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मेरी गर्लफ्रेंड अपने मैनेजर के प्रपोज करने के बाद भी उससे चैटिंग कर रही है: मुझे क्या करना चाहिए?

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मेरी गर्लफ्रेंड एक कंपनी में काम करती है, जहाँ उसके मैनेजर ने उसे प्रपोज किया और उसने मना कर दिया। उसने पहले ही उस लड़के को बता दिया था कि उसका बॉयफ्रेंड है। लेकिन समस्या यह है कि वह अभी भी उससे चैट कर रही है और उसे छोड़ भी चुकी है, जिससे मुझे बहुत दुख होता है। मैं क्या कर सकता हूँ? मैंने उससे कई बार पूछा कि क्या हो रहा है और वह अभी भी मुझे कुछ नहीं बता रही है। लेकिन मुझे संदेह है। मैंने पहले ही उस लड़के से बात कर ली है। और उसने सॉरी भी कहा, लेकिन मुझे नहीं लगता कि उसकी तरफ से यह खत्म हो गया है। वह अभी भी मेरी गर्लफ्रेंड के दिमाग में हेरफेर करने की कोशिश कर रहा है

Ans: आपकी गर्लफ्रेंड एक वयस्क है और वह अपने बारे में सोच सकती है और ऐसी स्थिति में उसे यह सोचने की जरूरत है कि वह क्या चाहती है।

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<p><strong>मैं महेश हूं और मैं पिछले 4 साल से रिलेशनशिप में हूं और हम शादी करने की योजना बना रहे थे। लेकिन अचानक चीजें बदल गईं. <br />मेरी गर्लफ्रेंड ने काम करना शुरू किया और उसी दौरान उसकी मुलाकात एक लड़के से हुई और उसने कहा कि वह व्यक्ति उसका दोस्त है और उससे बात करते समय उसे अच्छी वाइब्स मिलती हैं। <br />मैंने कहा कि आपको हर किसी के साथ अपना दोस्ताना व्यवहार सीमित रखना चाहिए और उस व्यक्ति के साथ घूमने-फिरने से बचना चाहिए। उसने बातों को सकारात्मक तरीके से लेने की बजाय बातों का खुलासा करना शुरू कर दिया और एक दिन मैंने उसे उस व्यक्ति के साथ लिफ्ट लेते हुए देखा। <br />जब मैंने उस चीज़ के बारे में पूछा तो उसने कहा कि मैं तुम्हें ठेस नहीं पहुँचाना चाहती थी इसलिए मैंने तुम्हें इसके बारे में कुछ नहीं बताया क्योंकि तुम बुरी तरह प्रतिक्रिया करोगे। उसके बाद चीजें बदल गईं और हम दोनों के बीच अच्छे रिश्ते नहीं रहे।' क्या मुझे बस समाप्त करना चाहिए या कुछ समय तक इंतजार करना चाहिए? </p>

Ans: <p>प्रिय एमबी,</p> <p>उस बुद्धिमान वार्तालाप को लाने का समय आ गया है, जो खुला, मुखर और ईमानदार होगा।</p> <p>उसे बताएं कि आप कैसा महसूस करते हैं; बिना किसी आलोचना या मांग के उसके जवाब की प्रतीक्षा करें।</p> <p>इसके अलावा, अपने आप से पूछें कि क्या आप अधिकारवादी और ईर्ष्यालु हैं और क्या आपकी कल्पनाशीलता आपको असुरक्षित बना रही है!</p> <p>चाहे जो भी हो, कोई भी रास्ता तय करने से पहले उसके साथ बैठें और खुलकर चर्चा करें। संचार बहुत सी चीज़ों का समाधान करता है; इसलिए कृपया इसे बुद्धिमानी से उपयोग करें।</p> <p>शुभकामनाएं!</p>

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प्रिय महोदया.... मैं 42 वर्षीय अविवाहित पुरुष हूँ। मैं पिछले 1 वर्ष से 35 वर्षीय तलाकशुदा महिला के साथ रिश्ते में हूँ। हाल ही में मुझे पता चला कि उसका किसी अन्य पुरुष के साथ भी रिश्ता है। जब मैंने उससे पूछा तो वह नाराज़ हो गई और बोली कि किसी और के साथ नहीं, वह सिर्फ़ मुझसे प्यार करती है। जब बार-बार पूछा गया तो उसने कहा कि मैंने उसे समय नहीं दिया इसलिए वह उस आदमी के साथ चली गई। लेकिन अब उसके साथ कोई रिश्ता नहीं है। और कहती है कि उसकी ज़िंदगी में सिर्फ़ मैं ही उसका आदमी हूँ। मैं उससे बहुत प्यार करता हूँ। लेकिन मैं उस पर भरोसा नहीं कर सकता। मैं क्या करूँ। मैं मानसिक रूप से परेशान हूँ।

