Stuck in a Karmic Relationship? I'm Tired, How Do I Break Free?

Dear Anu, I don’t know how to start. My Age is 40. This is my second marriage. My first marriage was arranged and it lasted 6 months.  As I was in love we got divorced. We have one son who is 10 years old. Now the issue is my second wife and I have both betrayed each other. I caught her first having a deep love affair with her yoga friend. That fellow is married and we know his wife and daughter. She has started him when she was training for yoga and later they both started classes together. Meanwhile, I am in a relationship with a colleague. Now she is in a different organization. Although she has stopped it, I continue to chat with her. We are both struggling to come to a decision since last 9 months but nothing is working out. We both confessed; she is guilty, I am not. We've had a very rough time. Now she is at her mother’s home. My problem is that I can neither let her go nor forget her. She wants her freedom as earlier but I am not ready. So I am sad while I continue to torture her by asking past questions. I am worried more about my son. I am stuck so I end up bullying her. Please advice. I want to move on. I don’t want to be in relationship but i am afraid of taking decision. Sometime I feel miserable.

hi Anu ji, good Afternoon!!! I am 45 and well settled.my wife loves me lot.I also love her.we have 3 childrens.we all are living a very happy life. I have a big concern that i always attract by other females.I was extra marital affair also.but now it closed.i have tried many times that it not happened.But failed to control. In morning i do morning walk,GYM and meditation .Its my daily routine to walk up at 5.30am and give self 1.30hrs.daily. All things are in control perhaps this. Please suggest what to do.

Hi. I am 54 years. Male. Married at 30 Lost my wife after 7 years of marriage having two kids (who r grown up now). Re married after two years of first wife's demise but separated after three years n having a kid who stays with his mother. Few years after my separation from 2nd wife. I am in to few relations. Today I am in to long distance relationship with two married women's one is separated with a kid and other with two grown up kids. Both are loyal to me. I am happy but since I meet them one in a month or so. I feel the urge to have more. One more word men has approached me n v r chatting n may meet soon. My question is, Is it normal.? Is it ok to live like this. Pls answer.

Hello mam i am 23 and whaen i was 19 i had physical relationship with a guy who done black magic to me and has my photo with him he says he love me and want to marry me but i dont rejected it after that he tell everyone about it now i am totally depressed what should i do whether i live or die