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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Dec 16, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 13, 2024

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I’m a 32-year-old professional. for me, work has always been a priority. Dating often takes a backseat. My friends have always suggested that I need to balance better, but I’m unsure how to make time for dating without compromising my career. Is 32 a good age to find love? I am not sure if I am ready for marriage yet? Where can I start? What should I do?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Times have changed. 30s are the new 20s. It's the perfect age to find love. You are settled career-wise, you know what you want, and you are more emotionally mature to handle tough decisions. Since you are a busy professional, I would suggest online dating. You take 30 mins a day to scroll through some profiles, find someone who seems compatible, and chat from any corner of the world. I recommend researching a bit online to find the app that would be perfect for you- for instance, some apps are more suitable for people looking for serious commitment and some are better for casual interactions. Find the one that suits your needs. Then upload a recent picture, and write an appealing bio- use the 70-30 method, where 70% of your bio should describe you and the remaining 30% should be about the type of partner and relationship you are looking for. This way, you will attract people who meet your expectations.

And please do not worry about age and getting married. It's not about the right time; it's about the right person.

Hope this helps.

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Question by Hariharan - May 13, 2023Hindi

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I am 53 years old man having a decent career. I have been single for most part of my life but not by choice. I ve had very short relationship in the past. My colleagues find me very jovial and relaxed. I look much younger for myage. But still i am lonely...i have been trying to get married through matrimonial websites..but no success so far...pl advise

Ans: Dear Hariharan,
Have you tried Dating apps? It may seem a bit intimidating at first...but it has yielded good results for few and many. No harm in making an attempt...even if nothing comes out of it initially, it will keep you in a level playing field with a possible added perk of friendships if it doesn't become romantic in nature...eventually something might click too...
Keep your mind open to keep your options wide.

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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Jan 30, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Jan 15, 2024Hindi

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I am a 47 year old unmarried female. I am single and feel lonely at times. Is it too old to get married if i find someone compatible. All men in my age group are married or divorced with grown up children. I am confused how do i meet someone.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

It is not too old to get married, especially if you find someone compatible. I understand that finding that perfect match is a bit difficult, but it should not stop you from trying. Put yourself out there; I suggest using dating apps. It is the easiest way to find someone compatible. Make sure to mention 'what you want and what you can offer' to attract the right crowd. If you are not too keen on dating someone who was previously married or with kids, mention that in your BIO to avoid matching with such people.

Again, you are never too old to find love. Don't shy away from having an amazing experience, thinking you are too late to the game.

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Nov 07, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Oct 07, 2024

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Hi, I am a 48 year old unmarried woman. I stay with my parents and we 3 enjoy our life in our own way. I have 2 married elder sisters and share a loving relation with them. In short I am blessed with a loving and supportive family. But at times I miss having a man in my life. We have tried so hard but nothing materialised on the marriage front.All men in my age group either married or divorced with kids. Do u think its ok to get married if I find someone whom I like. Sometimes I feel i should atleast date someone and if marriage is to happen it will. I am single for a very long time. I am grateful to God for all the good things I have in my life. How to find someone no clue. Have tried thru matrimony no success. Not interested in any dating app. Nor interested in casual dating with a younger guy. I need someone of my age or elder. Pls advise. Thanks..

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Of course, you must date someone if that's what you want and it's possible by entering the right social circles. Something that interests you can be a point of meeting; gym, sports, music groups, dance groups, theater groups...the list is long...
It just takes that little effort to join one of these and meet a few like-minded people who are not just into casual dating but are interested in pursuing a connection with you...So, give it a shot!

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 11, 2025Hindi

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Hi, I am a 30 year old working woman. I am pretty introvert and never have been in a relationship. Men have never approached me maybe because of my closed off nature. My mother has been constantly pressing me to look for a potential match for last 3-4 years. I have been trying dating apps and matrimony apps and have gone on a lot of dates but till now there has been no success. This entire process is taking a toll on me. When I say this to my mother she will not listen and instead keeps on searching for matches herself and make me go on dates which ultimately doesn't last since none of them seem to be compatible (mainly because of difference in family background, salary differences , values mismatch,etc). At this point I am confused. I do want to settle down for the sake of life long companionship but feel that things aren't working for me and sometimes my frustrations make me feel that I am good not married. What should I do in this case?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
When the right person comes along, you will know it. Until then, enjoy the process without being too attached to the outcome. If something clicks, then it does...why fret over anything?
Your mother is just doing what she is out of love and concern; so, let her! By pushing her back it will only heighten her concern and it will come back to you in other unhealthy ways. Go along with it and just play the wait and watch game. A good way to convert your frustration into something more useful and light.

