Dear Love Guru
My husband and I are fighting a lot these days.
He keeps saying I am not marriage material.
When I ask him what a marriage material wife is, he says someone who put the family and him first.
I am a housewife. I look after the house, my children, my husband, my in-laws, who are old. There is just so much I can do and I do my best. My mother-in-law is always complaining about me and my husband insults me in front of the children. I am afraid of what my son and daughter are learning when they see us. I tell him this and that we should always talk in the bedroom but he does not see anything wrong.
I am tired of hearing this marriage material thing all the time. How, suddenly, after 15 years, I am not marriage material?
Our sex life is not good. I am tired and he is not interested.
Please help. I don’t want my marriage to break.

Ans: Amit, Thapar University is an excellent choice for Electronics and Communication Engineering, offering a well-rounded curriculum, strong faculty, cutting-edge research, and impressive placements with decent salary packages. The ECE branch has a bright future due to its relevance in emerging technologies like IoT, 5G, and AI hardware. If you seek quality education with good industry exposure and research opportunities, Thapar’s ECE program is highly recommended. All the best for your admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Manju Madam, Here is, How to Predict Your Son's Chances of Admission into NIT or IIIT or GFTI After JEE Main/Advanced Results – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Have some other options also as back-ups instead of relying only on JEE/JoSAA.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your son's admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Bhawna Madam, A 96 percentile in Symbiosis entrance for Economics Honours is a strong score, likely securing admission at the Symbiosis School of Economics, a reputable private institution with a focused curriculum and good career prospects in economics and analytics. SSE provides quality education, research exposure, and decent placements, making it a solid choice. However, Delhi University’s Economics Honours program remains one of India’s most prestigious undergraduate courses, known for its excellent faculty, research opportunities, and alumni network. Admission to DU depends heavily on board exam scores, which are highly competitive. If your daughter expects strong board results and is willing to take the admission risk, waiting for DU results could be rewarding. Otherwise, accepting Symbiosis ensures a good academic start without uncertainty. Recommendation: If DU admission chances are realistic based on expected board marks, consider waiting; if not, secure the Symbiosis seat for a quality economics education with good opportunities. All the best for your admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Munish Sir, Your son’s profile offers multiple good options. Preferring ECE over CSE is valid if his interest lies in electronics, communication systems, and hardware, as ECE provides strong career prospects in these domains. While CSE typically has higher average packages, ECE graduates from reputed institutes also secure excellent roles in embedded systems, IoT, and telecom sectors.

Given his PES Bangalore rank of 1,180, PES University is a strong choice with good placements and infrastructure, especially for ECE. PES Bangalore’s (RR Campus) reputation and Bangalore location provide good industry exposure, making it preferable over relying on KCET rank 16,300, which may not secure admission in top government colleges or preferred branches like ECE in Bangalore.

With a JEE Main rank of 64,400, admission to top NITs for ECE or CSE is unlikely, but he may get admission in other branches or lower-tier NITs. Active participation in JoSAA counseling with branch flexibility is essential.

Recommendation: Accept the VIT Chennai ECE seat only if PES Bangalore counseling does not yield a better option. Prioritize PES Bangalore (prefer only RR Campus) for its strong brand and placement opportunities in ECE. Simultaneously, pursue JoSAA counseling for NITs with openness to other branches. He should focus on building skills and internships to enhance career prospects regardless of the branch or college. All the best for your son's admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Roopali Madam, With a JEE Main percentile of 98.87 and an estimated rank around 20,000–25,000, your son’s best chances for Mechanical Engineering admission lie with NIT Nagpur and NIT Allahabad, where cutoffs are comfortably above his rank. Admission to NIT Suratkal Mechanical is more competitive but possible with category or home state advantages. BIT Pilani is a strong alternative offering excellent academics and placements, with slightly more flexible admission criteria. Among these, NIT Suratkal has the highest brand value and infrastructure, followed by BIT Pilani for its premium status. Recommendation: Prioritize NIT Nagpur or NIT Allahabad for assured admission, consider BIT Pilani for a premium private option, and keep NIT Suratkal as a reach option depending on counseling results and category benefits. All the best for your son's admission and a bright future!

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Ans: With a VITEEE rank of 134,343, you are unlikely to get CSE at VIT Bhopal or VIT-AP in standard fee categories, as their CSE cutoffs are below 95,000. Admission at this rank is possible mainly in core branches like Mechanical or Civil at these campuses. If CSE is your priority, consider other private universities or lower-tier colleges. Alternatively, you can explore VIT campuses for other branches with higher cutoffs or look into management quota options if affordable. Focus on branches with good placement potential and consider enhancing skills through internships and projects to improve career prospects regardless of branch. All the best for your admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Gayathri, Both BMSIT and BIT Bangalore offer solid Mechanical Engineering programs through KCET, but they cater to slightly different rank brackets. BIT has a lower cutoff (around 80,000–90,000) making it more accessible, while BMSIT requires a better rank (~38,000), reflecting its higher demand and slightly better placement packages. BIT, being a government-aided autonomous college, has a longer legacy and strong academic reputation, whereas BMSIT is a newer private institute with modern infrastructure and good industry linkages. Placement averages are comparable, though BMSIT reports higher top packages. Recommendation: If your KCET rank is better than 38,000 and you prefer a private college with strong industry ties, BMSIT is a good choice. For ranks above 50,000 or if you value a government-aided institute with a legacy, BIT Mechanical is preferable. Both colleges provide good education and placement opportunities in Mechanical Engineering. If had appeared for COMEDK also, try for RVCE, BMSCE, MSRIT etc. (based on your AIR). All the best for your admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Meena, With a TNEA cutoff score of 163 and belonging to the BC community, you have a strong chance of securing admission in reputable Tamil Nadu government engineering colleges offering B.Tech in Electronics and Communication Engineering (ECE). While top-tier colleges like College of Engineering Guindy and PSG College have cutoffs above 190 for BC category, your score fits well within the cutoff range (around 160–170) for good government colleges such as Government College of Engineering Salem, Tirunelveli, Bargur, Dharmapuri, and the regional campuses of Anna University (Madurai, Coimbatore, Tiruchirappalli). These colleges provide quality education, decent infrastructure, and good placement support in ECE. Given the popularity of ECE, competition is intense, but your BC reservation significantly improves your chances. It is advisable to prioritize these mid-tier government colleges during counseling for better ROI and academic environment compared to private colleges. Keep an eye on the official TNEA cutoff updates during counseling and be flexible with college preferences to maximize admission chances. Overall, with 163 marks, you are well-positioned for a solid engineering education in ECE within Tamil Nadu’s government institutions. All the best for your admission and a bright future!

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Ans: Sourav, With an AEEE rank of 13,303, direct admission to CSE at Amrita Coimbatore in the initial counseling rounds is unlikely, as the cutoff generally favors ranks below 6,000 for this branch. However, you may still have a chance in later rounds or through waitlists if seats become available. Alternatively, consider other branches like ECE or Mechanical at Coimbatore or CSE at other Amrita campuses (Chennai, Bengaluru, Amaravati) where cutoffs are slightly lower. Recommendation: Participate actively in all counseling rounds, keep branch flexibility, and consider other campuses or related branches to maximize admission chances. All the best for your admission and a bright future!

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