Your plan must include growth assets and safety assets.

» How Much Monthly Income You Will Need Later

Rs 75,000 per month is Rs 9 lakh per year. In future years, this cost can rise. If we assume steady rise, your future cost will be much higher.

So the retirement corpus must be designed to:

Give monthly income.

Beat inflation.

Support you for 40 to 45 years.

Protect your family even in market down cycles.

Allow flexibility if your needs change.

A strong retirement fund must support both safety and long-term growth.

» How Much Corpus You Should Target

A safe target is a large and flexible corpus that can support long years without running out of money. For early retirement, the usual thumb rule suggests a very high number. This is because you need income for many decades.

You need a corpus big enough to produce rising income. You also need a cushion for unexpected health costs, lifestyle shocks, and inflation changes.

Your target retirement corpus should be in a strong range. For your needs of Rs 75,000 per month and for goals like daughter’s education and marriage, you should aim for a combined retirement readiness corpus in the higher bracket.

A safe range for your family would be a very large number crossing multiple crores. This large range gives you:

Income safety.

Inflation protection.

Peace during market cycles.

Comfort in long life.

Room for daughter’s future.

Strong backup for health.

You are already on the way due to your existing assets. You will reach close to this range with systematic building over the next 3 to 5 years.

» Why You Need This Larger Corpus

You will retire early. That means more years of living from your corpus. Your corpus must not fall early. It must grow even after retirement. It must give monthly income and long-term family protection.

This is only possible when the corpus is strong and well-structured. A weak corpus creates stress. A strong corpus creates freedom.

Also, your daughter’s future cost must be kept aside. This must be parked in a separate fund. This must not touch your retirement money.

A strong corpus makes these two worlds separate and safe.

» Your Existing Assets and Their Strength

You already have good diversification:

Bonds give safety.

Stocks give growth.

Mutual funds give managed growth.

FD gives stability.

PPF gives tax-free long-term savings.

This blend is already a good start. But you need to make the blend more structured for early retirement.

Your Rs 1.3 lakh monthly SIP is also strong. It builds your future fast. You should continue.

Your wife’s rental income is small but steady. This adds strength.

Your combined financial base can reach your retirement target if you refine your allocation now.

» Your Daughter’s Future Fund Need

You need Rs 75 lakh for your daughter’s education and marriage. You should keep this goal separate from your retirement goal.

Your current SIP and future allocations should create a dedicated fund for this goal. A long-term fund can grow well when managed actively.

Do not mix this fund with your retirement needs. Mixing leads to shortage in old age. Always keep this corpus ring-fenced.

» A Strong Asset Mix For Your Retirement Path

A balanced mix is needed. You need growth assets to beat inflation. You also need stable assets for income.

You must avoid index funds because they do not give flexibility. Index funds follow a fixed index. They cannot make active changes in different markets. They cannot move to better stocks when markets change. They force you to stay in weak sectors for long. They also do not help you in down cycles because they cannot protect you by shifting to safer options. This can hurt retirement planning.

Actively managed funds are better because:

They give active asset selection.

They give scope for better returns.

They give flexibility to change sectors.

They give downside management.

They give access to a skilled fund manager.

They support long-term planning more safely.

Direct plans also carry risk. Direct plans do not give guidance. They do not give behavioural support. They do not give market timing help. They do not give portfolio shaping. They leave all the judgement to you. One mistake can cost years of wealth.

Regular plans with guidance from a Certified Financial Planner help you shape decisions. They help you remain disciplined. They help you avoid panic. They help you decide allocation changes at the right time. This saves wealth in long-term.

» How Your Investment Journey Should Grow in the Next 3–5 Years

Continue your SIP.

Increase SIP when your income rises.

Shift part of your stock holding into planned long-term mutual funds to reduce concentration risk.

Build a defined daughter’s education fund.

Keep a part of your REC bond maturity amount for long-term.

Avoid locking too much into fixed deposits for long periods.

