नमस्ते मैम/सर
मैं अपने चचेरे भाई के साथ रिलेशनशिप में हूं और हम दोनों शादी करना चाहते हैं। मैं अपने माता-पिता को कैसे मनाऊं, क्योंकि उत्तरी भारत में यह निषिद्ध है, लेकिन दक्षिणी भाग में इसे स्वीकार किया जाता है।
Ans: प्रिय अनाम,
सगोत्रीय विवाह (रक्त से संबंधित लोगों के बीच) उनकी संतानों में आनुवंशिक विकारों की संभावना को बढ़ा सकते हैं। यह कारण हो सकता है कि आपके माता-पिता विवाह को स्वीकार न करें। यह समझने की बात है कि आपके माता-पिता क्या कह रहे हैं और किस वजह से वे विवाह से इनकार करते हैं। मेरा सुझाव है कि अपने माता-पिता से पता करें कि उनके दिमाग में क्या चल रहा है।
शुभकामनाएँ!
अनु कृष्णा
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Asked on - Feb 26, 2025 | Answered on Feb 26, 2025
Listenमैडम, यहाँ बहुत सारे विवाद हैं, मेरे पिता की बहन का निधन किसी गंभीर स्वास्थ्य समस्या के कारण हो गया था और वह बहुत जल्दी मर गई और मेरे पिता उन पर भरोसा नहीं करते क्योंकि वह एक तरह के अय्याश व्यक्ति हैं, वह अपनी बेटी को भी बेच सकते हैं जिससे मैं प्यार करता हूँ क्योंकि हम 5 साल से साथ हैं और हम हार नहीं मान सकते। मुझे पता है कि इसके कई परिणाम होंगे लेकिन मुझे उम्मीद है कि शायद मेरे पिता इसे स्वीकार कर लें।
Ans: प्रिय अनाम,
अगर आपने वैसे भी आगे बढ़ने का फैसला किया है, तो इस पर कोई चर्चा की जरूरत नहीं है, है न? जैसा कि मैंने सुझाव दिया था, पता करें कि आपके माता-पिता क्या कहते हैं...
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अनु कृष्णा
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Asked on - Jun 01, 2025 | Answered on Jun 02, 2025
Hello Mam Good afternoon
My father today came to know about my relationship
Cause of some chaos and lots of allegation is rising on her because of her father’s past conflicts my parents are thinking that she works in bar and all as her brother is twin of her so parents also stated that they trying to make relationship and abducted our money and properties , my sibling went Goa to enjoy and there he met both of them so her brother just kidded him to have drink and my sibling took it serious and today he told that thing to dad and dad was like how ridiculous but brother knows it was just a joke nothing else..
I know both of them twin , her brother is kind of funny and kidding kind of person
And she is hardworking lady she works in PNG Jewellers of Panaji Branch along with her brother both have a clear intention to build their own house and live happy and they both are working too on it
They both know about their father so they discussed about it and later they visited Goa from UP
Than they started their job and soon afterward her father along stepmom shifted Goa as her father did the same past chaos
So they are living in Goa
I know my parents are just trying to end this but I can’t it’s been 5year long relationship with lots of ups down but healthy
My mother and brother they both are of same mindset they bluffed into my dad’s ear and today in evening I have to do discussion with dad
How should I start as I know this phase is really heavy and painful cause I’m 21 year old an aspirant and just met with this consequence
My plan was to first achieve my job and than I’ll reveal but destiny have some other plans
Please mam help me out…
I’ll be very grateful to you please reply as soon as possible you can please
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I have been very clear on my suggestions to you in your initial question to me. Have an honest conversation with your parents and see what comes out of it.
All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Asked on - Jun 02, 2025 | Answered on Jun 11, 2025
I had shared my everything after all of that I have to end according to my family and she also don’t want her family get to know this issue and I’m unable to anything this pain this shiver though which I’m going is disaster
Everything which I made in this 5 year of emotions love I lost it all
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I am sorry to say this BUT you are using this place to just vent out your feelings. How is that helping? Not once have you shared if you have worked on the initial suggestions that were given to you. Nothing comes out of complaining. If you want to have a better result, then do things differently than before.
All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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