I am 20 yrs old. I had relationship with a girl for 2years, whom I loved the most. But she cheated me by having sex with other guys. I don't know why she did this to me. I am totally depressed. Not getting rid of her from my mind. Please help.
Ans: Dear Rohit,
I am sorry to hear that. No one should have to go through such an experience. And it is absolutely normal that you are feeling low; you were in love and it isn't easy to forget someone you held dear so quickly. There's nothing that I can say to make you feel better, but here are the facts; you are lucky you found out about it before it's too late, you are worth more than what you have been given, and most importantly, time heals all wounds. But if it's getting increasingly difficult to cope with the situation, to even understand that what happened, though terrible, was a blessing in disguise, I suggest you talk to someone, a close friend or family member or even better, a professional who can truly guide you through these tough times.
Just remember, one day this incident will be a thing that happened in the distant past, and you'll be glad you did not end up with a person who made you feel the way you are feeling now.
Focus on your well-being. Grab a cup of coffee with your best friend; share your sorrow, it helps. Go on a trip to make your mind off this. Allow yourself to feel all the grief and soon the intensity of it will reduce. Trust me, it will get better soon.
Best Wishes!
