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nikita Question by nikita on Nov 08, 2024
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i was in relationship from 2 year and now i have broke up in 10 day now he is blackmailing that he will show our pictures to parents and asking me to meet. i dont want to meet but he will blackmail me . he came in front of my house to blackmail me . what should i do and how to avoid meeting him

Ans: Dear Nikita,
This is a serious issue. Though blackmailing to show your photos to your parents will not do much harm, his intention to blackmail you into submission is concerning. I suggest you come clean to your parents about your relationship. Let them know that you have broken up but he is continuing to force you to meet him. Adults being involved in the matter can dissuade him from bothering you anymore.

I know you feel you cannot go to your parents, but you can. They might have some reactions but it is much better to have your parents on your side than to hide things and have no one to help you. Please consider my suggestion.

Best Wishes.

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Hi mam... I was in a relationship with a boy for 2 years but for those two years he blackmailed me and threatened me and did this even after the break up. He calls my acquaintances almost every day and asks about me. If he finds any information about me, he will continue to blackmail and threaten me. I liked another boy even though I didn't talk to him But I am so afraid that if the blackmailed boy calls him and asks something about me and this boy says something , What will I do then?
Ans: Dear Dipanwita,
And you want to live a life filled with fear? Fear is what makes these boys/men do more of this bullying and blackmailing. Kindly report the matter to your family (with no fear). Yes, they might be upset with you for being in a relationship but surely they will support you to protect you.
If they don't approach a female relative who can guide you to an NGO, who will help you with the police complaint.
Keep a record of all his threatening messages on your phone/email/text chats etc. This can help the police nail him as well. Do not threaten him back but collect enough information as he threatens and blackmails you. It is time to put an end to this. So instead of jumping into another relationship, please end the previous one. And please, give yourself a break to find your happiness within you rather than moving from one to the other. I say this only because one has messed with your mind with fear and this needs to be removed. Be strong and focus on yourself. You owe a peaceful and happy life to yourself!

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