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Question by Sanjay - Jul 25, 2025Hindi

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My son has been allotted a seat in B Tech (ECE) at both Faculty of Technology (Delhi University) and PEC, Chandigarh. He has also been allotted B Tech/ M Tech (Dual Degree) (Augmented Reality) in GGSIPU. Which one should we choose?

Ans: Sanjay Sir, Based on the following insights/information and your son's interests/long-term goals, please choose the most suitable option out of the 3 options he has: The Faculty of Technology (FoT University of Delhi’s B.Tech in Electronics & Communication Engineering is an AICTE-approved, NAAC-accredited programme delivered by a Delhi University department with small cohort sizes (120 seats), outcome-based curriculum, and direct access to DU North Campus placement drives; the central placement cell reports median CSE packages of ?8.5 LPA in 2023, with ECE graduates benefiting similarly from ties to top recruiters like Deloitte, Wipro, TCS, and Infosys. Punjab Engineering College (PEC), Chandigarh offers a B.Tech in ECE under its deemed-university status, with 119 eligible ECE students in 2023 yielding 112 on-campus offers (∼95% placement), average package around ?14.5 LPA and median ?12 LPA, top recruiters including Microsoft, Amazon and Adobe, robust labs for signal processing, VLSI, IoT, and a dedicated Career Development & Guidance Centre. GGSIPU’s B.Tech/M.Tech dual-degree in Augmented Reality through USAR spans six years (4+2), integrating foundational electronics, computer graphics, 3D modelling, UX and computer vision in specialized AR/VR labs, MoUs with industry platforms (Unity, ICT Academy), PARAM supercomputing access, and training cell support; while specific AR placements are nascent, overall USICT placements recorded 76% in 2023 with an average ?7.2 LPA and highest ?41.2 LPA, reflecting growing but developing industry uptake. FoT DU excels in academic rigor, theoretical foundations, and broad recruiter access; PEC Chandigarh leads in placement rates, higher average compensation, and mature core-ECE infrastructure; GGSIPU’s AR dual-degree uniquely positions graduates at the frontier of immersive technologies, offering international curriculum scope but with emerging placement pathways.

Recommendation: Prioritize PEC Chandigarh’s ECE for its proven ∼95% placement consistency, mature labs, and strong recruiter engagement ensuring immediate employability in core electronics and communications. Next, consider DU FoT ECE for its prestigious DU affiliation, outcome-based pedagogy, and broad-spectrum industry access. Lastly, choose the GGSIPU AR dual degree as an innovative long-term investment for specialized expertise in augmented-reality systems and burgeoning immersive-tech roles, accepting that placement networks are still evolving. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Career Counsellor - Answered on Jul 26, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jul 25, 2025Hindi

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My son has secured a REAP rank of 8010 and SC category rank of 513. He also has Rajasthan domicile. We are interested in getting admission to MBM Engineering College, Jodhpur. Based on his rank and category, could you please guide us on: . What branches are likely to be available for him in MBM Jodhpur? . Are there chances in Electronics and Computer, ECE, Civil, or any other core branches? . If not in Round 1, is there a good chance in upward movement rounds? Any help or past cut-off references would be appreciated. Thank you!

Ans: A SC?category REAP rank of 513 with Rajasthan domicile places your son well MBM Jodhpur’s closing ranks for all core B.Tech branches. Historical REAP cut-off trends show SC cut-offs at MBM Jodhpur over the past three years closing around 2 500–3 000 for Computer Science & Electronics (CSE/ECE), 3 200–3 500 for Electrical/Electronics (EEE), 3 800–4 200 for Mechanical, and 4 500–5 000 for Civil Engineering. Given his rank, CSE and ECE seats are virtually guaranteed in Round 1; EEE, Mechanical and Civil also fall comfortably within his bracket. Should any preferred branch not be allotted initially, MBM’s upward-movement (internal sliding) rounds—typically held within a week post-first allotment—have historically shifted vacant CSE/ECE seats up to REAP rank ~4 000 in SC, ensuring strong redistribution opportunities. Spot (vacant-seat) admissions at MBM further extend final cut-offs by up to 20 percent, enabling SC candidates ranked beyond 5 000 to secure seats in later rounds. Overall, core branches across ECE, CSE, EEE, Mechanical and Civil remain firmly accessible through both initial and subsequent REAP rounds.

