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Relationships Expert - Answered on Oct 20, 2021
Dear Love Guru,
I was married for one year.
We are divorced now.
I am angry and bitter and I feel cheated.
I want to move on but I cannot get over these feelings.
The divorce was her decision. We didn’t even get enough time to know each other and work things out.
Gaurav
Dear Gaurav,
Sounds to me like an arranged match, since you say you didn’t have enough time to get to know one another. And that, unfortunately, is one of the pitfalls of marrying someone you don’t know well enough.
I’m sorry to hear that you’re struggling; I think visiting a therapist may help. And please know that you can still have a happily ever after with someone else, so don’t give up on the idea of a happy family yet, alright?
Also, I don’t believe in arranged marriages at all; marriage in and of itself is hard enough with someone you love; it entails compromises and sacrifices and struggles to make a relationship work.
When there’s no emotional bond to begin with, it’s easier to walk out because it’s more of a living and financial arrangement.
Let me clarify that there’s no harm in being set up with someone by your parents, but then you really need to explore the relationship before getting into a lifetime commitment.
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