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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jan 29, 2024

Anu Krishna is a mind coach and relationship expert.
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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 18, 2024Hindi

Relationship

Hyy mam.. I m in love.. But girlfriend is cheating with me I m in love with her pure heart.. I don't know what should I do I m depression

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
If you have every reason to believe that she is cheating on you and you know that it has begun to affect you, then you must do what makes you feel better. Your state of mind is within your control...so, take a decision as to what you want to do!
You can confront her and she may deny it all and then you are stuck in that loop...so no point feeling low. Do what you think will make you feel more at ease where you have control of over you mind and thoughts.

All the best!

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Question by raj - Jun 03, 2023Hindi

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i am 41 yrs old. i was in love with girl in long distance relationship and we never met but seen three four times only. we were chatting daily and look like a true love but she was school going girls and get closed to his class mate and chatting with him in regular basis due to this her insterest on mine in lost as i am in long distance and another boy is met him daily face to face . what should i have to do ??

Ans: Dear Raj,
Long distance relationships (LDRs in the relationship space) are never easy but not impossible to live by and live through.

Having said this, I do have a doubt here...You mention that she is school going...not to sound judgemental, but she might be under the age of 18. I would urge you to take note of this kindly as it can work against you if any of your chats are seen by anyone else. Let her be a school going girl and go through her life at her age with boys her age. What makes you not look around for women your age? I say this again not to judge you but do become mindful of underage partners...You will have a lot of explaining to do later.
Let her be a girl, let her go through her life's growing years her way...

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 17, 2024Hindi

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Dear my girlfriend cheated with me..what should i do...i m love with her with pure heart

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Here is the response to you:
https://gurus.rediff.com/question/qdtl/relationship/hyy-m-love-girlfriend-cheating-m-love-pure-heart-don/5148317

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 28, 2024

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My girlfriend cheat on me with other men

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I am assuming you want to know what you must do next. If this is a regular thing, judging from the "men" in your question, then reconsider the relationship. Cheating, in most cases, is unacceptable and if it happens multiple times, it's even worse. Speak to her about your worries; let her know that this is unacceptable. And remember that it is okay to pick yourself. You don't deserve to be cheated on.

Best Wishes.

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Nov 25, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Nov 18, 2024Hindi

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My age is 30 gf is also of same age ..we have caste issue and she is being hindu..but we love each other deeply ..we are in strong seriously relationship since 5 years ..but suddenly now she has cheated with me with a guy of same caste and too rich..now i am devasted ..i have done everything for her she asked for and i have given my blood sweat and tears to work it this relation into marrige...since i found out my gf had cheated on me i am not in myself..my left chest always has mild to severe pain when i think about her .it is just sudden change of emotions..when i am doing my work i forgets about her but not able to focus and it is reflecting on my performance...please confirm what should i do now .she has said sorry multiple times ..but i cannot trust her the same way and not able to love her same way as it is use to be...though my feelinga for her never gonna die but this feeling only killing me please confirm what should do please

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Heartbreaks can show up in the body as aches and pains; but do visit the doctor to rule out any issue causing the pain in your chest.
I would suggest 'taking a break' from your relationship to process what has gone on...being cheated upon is not easy to digest and you need the time to understand what has happened.
Yes, loss of trust can be very difficult to repair but whether you want to forgive her or not, trust her again or not are things to be dealt with as you go into this 'break mode' as it will allow the anger to heighten, simmer and then dull down while the importance of this person in your life will arise where you can then ask yourself if you wish to continue this relationship or you actually can do away with it.
I do feel that you will benefit from working with a professional on this as your mind state can interfere in the process of reflection and healing. So, do consider that as well...
I will not say that Time Heals, but Time gives you an opportunity to reflect and learn...

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I have taken a group health insurance policy from a bank where I have a saving account five years ago without any medical checkup. I have not availed any claim and there was no preexisting disease. I am taking 5 mg of prednisolone daily for last five years for a skin disease. Will this affect my future claim if arises any? I am worried about this .

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Insurance is an understanding that works on mutual trust.

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Please inform the insurance company about this before next renewal.

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Nowadays payment for IPO allotment is through the process of ASBA(Application Supported by Blocked Amount) wherein funds needed to finance your IPO application are blocked.

If the funds are not enough the application will not go through.

Their no fine or penalty but it may affect your reputation with the bank/broker.

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Sir My Son was discharged on 19 nov. We had medical exp of 35 lacs on his treatment. We also had insurance policy of 15 lacs. 5 lacs sa. 5 lacs NCB & 5 LACS REFILL BENEFIT. we got 9 lacs cashless plus 2.5 lacs member discount from insurance co. As mentioned in cashless claim approval letter. I paid all the rest of amnt & got my son discharged. Now hospital was not ready to provide us this benefit of discount so they got another cashless approval letter post one month of discharge where insurance co nullified this 2.5 lacs member discount. Also date of discharge in this new cashless claim letter had been changed to 15 dec. My query is can insurance co issue cashless claim letter & that to one month after discharge of patient. Whom to go for resource??

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