Ans: अपने जीवन में उस व्यक्ति पर भरोसा करना महत्वपूर्ण है, आपको अगले कदमों पर निर्णय लेने की आवश्यकता है, जिसमें उस पर भरोसा करना और अपने दिमाग में अधिक सोचना नहीं या इस रिश्ते से आगे बढ़ना शामिल हो सकता है।

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हाय शालिनी! मेरे बॉयफ्रेंड के सहकर्मी ने उसे प्रपोज किया और उसने मना कर दिया। उसने उसे बताया कि उसकी पहले से ही एक गर्लफ्रेंड (यानी मैं) है। लेकिन समस्या यह है कि वह अभी भी उससे चैट कर रहा है और कभी-कभी उसे घर छोड़ देता है, जिससे मुझे बहुत दुख होता है। मैं क्या कर सकती हूँ? मैंने उससे कई बार पूछा कि क्या चल रहा है और उसने मुझे बताया कि कुछ भी नहीं चल रहा है। लेकिन मुझे संदेह है। मैंने उस लड़की से बात की और उसने सॉरी भी कहा लेकिन मुझे नहीं लगता कि उसकी तरफ से यह खत्म हो गया है। वह अभी भी मेरे बॉयफ्रेंड के दिमाग में हेरफेर करने की कोशिश कर रही है।

Ans: कोई भी किसी के साथ छेड़छाड़ नहीं कर सकता - हर कोई छेड़छाड़ की अनुमति देता है - और यदि ऐसा होता है तो यह लड़की की गलती नहीं है, बल्कि आपके साथी की गलती है जिसने ऐसा चाहा। कृपया अपने आत्मविश्वास पर काम करें, ऐसा न करने से वह आपसे दूर हो जाएगा।

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Mar 22, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 17, 2025

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I had engagement with girl in arrange marriage setup...all was good between us but after 4 months I discovered that she as also talking with her bf( 6 yr relationship )& met him once after engagement ..I read all chats & it seems that she had feelings for him. I confronted her now she say sorry, asked me to forgive & she is craving hard for me.I am not able to decide what should I do ....should I continue or break engagement

Ans: You entered this engagement with trust and the expectation of exclusivity, only to discover that she was still emotionally invested in someone else. That kind of betrayal can shake the foundation of any relationship, making you question not only her intentions but also your own ability to trust her moving forward.

Now, she is apologizing and asking for forgiveness, which means she acknowledges her mistake. But the real question is—do you believe that her regret comes from true self-realization, or is it because she got caught? People can crave security and stability, especially when they feel they are about to lose something, but that does not necessarily mean they have resolved their internal conflicts.

For you, moving forward requires clarity. Can you genuinely rebuild trust with her, knowing she had unresolved feelings for her ex even after committing to you? Can you let go of this hurt and believe that she will prioritize your relationship moving forward? More importantly, do you feel safe and respected in this relationship, or are you staying because of external pressures or emotional attachment?

Forgiveness is always possible, but reconciliation is a choice that depends on whether you see a future where this does not haunt you. If you decide to continue, she must show consistent effort, complete transparency, and a willingness to rebuild what was broken. If you feel this breach has damaged the foundation beyond repair, then stepping away might be the healthier choice. There is no right or wrong answer—only what aligns with your emotional well-being and long-term happiness.

