Is it wise to gift my hard earned money to my NRI son to invest in real estate in UAE.
I am sceptical on this
Ans: Your scepticism is healthy and actually very necessary. Gifting your hard-earned money to your NRI son for real estate in UAE may look like support, but it comes with serious long-term implications.
Let us evaluate this decision with a 360-degree lens.
Emotional Value vs Financial Value
You love your son. That’s clear.
But love must not override wise decisions.
You spent years earning that money.
You need clarity before letting go of control over it.
Understanding Real Estate in UAE
Real estate in UAE is highly speculative.
Prices are driven by demand from expatriates and global factors.
There is no permanent ownership for foreigners in many areas.
Rental yields can be low and inconsistent.
Real estate is not a liquid asset.
Selling property during urgency may take months or even years.
You may end up gifting money that locks itself away.
Legal & Control Issues in Gifting
Gift to NRI child is permitted under LRS (Liberalised Remittance Scheme).
But once given, you have no legal control over how it is used.
You can’t reclaim the money, even if plans fail.
If your son buys in his name, you can’t access or sell the property.
It’s not like FD or mutual funds where joint holding can give fallback.
What If Things Don’t Go as Planned?
UAE economy is oil and expat driven.
Suppose your son loses his job or plans to move – what happens to the property?
You won’t be able to manage it from India.
Even if he rents it out, managing tenants from a different country is tough.
Real estate is not just buying. It's about upkeep, legal, tenant issues, resale.
Risk to Your Own Retirement
Have you completed your own retirement plan yet?
Do you have Rs 4 to 5 crore retirement safety net in place?
Do you have emergency funds and health funds built?
Are all your goals like daughter’s wedding, family medical fund, travel set aside?
If not, gifting a large sum is like taking oxygen off your own mask first.
Better Alternatives You Can Offer
If your son is trustworthy and you want to help, consider:
Loan instead of gift, with proper documentation.
Partial support, not entire funding.
Ask him to contribute equally or take a loan in UAE.
Support through mutual fund SIPs in his name.
Help him build liquid, growing assets, not locked real estate.
This way, he gains and you are not fully exposed.
Real Estate Is Not a Great Wealth Creator Today
You must avoid the emotional belief that property equals security.
Real estate doesn’t grow consistently.
Mutual funds with active management have outperformed property in last 10 years.
Property also has costs, taxes, repairs, and no regular income.
Mutual funds are far superior for growth, liquidity, and risk control.
Questions You Must Ask Before Gifting
Can I afford to lose this money forever?
Have I written my own financial plan and retirement strategy?
Is my emergency, health, and life cover fully secured?
What if the property fails to generate returns?
Will this affect my peace of mind in old age?
If any of these answers cause hesitation, don’t gift.
Emotional Boundaries in Money
Helping a child is fine.
But giving up your financial independence is not fine.
Children may not understand money the way you do.
If the money is wasted, the emotional scar stays with you, not them.
So act not just with heart, but with eyes open.
Final Insights
You are right to feel unsure. That means you are thinking wisely.
Gift only if:
Your own retirement and future is 100% secure.
You don’t need the money ever again.
Your son has detailed plan, not vague hope.
Property is just a part of a diversified portfolio.
Else, help him partially, not fully. Help with knowledge, not only money.
Build your own peace and dignity in retirement first.
Then give from abundance, not from pressure or guilt.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment