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विशेषज्ञ की सलाह चाहिए?हमारे गुरु मदद कर सकते हैं
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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 07, 2024English
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नमस्ते, मैं 31 साल का हूँ और दो साल पहले मेरी शादी हुई है। मैं अपनी पत्नी के साथ पेनेट्रेटिव सेक्स करने से थोड़ा डरता हूँ क्योंकि मुझे डर है कि मैं ठीक से सेक्स नहीं कर पाऊँगा या मेरा आत्मविश्वास कम होगा। पहली बार सेक्स कैसे करें। कृपया मार्गदर्शन करें। अग्रिम धन्यवाद

Ans: प्रिय अनाम,
कृपया किसी विशेषज्ञ से सलाह लें जो इस बारे में आपके डर को दूर करने में आपके साथ काम कर सके। एक बार डर दूर हो जाने के बाद, मनुष्य के लिए ज्ञात सबसे स्वाभाविक कार्य के लिए किसी मार्गदर्शन की आवश्यकता नहीं होती।

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<p><strong>प्रिय लव गुरु,<br /> मैं जल्द ही शादी करूंगा. यह एक अरेंज मैरिज है और हम सिर्फ एक महीने पहले मिले थे। <br /> कुछ पारिवारिक बाधाओं के कारण, शादी अगले महीने है।<br /> हम एक दूसरे को पसंद करते हैं। हम कई बार मिले हैं और हर दिन वीडियो कॉल के जरिए बात करने का प्रयास करते हैं। लेकिन हमने अभी तक एक दूसरे से हाथ भी नहीं मिलाया है।<br /> जबकि मैं सेक्स के शारीरिक पहलुओं से अवगत हूं, हालांकि मैं कुंवारी हूं, मुझे यकीन नहीं है कि पहली रात के इस पूरे मामले को कैसे देखा जाए।<br /> मैं नहीं चाहता कि मेरी पत्नी असहज हो या उसे यह अनुभव नापसंद हो।<br /> आप जो भी सलाह साझा कर सकते हैं उसकी बहुत सराहना की जाएगी।<br /> R</strong></p>
Ans: <p>हाय आर,</p> <p>मुझे लगता है कि पहली बार सेक्स और बिस्तर पर किसी महिला को खुश करने के तरीके पर कुछ इंटरनेट शोध आपकी मदद कर सकते हैं? पहली बार आने वाली लड़की को क्या करना चाहिए, क्या नहीं करना चाहिए, इसे उसके लिए कैसे आनंददायक बनाना चाहिए...</p> <p>सबसे महत्वपूर्ण बात, धैर्य रखें।</p> <p&t;आप उसके लिए एक तरह से अजनबी हैं और हो सकता है कि पहली बार जब आप एक साथ अकेले हों तो वह पूरी दूरी तय करने के लिए तैयार न हो, लेकिन &lsquo; की झूठी भावना के कारण खुद पर दबाव डाल सकती है। ;ड्यूटी&rsquo;.</p> <p>आपने खुद बताया कि आपने कभी हाथ भी नहीं पकड़ा है, इसलिए कृपया सज्जन व्यक्ति बनें और यह न सोचें कि शादी आपको किसी महिला से सेक्स की मांग करने का अधिकार देती है।</p> <p>यदि वह भी इसके लिए उत्सुक है, तो यह आपके लिए अच्छा है, लेकिन मेरा सुझाव है कि इस बारे में उससे खुलकर बात करें और विश्वास, खुलेपन और ईमानदारी के आधार पर एक स्वस्थ यौन जीवन की आशा करें।< /p>

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Hello, Anu I have been married to my wife for 2 Month now. Everything is ok going ok in our marriage. We are enjoying time together, eating out, travelling and also having good intemate time with each other. But we are able to have sex with each other, initial because of being uncomfortable to do intemate thinks together, but now mainly due to possibilities that me might have to face pain, my genetals remains dry through out that give in irritation, also I am not able to penetrate, as I kind of thinks that her veginal opning is small. I do tried fingering but see didn't liked it. Also trying to do so I am often loose confidence and also also loose arrosal and desire to go ahead. Please help use so that we can enjoy more of our sexual life.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
There's obviously an issue when it comes to sexual intimacy. But when you are very strictly focused on something not happening, it becomes stress and sexual intimacy in stress never happens.
If there is no medical issue, then it's purely about indulging in a lot of foreplay, a lot emotional bonding and most importantly learn to laugh a lot together. This releases a lot of strain and stress if any from both of you as a couple which in turn will help in intimacy.
If this still doesn't work, do get a medical opinion on any possible reasons that maybe preventing either of you from enjoying the process.

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Sir igot 444 and AIQ is 131279 iam obc ncl (kerala) there is any possibilities for BDS in government college.
Ans: Nibla, A NEET score of 444 falls below the typical marks cutoff for OBC-NCL candidates seeking BDS in government dental colleges, where qualifying marks range between 520–540 for OBC students. Similarly, All India BDS closing ranks under the 15 percent AIQ for OBC rarely exceed 35,000, whereas your AIQ rank is 131,279, placing you far outside the viable admission range. Nationwide only about 3,000 government BDS seats exist, and premier institutions such as SCB Dental College (Cuttack), Government Dental College (Bangalore), and Tamil Nadu Government Dental College (Chennai) closed with AIQ ranks under 30,000 for OBC. Under Kerala’s 85 percent state quota, Government Dental College, Thiruvananthapuram admitted OBC candidates with ranks up to 51,595 in earlier years, while Kottayam and Kannur closed within similar state-rank brackets, implying state ranks must be substantially lower than your AIQ conversion would yield. Consequently, securing a BDS seat in a government college appears highly unlikely. Consider prioritising private or deemed dental colleges with lower cutoffs and participating in both AIQ and state counselling to maximise admission options. Recommendation: Focus on private or deemed dental institutions, as government quota thresholds exceed reachable marks and ranks. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Which university is good among VIT, AMRITA AND SRM?
Ans: VIT Vellore maintains a 90–95% placement rate across the last three years, facilitated by 632–945 recruiters visiting annually and yielding over 3,300 super-dream (≥10 LPA) and 2,800 dream (≥6 LPA) offers in 2024, with a median package near ?9 LPA and strong tech-sector engagement from companies like Microsoft, Amazon and TCS. Amrita Vishwa Vidyapeetham Coimbatore records 90–100% placement consistency for its BTech cohorts, supported by 300+ recruiters including IBM, Wipro and Cognizant, with median salaries around ?7.75 LPA and emphasis on internships and research projects embedding industry standards early in the curriculum. SRM Chennai’s flagship Kattankulathur campus posts 85–90% placement rates over three years, hosting 980–1,313 recruiters and generating 5,500–9,000 offers annually, with average packages around ?7.2 LPA and core-engineering roles from Cognizant, Infosys and Ford. VIT leads in high-value dream offers and recruiter diversity, Amrita excels in top-end consistency and academic rigor, and SRM offers broad sectoral reach with strong core engineering streams.

Recommendation: Prioritise VIT Vellore for maximum high-value offer volume and expansive recruiter network, choose Amrita Coimbatore for nearly universal placement consistency and integrated research opportunities, and consider SRM Chennai if core engineering exposure and diverse sectoral hiring are primary goals. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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