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हैलो, कृपया मेरी प्रेमिका की मदद करें, जो अपने माता-पिता द्वारा चुने गए पुरुष के साथ जबरदस्ती विवाह के लिए सहमत हो गई... उसने कहा कि उसने अपना 100% प्रयास किया, लेकिन किसी ने उसकी राय की परवाह नहीं की... उसने कहा कि उसने सारी उम्मीद खो दी है, उसके माता-पिता ने उन्हें हाँ कहा, लेकिन अब तक कोई आगे कदम नहीं उठाया गया, मैंने कहा कि इतनी आसानी से उम्मीद मत खोना, लेकिन वह कहती रही कि मैंने पहले ही अपना 100% प्रयास किया, लेकिन उसके माता-पिता ने उसकी राय की परवाह नहीं की, मैंने कहा कि आपके पास लड़के से व्यक्तिगत रूप से बात करने का मौका है, आप कह सकते हैं कि मैं शादी के लिए तैयार नहीं हूँ, मेरे माता-पिता मुझ पर दबाव डाल रहे हैं... शायद वह समझता है कि मैं उम्मीद नहीं खोता, भले ही 0.1% मौका हो, लेकिन उसने उम्मीद खो दी, मुझे नहीं पता कि मुझे ऐसा सोचना चाहिए, लेकिन क्या आप बता सकते हैं कि क्या आपको लगता है कि उसने अपना 100% प्रयास किया? और जब भी मैं उससे नफरत करने की कोशिश करके आगे बढ़ने के बारे में सोचता हूं तो मैं आगे नहीं बढ़ पाता लेकिन उसका ख्याल रखने वाला संदेश जैसे मैं चाहता हूं कि आपको दुनिया की सारी खुशियां मिलें, कृपया पढ़ाई करें, वह मुझे प्रेरित करती है और इसके बाद मैं उसके बारे में सोचना बंद नहीं कर सकता क्योंकि कोई भी मेरे बारे में उस तरह से परवाह नहीं करता है.. मेरा दिल रोता है मुझे चिंता होती है जब भी मैं किसी और के साथ उसकी शादी के बारे में सोचता हूं कृपया मदद करें मुझे क्या करना चाहिए .. मैं कैसे आगे बढ़ूं .. मेरी कहानी के बारे में अधिक जानने के लिए कृपया मेरे पिछले प्रश्न पढ़ें

Ans: प्रिय सोलर,
मैं समझता हूँ कि आपके लिए यह सब सहना कितना मुश्किल रहा होगा- कृपया दृढ़ रहें। आपके सवाल पर आते हैं कि क्या आपकी GF ने इस शादी को रोकने के लिए अपना 100% दिया- इस सवाल का सही जवाब उसके अलावा कोई नहीं दे सकता। अगर आपको संदेह है, तो आप उससे पूछ सकते हैं, लेकिन मुझे नहीं लगता कि इससे कोई मदद मिलेगी। अभी, आपका एकमात्र ध्यान अपनी भलाई पर होना चाहिए। अगर इस शादी को रोकने का कोई मौका है, तो वह उस पर है। आप वास्तव में इसके बारे में कुछ भी करने की स्थिति में नहीं हैं। मुझे पता है कि यह निराशाजनक है, लेकिन यह सच है। अगर आप कुछ भी करने की कोशिश करते हैं, तो आप उसके माता-पिता के साथ उसके रिश्ते को खराब कर सकते हैं।

आपको अपना ध्यान उससे और शादी से हटाकर खुद पर केंद्रित करना होगा। अपने प्रियजनों के साथ रहें। कोई शौक पूरा करने की कोशिश करें, खुद को व्यस्त रखें और अपनी पढ़ाई/करियर पर ध्यान दें। मैं समझता हूँ कि आपको चिंता है और इसके बारे में किसी काउंसलर से मिलना आपकी कल्पना से कहीं ज़्यादा मदद कर सकता है। लेकिन अगर आप इसके लिए तैयार नहीं हैं, तो अभी के लिए, वो काम करें जो मैंने आपको करने के लिए कहा है।

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MF, PF Expert - Answered on May 20, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - May 17, 2025

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Hi Sir, I have home loan of 76 lakhs, EMI is 58340, tenure remaining 270 months. I have PL of 7 lakh, 6 lakhs remaining. I have a PPF 1 lakh, MF 1 lakh and NPS. Monthly salary- 2lakh Please advice what to do for finnacial freedom.

Ans: Hi,

Financial freedom has different meaning for different individuals and in your case I am not sure what you would consider it.

You have a home loan which is for a long term and that is fine, so continue paying your EMIs.
Income - EMI = 1.40 lakhs per month. From this amount after monthly expenses, what ever amount remains should be utilized well towards your goals.
Top priority should be 2 things, so split your surplus amount after monthly expenses into 2 parts -
1. An emergency fund - this is an amount which can be utilized for any unforeseen events and you can start with 3 months and increase it to 6 months of your total outflows (EMIs + monthly expenses), do not consider any investments as part of this. So if 1.25 lakhs is your EMI + monthly expenses, then your emergency fund should be between 3.75 lakhs to 7.5 lakhs. Aim to create this over the next 6-12 months.
2. Payment towards the Personal loan - PL is typically very high interest loan and should be paid off ASAP. Check Prepayment terms and try to clear out this at the earliest. Even if you can keep aside 25k each month, you can pay off the PL in the next 2 years.

