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Life, Relationship Coach - Answered on Feb 10, 2023

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Question by Anonyomus on Feb 09, 2023Hindi

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Why relationship sours when woman earns more than man?

Ans: How one partner views the financial status of the other and how the couple handles it is very personal. If financial status is a cause of concern in the relationship, then both partners need to take a hard look at the equation to determine if they are happy in the relationship, is the relationship meeting their expectations as individuals or partners.

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Hi Ma'am . Just to ask that if both husband and wife are working and earning equally.Should they also contribute equally in expenses

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The decision of how a couple divides their expenses should be based on their mutual agreement and individual financial circumstances. There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question as every couple's situation is unique.

Some couples may choose to split expenses equally, while others may contribute according to their respective incomes or based on their individual financial responsibilities. Additionally, couples may decide to have one person handle the bills and expenses, while the other contributes in other ways such as household chores, childcare, or by saving for future expenses.

It is important for couples to have open and honest conversations about their finances and come up with a plan that works best for them. This may involve setting a budget, creating a joint bank account, or creating a system for tracking expenses.

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W.r.t the relatioship, I am having my own question " why the Wife demanding money most of the time when she is finding that her husband is working in an World classCompany in Abroad? This is true situation where wife is a housewife( Non working). Does money is only find the love , trustworthy, understanding, mutual respect etc in a married life of Man of good working with his non working( houseWife) wife?

Ans: 1. The wife who is not professionally involved is a home-maker and not a housewife. And unfortunately home-makers do not earn a salary - in fact they are on their toes from morning to evening making sure all at home are looked after - and they do this for no income.

2. If your wife is ambitious and expects you to work overseas and that is not you, you need to convey that to her.

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we are married since 7 years, but we are fighting on very little issues. she dont hv any respect for me, i am simple and good but it seems she wanted some very smart and rich guy as compare to me, what should i do.

Ans: It's concerning to hear that you and your wife are fighting frequently and that she does not have respect for you. It's important to address these issues before they escalate and cause further damage to your relationship.

One option is to consider couples therapy or marriage counseling. A trained therapist can help you both identify the root causes of your conflicts, improve communication, and develop strategies for resolving issues in a constructive and respectful way.

It's also important to have open and honest conversations with your wife about how you're feeling and what you would like to see change in your relationship. Try to approach these conversations in a non-confrontational way, using "I" statements instead of blaming or attacking language. For example, instead of saying "You never respect me," try saying "I feel disrespected when you speak to me that way."

If your wife is not receptive to therapy or open communication, it may be necessary to reassess the future of your relationship. Remember, it's important to be in a relationship where both partners feel valued, respected, and loved.

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Wil i get rich woman for relationship

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A lot of things factor in. Are you financially well off? Then, you can find a woman of your own stature. But, a person's financial status should not be the only trait that you should be considering while seeking a match. Matching perspectives, likes and dislikes, personality, education, and more things are to be considered.

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Hi Ravi. My husband is 37 yo. He had a career downfall a couple of years earlier, and now is just able to stay afloat. Compared to others his age, he is earning a meagre 50k a month. My in-laws are very well to do. My brother in law as well is exceptional in his career. This makes me very insecure. When I bring it up to my husband that he should be earning much more, etc, he gets angry and retaliates saying money isn't everything and he has utmost respect at work. All these are hollow words to me being said by someone who is not excelling at work. I would also like to add that I am 31 and also earning 50k. I can understand he had a career downfall, due to which today hes a compromised position. But what pains me is that he doesn't realise how slow and behind he is as compared to others. How can I get over my bitter feelings?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand your perspective and your feelings are valid. Having said that, I would like to remind you that it is unkind to draw comparisons between people- repeatedly reminding your husband about his career downfall, or his brother's and parent's success will do no good, rather it will hurt him irreparably. And I am sure he didn't bring about this downfall intentionally. As long as both of you are leading a happy and comfortable life, comparing your life to others or comparing your financial status to others will do you or your husband no good. It's not easy to pull yourself up; support him, and motivate him, but do not remind him that he's earning way less than others- rest assured, he knows that and possibly beats himself up for it without your knowledge. I am sure he will prosper soon.

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