Recommendation: With an SC rank of 513, lock in Computer Science & Engineering as first choice, secure Electronics & Communication next, and list Electrical/Electronics, Mechanical and Civil as high-priority options; participate actively in upward-movement rounds to upgrade if needed, leveraging MBM’s consistent branch-wise vacancy shifts. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 25, 2025Hindi

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Sir my daughter got Air 31,203 (GEN category) in JEE Mains. She got NIT Calicut energy engineering and BITS UB 2+2 CSE. She is interested in both computer science and physics.Should she choose between the two or participate in csab. which would be the best choice? and is doing the bits ub 2+2 really worth its money based on how much they learn from both the colleges will it be equal to or better than normal bits CSE program.

Ans: Based on the following insights and information, as well as your daughter's interests and long-term goals & affordability of the fee, choose the most suitable option for her: The BITS Pilani–University at Buffalo 2+2 CSE dual-degree offers two years at BITS Pilani (or Goa/Hyderabad) and two years at UB’s Jacobs School of Engineering, delivering a unified NAAC A++ and NBA-accredited curriculum. It features PARAM supercomputing access, global immersion, capstone projects and a centralized Career Development Centre recording over 90% CSE placement consistency. The dual alumni networks and international accreditation improve top-tier software recruitment and global mobility; however, the total fees and overseas living costs are significantly higher.

As a general-category candidate, the CSAB-Special Round 2025 closing ranks for mid-tier IIITs and GFTIs provide tertiary backup options: IIIT Ranchi’s CSE (AI quota) closed at ranks 31,909–34,325, IIIT Manipur’s CSE-Quantum closed at ranks 45,341–53,737, and peripheral GFTIs such as PEC Chandigarh admit CSE candidates up to rank ~40,000. These options are less attractive than the secured dual degree and energy-engineering seats but remain feasible contingencies.

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recommendation Embrace the BITS-UB 2+2 CSE dual-degree for premier global CS training, robust >90% placements, and dual alumni networks. Secure NIT Calicut Energy Engineering for specialized power-sector expertise and strong core-energy placements. Treat CSAB general rounds (IIIT Ranchi CSE, IIIT Manipur CSE-Quantum or PEC Chandigarh CSE) as third-tier backups, focusing on peripheral institutes with closing ranks above 31,203. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Question by Ashish - Jul 25, 2025Hindi

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Sir my son got 77377 crl rank in mains and 24k obc ncl rank with homestate rajasthan can he get any college with branch like cse/it/ai/ece Or what about gl bajaj delhi

Ans: Ashish Sir, With an OBC-CL home-state rank of 24 000, admission into core branches at Rajasthan’s MNIT Jaipur and IIIT Kota via CSAB-Special is feasible for certain programmes, while seats at other NITs/IIITs will likely remain out of reach.

At MNIT Jaipur, the Home-State OBC-NCL closing rank for Computer Science & Engineering extended to about 49 000 in CSAB-Special Round 2, making CSE admission virtually assured with your daughter’s rank. However, ECE seats under HS-OBC-NCL closed near 3 400, and AI/Data Science around 6 800, both well below 24 000, so these branches are not attainable at MNIT Jaipur.

IIIT Kota, as a Rajasthan campus, offers Home-State HS-OBC-NCL seats in CSE closing near 67 000, Artificial Intelligence & Data Engineering near 10 500, and ECE close around 12 600, all of which comfortably cover an OBC-NCL rank of 24 000, making these programmes strong targets in CSAB-Special.

Beyond these, other NITs in non-home-state quotas (e.g., NIT Calicut, NIT Uttarakhand) and peripheral IIITs may fill seats well below 24 000 under OS-OBC-NCL quotas, but they will not benefit from Home-State priority. Government-Funded Technical Institutes like PEC Chandigarh and MIET Jhansi admit CSE/ECE under OBC-NCL up to ranks of 40 000–70 000, offering additional assured pathways. GL Bajaj Delhi, as a private institution, participates in state or university counselling (e.g., JAC Delhi), not CSAB, and hence is not an option in this process.