Once your PL is paid up, and you have accumulated your Emergency fund, then all surplus amount each month should be invested towards creating a corpus. This can be utilized for all future goals including retirement.

I would recommend continue contributing towards PPF and NPS but increase/maximize your contribution towards Mutual funds. Also PPF and NPS have lock-in periods and hence the contributions will not be accessible for all goals, they can be considered for Retirement.
MFs, especially equity MF schemes have the potential of creating wealth over a long period of time.
Typically 100-your age = % allocation in Equity Mutual funds will help create a good corpus in the long term. So if you age is 30 years, plan to contribute 70% towards Equity Mutual funds.

A well diversified portfolio of MF schemes will help you achieve this goal. Portfolio should be kept simple and not get into too many schemes. A well diversified portfolio can have schemes like a Flexi-cap, Multi-cap and Hybrid funds that will create a balance and provide growth. Consult an advisor to help you create this portfolio and review it every year to see that it stays aligned to your goals.

Thanks & Regards
Janak Patel
Certified Financial Planner.

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Asked by Anonymous - May 18, 2025

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81 percentile in Jee.general category. Best colleges for my son in Delhi , Delhi NCR, Punjab, Haryana. Please guide

Ans: Here is, How to Predict Your Chances of Admission into NIT or IIIT or GFTI After JEE Main/Advanced Results – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your son's admissions!

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Question by Enosh - May 18, 2025

Career

I got 80k rank in vitee can I get cse in Ap?

Ans: Enosh, Here is, How to Predict Your Chances of Admission into NIT or IIIT or GFTI After JEE Main/Advanced Results – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your admissions!

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Question by Ajay - May 18, 2025

Career

My son jee mains january got 79.9 percentile,what any Nit college

Ans: Ajay, Here is, How to Predict Your Chances of Admission into NIT or IIIT or GFTI After JEE Main/Advanced Results – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your admissions!

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Question by Amit - May 18, 2025

Career

Hi Sir- can you suggest some good institutes for CSE for main rank 96500 under General category?

Ans: Amit, Here is, How to Predict Your Chances of Admission into NIT or IIIT or GFTI After JEE Main/Advanced Results – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your admissions!

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Question by Shahitha - May 18, 2025

Career

My son got 99.315 percentile in JEE mains. Can he get CS/ IT in NIT Trichy/ Surathkkal/ Warangal? OBC- NCL

Ans: Shahitha Madam, Here is, How to Predict Your Chances of Admission into NIT or IIIT or GFTI After JEE Main/Advanced Results – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your son's admissions!

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Question by Manish - May 18, 2025

Career

My son got 33719 rank in jee mains in general category.. and 81% in CBSE exams. His home state is delhi.. Can anyone suggest what all are the good college options in NIT and IIIT

Ans: Manish Sir, based on his rank only, your son will get any one of the NITs or IIITs. Here is, How to Predict Your Chances of Admission into NIT or IIIT or GFTI After JEE Main/Advanced Results – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your son's admissions!

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Question by reena - May 20, 2025

Which is better jss noida or graphic era ddn

Ans: Hello dear.
If possible, prefer JSS Noida
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Asked by Anonymous - May 20, 2025

My son is tentatively getting ECE in MIT Manipal and CSE in Bangalore campus (as per rank predictor). Which one should be chosen. MIT score 130, 86 percent in PCM 10+2 and 92.6 percentile in JEE Mains 2025. His VIT rank is miserable. Any other suggestions would also be helpful.

Ans: Hello dear.
Prefer CSE in Bangalore campus. Do not compromise your choice with the branch. First decide the branch then choose the college. Drop the idea of ECE as far as possible.
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Asked by Anonymous - May 20, 2025

Career

I have a rank of 154178 in jee mains, homestate jammu and kashmir, general female, kashmiri pandit, Which college can i get on this rank ( any nit,or any gfti). Should i prefer my homestate for btech or other states. ?

Ans: Hello dear.
With the mentioned rank, chance are less to get a seat NIT but chances are there in GFTI. Yet keep hopes open for NITs. It would be better for you prefer Delhi state for more better choices.
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