Hi. I am 54 years. Male. Married at 30 Lost my wife after 7 years of marriage having two kids (who r grown up now). Re married after two years of first wife's demise but separated after three years n having a kid who stays with his mother. Few years after my separation from 2nd wife. I am in to few relations. Today I am in to long distance relationship with two married women's one is separated with a kid and other with two grown up kids. Both are loyal to me. I am happy but since I meet them one in a month or so. I feel the urge to have more. One more word men has approached me n v r chatting n may meet soon. My question is, Is it normal.? Is it ok to live like this. Pls answer.

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Ans: Truly speaking you can't expect much. First thing is that how India will consider the Master degree of Australia is not known to anyone. Even if an American MS comes after ten years of experience he/she will never get the desired and required treatment, hike and salary. India is flooded with Data Science professionals and bodies like Intellipaat are giving certificate in Data Science with collaboration with Chennai IIT or Roorkee IIT. Secondly the reputation of your Australian university is also a major factor. I think you can't expect much. Best of Luck.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You are assuming that your lady-friend liked you romantically; she could've considered you a good friend- good friends can have coffee together too. Maybe the reason she blocked you is that you misread the relationship and even discussed it with someone in the office. And since you mentioned you have a wife and she has health issues as well, how do you think things would have worked out between you and your lady friend, even if you knew for a fact that she is interested in you? I suggest you move on from this and also consider opening up to your wife about how the lack of intimacy in your marriage is pushing you to look for the same feelings outside.

Best Wishes.