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Akshay Question by Akshay on Nov 26, 2024Hindi
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Hi, ma'am my GF told her parents last 4 months but still not agreeing for our marriage and 2 days ago she was beaten a lot by her mother and father..and they sent her to the village to her relatives and they also took her mobile phone and now we are not getting in touch so what should we do now?

Ans: Dear Akshay,
Clearly her side of the family isn't going to value your relationship and it is also harming the lady. What can you do? When you don't know where she is, even if you find her, again this is going to put her at risk.
Take a Pause and let things settle down a bit please, so that her parents' anger settles a bit. By the way, how old are you and how old is your girlfriend? Beating up a grown woman? What else is going on there?

All the best!
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Hi Anu We are In a relationship for 7 years and in my family they have accepted her as she frequently visits my home and meet my family members .She was trying for the past 2 years to convince her father but now her father is not even listening about our relationship and her mother though likes me doesn’t want to go against her husband . Her father said her that he wont be the part of her marriage and her life if she marries me .As a result my lady doesn’t want to go against her parents and be with me . Though she can’t live without me but she doesn’t want to hurt her parents and for that she is ready to leave me and go as per her parents and marry someone else.she has accepted that , her life will be hell as well as the person she will be marrying .Kindly suggest me what to do coz i cant imagine my life without her .
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Sometimes the reason for someone not liking you maybe a silly one.
Maybe her father wanted to find a boy for your lady or he wanted time to get to know the person. Try and find out from her what exactly bothers her father about you or the marriage. It can be frustrating to dig into this BUT hey, do what you have to, to make the relationship work, yeah?
A humble attempt in that direction where her father can see you for who you are and understand why his daughter actually loves you might go a long way not in just his acceptance in you but also pave the way for a better connection between him and you.
And oh, ask you lady not to give up...

All the best!
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