Dear Love Guru
There is a girl I met in London 3 years ago. We had a good time and saw around London. I was coming to India and asked her if she wanted to meet. So I paid for her tickets to come to my home state kerala from Delhi. As soon as she landed she said she is seeing someone and had a heartbreak over the last year. I took her to my school reunion and to my family and went around sightseeing. Now I have feelings for and she doesnt seem to return any. What do I do? 
Thanks 

Ans: She’s blocked you. In other words, she wants nothing to do with you. A good workplace relationship has nothing to do with romantic feelings. I think you need to wake up and smell the coffee, my friend. No woman wants unwelcome attention, so make an effort to move on.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Well, I am unaware of the story you had concocted that turned the tables upside down for you!
Fix it...if this girl means that much to you, then apologize for what the story might have caused her to feel and think. Then tell her how you feel about her and your connection...
If what you say is true that she actually loved you, then your genuine apology and assertion from your heart might at least begin to cause some shifts in her.
You can only make an honest attempt; so go on...

All the best!

Ans: Dear Saurav,

I understand the appeal of trying once again, starting over. The relationship you shared with her was comfortable and familiar. We are all drawn to comfort and familiarity. But, are you sure she is still the person you fell in love with? It's been some time since you two have been together. People grow, and change. If you do want to give it another try, I suggest meeting up in person or spending enough time together to understand if you two are still compatible. Next, she has left you once for her family; while we understand the pressure, the reality is still the reality- she chose her family over you. You should discuss the matter before getting into the relationship once more. Even if you successfully start over, it would be naive to expect things to be just as they were before- some things will be better and some different. Go ahead only after you acknowledge all of these.

Best Wishes.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I can't help you get her back, but I can help you understand boundaries. If she is saying she is not interested, the only clear conclusion from that statement is that "she is not interested." A no is a no. It does not mean "Convince me some more and I will change my mind." I am sure you are a great person and you will find someone amazing who is actually interested in you, but this woman is not the one. And what you are doing is not right. I would strongly urge you to move on and even if it hurts for a while, you should not be bothering her for that. Please respect her decision.

Best Wishes.