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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Oct 22, 2024

Anu Krishna is a mind coach and relationship expert.
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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 22, 2024

Hii anu This is rahul i am an entrepreneur recently i started talking to my cousin’s wife and develope a nice bonding with her. Although my cousin also knows we talk hours and hours on phone call. She always talks romantically or as in leg pulling. How to check what she wants from me since i am 7-8 years younger than her. How to check if she is physically attracted towards me or its just a time pass thing.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Stay away from her...this is just going to cause the family and you a lot of trouble.
Oh, by the way, what is the need to check what she wants from you?
The very fact that you are checking in here with me says that something doesn't seem right with the whole thing, yeah? Time-pass or real, don't mess around within the family!

All the best!
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Question by VA - May 25, 2022Hindi

Dear Anu,This is Vish this side 38 years old, male, single. In October my cousin moved to my place due to some issue in her marriage. She is clear now she doesn't want to go back. She is five years older to me, we both share a very good bond. She has many friends online whom she talks to and all many of them even propose her. She tells me everything, even the last boy with whom she was like unable to stay without talking to him. But suddenly all has changed and she talks to me more than before, and keeps telling me she doesn't have a boyfriend.I like her but, how should I know that she is interested in me. I would like to ask her but scared she should not think something different and leave me and go. I am confused what to do. Should I just leave it and continue how it's going or ask her to be in a relation with me? Please guide.

Ans:

Dear VA,

Both of you are weakly piling on each other it seems. When there are so many wonderful people that you or she can connect with on the outside, why would you want to enter into a relationship with a cousin of yours?

Don’t you ever think of how the family will react to this?

They might strongly oppose this OR Have you thought of what it would mean to have children with a close relative? Health issues in your off springs?

She is in a weak mind space searching for someone and just because you like interacting with her does not mean that have to fit in to fulfil that space.

You can still be friends and support her in a caring manner.

But of course, the choice is yours; you could either be that friend or approach her with your proposal bearing in mind the challenges around it.
All the best!

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