My girlfriend cheat on me with other men

Ans: Hi there. I will be honest, cheating is a choice people make. As a coach, I've seen in way too many cases that once a partner ventures out, the relationship does not find its feet again. You need to carefully evaluate and ask yourself if you would be able to let this go? Is the relationship actually worth it? What is your expectation from this relationship going forward? But firstly take all your time and ask yourself- are you even willing to let this go? Whatever you may decide, remember no relationship is worth you having you to settle for anything less than what you deserve.

Ans: Dear Rohit,

I am sorry to hear that. No one should have to go through such an experience. And it is absolutely normal that you are feeling low; you were in love and it isn't easy to forget someone you held dear so quickly. There's nothing that I can say to make you feel better, but here are the facts; you are lucky you found out about it before it's too late, you are worth more than what you have been given, and most importantly, time heals all wounds. But if it's getting increasingly difficult to cope with the situation, to even understand that what happened, though terrible, was a blessing in disguise, I suggest you talk to someone, a close friend or family member or even better, a professional who can truly guide you through these tough times.

Just remember, one day this incident will be a thing that happened in the distant past, and you'll be glad you did not end up with a person who made you feel the way you are feeling now.

Focus on your well-being. Grab a cup of coffee with your best friend; share your sorrow, it helps. Go on a trip to make your mind off this. Allow yourself to feel all the grief and soon the intensity of it will reduce. Trust me, it will get better soon.

Best Wishes!

Ans: What does that even mean? If she doesn’t respect you, end things with her.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Here is the response to you:
https://gurus.rediff.com/question/qdtl/relationship/hyy-m-love-girlfriend-cheating-m-love-pure-heart-don/5148317

All the best!

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
If you have every reason to believe that she is cheating on you and you know that it has begun to affect you, then you must do what makes you feel better. Your state of mind is within your control...so, take a decision as to what you want to do!
You can confront her and she may deny it all and then you are stuck in that loop...so no point feeling low. Do what you think will make you feel more at ease where you have control of over you mind and thoughts.

All the best!