Build a safety fund for one year of expenses.

This will create a full structure.

» Your Rental Income Role

Your rental income of Rs 10,000 per month is small but steady. Over time it will rise. This income will support your monthly cash flow after retirement.

You can use this for utilities or health insurance premiums. This gives a cushion.

» Your Emergency Buffer

You should keep at least one year of essential cost in a safe place. This can be in a liquid account or short-term fund. This protects you in shocks.

Since you plan early retirement, a strong buffer is important. It gives peace even in low months.

» A Structured Retirement Approach

A complete retirement plan for you should include:

A clear monthly income plan after retirement.

A corpus that can grow and protect.

A rising income system that matches inflation.

A separate daughter’s future fund.

A health cover plan for your family.

A tax-efficient withdrawal plan.

A market cycle plan to protect you in tough times.

This holistic approach keeps your family strong for decades.

» What You Should Build by Retirement Year

Your aim should be to reach a strong multi-crore range in investments before retirement. You already hold a large amount. You will add more in the next 3 to 5 years through SIP, stock growth, bond maturity, and disciplined saving.

Once you reach your target range, you can start the shifting process:

Move a part to stable assets.

Keep a part in long-term growth assets.

Create a monthly income strategy.

Keep a reserve bucket.

Keep a child future bucket.

Keep a long-term growth bucket.

This structure protects you in all market conditions.

» Final Insights

Your financial journey is already strong. You have a good income. You have saved well. You have multiple asset types. You have a clear timeline. And you have clear goals. This foundation is solid.

In the next 3 to 5 years, your focus should be on growing your combined corpus to a strong multi-crore range, keeping a separate fund for your daughter, reducing risk in unplanned assets, and building a stable long-term structure.

With the present path and a disciplined structure, you can retire peacefully and support your family with confidence for many decades.

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Hello my name is saket, I monthly salary is 43k and my saving is zero. My Rent is 15 k and 10 k i send to my parents. How can i save money and investments.
Ans: 1. Your Current Monthly Numbers

Salary: Rs 43,000

Rent: Rs 15,000

Support to parents: Rs 10,000

Left with: Rs 18,000 for food, travel, bills, and savings

You have very little room, but saving is still possible if done smartly.

2. First Step: Build a Small Emergency Buffer

You must build Rs 10,000 to Rs 20,000 emergency money.
This protects you from taking loans for small issues.

How to build it:

Save Rs 3,000 to Rs 5,000 every month in a simple bank savings account

Do this for the next few months

Don’t touch it unless truly needed

3. Create a Mini Budget (Very Simple One)

Try this split from the remaining Rs 18,000:

Daily living (food + transport): Rs 10,000 – 11,000

Personal expenses (phone, internet, basics): Rs 3,000 – 4,000

Savings + investments: Rs 3,000 – 5,000

If this feels difficult, reduce food/transport costs by small adjustments.

4. Where to Invest Once You Have Emergency Money

(For minors: This is general education. For actual investing, get guidance from a trusted adult or family member.)

After you build emergency money, start small monthly investing.

You can begin with:

Rs 1,000 to Rs 2,000 SIP in a simple, diversified equity fund

Increase the SIP whenever salary increases or expenses reduce

Avoid complicated products.
Keep it simple.
Focus on consistency.

5. Easy Practical Ways to Increase Saving

These small moves help a lot:

Avoid food delivery

Use public transport as much as possible

Reduce subscriptions you don’t use

Fix a daily expense limit

Keep a separate bank account only for savings

Even Rs 200 saved daily = Rs 6,000 monthly.

6. Increase Income Slowly

Try small income boosters:

Weekend tutoring

Freelancing

Part-time projects

Selling old gadgets

Learning new skills for future salary growth

Even Rs 3,000 extra income changes your savings life.

7. Build the Habit First

The amount doesn’t matter in the beginning.
The habit matters more.

Even saving Rs 500 every month is better than zero.
Once salary grows, you will already know how to save.

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Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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