We are married for 10 years, my wife had sexual relationship with another person. How to overcome this infidelity?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Have a frank chat about this with your wife.
As much as you hear her side of the story, you need have the space to state yours and how this situation is making you feel. Hear her out too...
Decide for yourself what you want in your marriage now. If you are unprepared to accept this, state it to her clearly and ask her if she is willing to let the other relationship go and come back into the marriage; of course depends on whether you want that or not.
That is why before knowing what to do, you need to ask yourself: What is it that I want? What to do will follow once you know what you want.

All the best!

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

Overcoming infidelity in a relationship can be challenging and I am sorry you have to face it. First off, the process involves open communication and commitment from both partners. Having an honest conversation about the infidelity seems like a good start. Let it be out there in the open that there was infidelity and now you are moving forward from the sorrow and challenges it caused to making an effort to fix the crack it created in the foundation of your marriage. Seeking couples therapy to address underlying issues is a must. You can talk to your friends, and trusted family members, and ask for advice, but nothing beats seeking professional help.

Do not forget to prioritize self-care and you can also try individual counseling to process the emotions. Rebuilding a marriage after infidelity takes time and both parties should be committed to make it to the end. Do not have unrealistic expectations. It's a gradual process; it will take time but you will feel better one day. Patience and a shared dedication are the most important part of this healing journey.

Best Wishes!

Ans: Dear Prince,
Okay! So, what do you want to do so that you can digest this fact? What has happened has happened and if her virginity was such a big issue for you, maybe you could have brought it up before marriage and actually asked her.
You didn't and now this is the reality...Oh and how exactly do you know that she was sexually more active then? Did she tell you OR did you find out from someone?
The more you obsess over this, the more it will get difficult. So, understand that this fact cannot be changed...now, what are you going to think and do? That becomes a choice for you!

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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