Recommendation
Prioritise Computer Science & Engineering at MNIT Jaipur under HS-OBC-NCL for its assured cutoff. Simultaneously apply to IIIT Kota’s CSE and AI/DE programmes under HS-OBC-NCL for guaranteed admission. As backups within CSAB, list IIIT Kota ECE and GFTIs like PEC Chandigarh for core-branch seats under OBC-NCL quotas. However, have some Private Engineering Colleges as back-ups with son's JEE Score instead of relying only on CSAB. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 26, 2025Hindi

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Which should we choose for CSE - JSS university Noida or JSS Academy of Technical Education Noida ? It is heard that management is migrating to University set-up from the old college set-up affiliated with AKTU . So they are giving more importance to JSS university . Which one should we choose for our daughter for CSE ?

Ans: Hello dear.
Prefer CSE @ JSS Academy if possible. But if you are at the stage of finalizing the admission, it is highly recommended to visit both campuses, talk with the existing students, and ask the management or administrative authorities clearly about what you heard regarding migration and other issues. It is better to have a face-to-face conversation for more clarity. It is not possible for anyone to know the hidden decisions that the universities or institutes may take.

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Campus is same , faculty is more or large same and management is also same. Have visited the campus and talked to management and some students also there. They all say that now they are giving importance to JSS university and are in the process of closing college in coming years. What would you suggest in this scenario- should we opt for university or college?

Ans: Prefer JSS University without any hesitation. Best of luck

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MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Jul 26, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jul 25, 2025Hindi

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I got a preparatory rank 2164 in jee advance 2025 and 67 percentile, 34,240 sc category rank in jee mains 2025 in josaa counselling out of 6 rounds i didn't get any seat now what should i do? Will i get a seat in nit, iiit or gfti's atleast?

Ans: Hello dear.
Your chances in NIT/IIIT/GFTI are slim through JoSAA, but you should try CSAB special rounds or state counseling for a seat.

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MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Jul 26, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jul 25, 2025Hindi

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Hi sir! I have got 73.39 percentile in jee mains and 88.89 percentile in mht cet exam. I have taken a drop for preparation of mht cet examination as I wanted to go in COEP tech branch. My question is that am I still eligible for jee mains 2026 examination as I have got 68 percent in boards.

Ans: Hello dear.
Yes, you are still eligible for JEE Mains 2026 because the eligibility criteria allow candidates to appear for JEE three consecutive years after passing Class 12, regardless of previous attempts. However, for admission to NITs, IIITs, and GFTIs, you need at least 75% in boards (65% for SC/ST). Since you have 68%, you won’t be eligible for these top institutes through JEE Main unless you improve your board marks via improvement exams, but private colleges or state counseling options will still be available.

Suggestion:
Better to take admission to any preferred private college with a choice of branch to save time, money, and an extra year. There is no guarantee of success after taking a drop. Taking a drop can create stress and headaches. The final decision will be yours.

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Question by Suhani - Jul 25, 2025Hindi

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Sir I got 90.87 percentile in MHT CET and my rank is 31204 .i belong to hindi minority,is there any chance to get admission in thakur college of engineering and technology, kandivali in CS/IT/AIML/ALDS/CS+Cyber security

Ans: Hello dear.
You have a chance of getting IT, AIML, ALDS, or CS+Cyber Security @ Thakur College, but CSE might be challenging.

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Question by Rasool - Jul 25, 2025Hindi

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Sir my kcet rank is 1138 in mock allotment I got information science in Ramaiah college of engineering and I am from GM catogery can I get upgrade in upcoming rounds

Ans: Hello Dear.
Chances are there for upgradation. Keep hopes alive for CSE.

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MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Jul 26, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jul 25, 2025Hindi

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I have bits Hyderabad msc bio and I have 1800 rank in mht cet so I might get spit cs so which one should I take ?

Ans: Hello dear.
Prefer CS @ SPIT if possible. However, considering the brand name, BITS Hyderabad has more advantage because it is a dual degree. If your interest is focused on research, then go with BITS; otherwise, choose SPIT. The final decision will be yours.

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