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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Apr 08, 2024

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Amar Question by Amar on Apr 06, 2024Hindi
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Hi Mr Mittal please tell me how to know that she is interested in me

Ans: Dear Amar,

It can be difficult to tell if someone likes you, especially the way you want them to; needless to say, assumptions can do more harm than good. The best thing is to ask directly. But if you are not in a position to do so, you can look out for some tell-tale signs. See if she is interested in talking to you, if she initiates conversations as much as you do, notice her body language- does she feel comfortable with you? Does she remember certain details that you have shared with her in the past- it could mean that you are important to her. But remember, none of these are definitive. She could be exhibiting all of these signs and yet not be interested in you. Maybe it's just her being friendly or not trying to hurt your feelings.

If you really want to know how she feels, ask. There's nothing wrong with that. If she says no, respect it and back away. If yes, then amazing. But don't try to take a guess. I repeat- it will do more harm than good.

Best Wishes.

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Dear Anu,This is Vish this side 38 years old, male, single. In October my cousin moved to my place due to some issue in her marriage. She is clear now she doesn't want to go back. She is five years older to me, we both share a very good bond. She has many friends online whom she talks to and all many of them even propose her. She tells me everything, even the last boy with whom she was like unable to stay without talking to him. But suddenly all has changed and she talks to me more than before, and keeps telling me she doesn't have a boyfriend.I like her but, how should I know that she is interested in me. I would like to ask her but scared she should not think something different and leave me and go. I am confused what to do. Should I just leave it and continue how it's going or ask her to be in a relation with me? Please guide.
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Dear VA,

Both of you are weakly piling on each other it seems. When there are so many wonderful people that you or she can connect with on the outside, why would you want to enter into a relationship with a cousin of yours?

Don’t you ever think of how the family will react to this?

They might strongly oppose this OR Have you thought of what it would mean to have children with a close relative? Health issues in your off springs?

She is in a weak mind space searching for someone and just because you like interacting with her does not mean that have to fit in to fulfil that space.

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Hello, I am 3 yr neet dropper.in 2025 it will be my third attempt... I'm trying my best to crack neet ...i don't know what will happen will i score good marks or not ... please help me in suggesting good career options if not crack neet .....there are many options through neet marks also like bhms , veterinary...etc. i will also give entrance exam also like cuet ,gbpuat ,....but i want that what to choose which course will be best for me ...i want to make my life good and happy... having a good degree, good job ,...
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Have you analyzed your failure in 2 successive attempts in the NEET examination? If yes, then the question is what you have done for improvement and not then again the question arises why not? Here, I would like to suggest you focus now only on the NEET examination which is your 3rd attempt. Don't think about any other options right now till May 2025. After the NEET exam is over, you have ample time to explore the options available. Depending on your score in NEET 2025, we will guide you at that time. But yet, if you are confused, then looking towards your question and anxiety, you need personal counseling where you can express yourself face-to-face. Only after the NEET exam is over, you contact a counsellor for one-to-one counseling. Till then, keep mum and focus only on NEET. Take this exam as your mission and project. Work on this project, apply forces from all sides, success is there which is waiting for you eagerly.
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