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Relationships Expert - Answered on Dec 21, 2021
Hi Love Guru,
Please help me.
My husband and I are fighting. We can’t get along because he is a miser.
M
Oh, boy!
When you’re living with a miser, and particularly if he holds the purse strings in your household, I don’t see an easy solution.
The only thing I can think of is, make your own money and spend it how you see fit. Because when you’re nowhere on the same wavelength financially, it’s unlikely that either party will change their ways.
People don’t change. Compromises can be made, and maybe you can work through your disagreements by discussing each expense, but it will remain an issue.
I would suggest seeing a marital counsellor, who can maybe explain to him that he’s being irrational about money. Hearing it from someone else may give him some food for thought.
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