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Dating Coach - Answered on Aug 11, 2025

Shalini Singh is the founder of andwemet, an online matchmaking service for urban Indians living in India and overseas. After graduating from college as a kindergarten teacher, Singh worked at various firms specialising in marketing strategy, digital marketing and public relations before finding her niche as an entrepreneur. In 2008, she founded Galvanise PR, an independent communications and public relations. In 2019, she launched andwemet.
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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 09, 2025Hindi

Relationship

I love a girl but she does not love me what should I do

Ans: move on please, respect her decision and find someone who would reciprocate to the feelings you express towards them.

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 13, 2023Hindi

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I am in love with a girl in Tanzania and it is understood that she also loves me and have told this to her colleagues. She takes gifts from me and texts back stating am happy dear etc. But she is moody and short tempered and blocks me at a drop of the hat!. am an Indian. even though she confides her love towards me to her colleagues her actions are not in line with that. Kindly advise

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I find it difficult to understand how you or she is sure that this is Love. So, how did you understand that she always loves you? What in her action makes you believe in it when she keeps blocking you at the drop of the hat?
What it suggests is she possibly just likes the attention that you give her and when she gets tired of it, she shuns you. It's a red flag when actions don't match the words, so guard your emotions and take a step back to know that she might just be playing around. Be wise on where and on whom you spend your money on. It's not coming back, yeah?
Long distance connections can be very difficult to comprehend, but here I even begin to wonder, if the two of you have just been living in a fantasy world of 'I Love You' and not really gathering the meaning of it all.
Words and Action mismatch? Pause for a bit and then very gently take yourself out it before you invest anymore of your time, energy and money on this.
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Question by TRS - May 29, 2023Hindi

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I love a girl for 6 months. Now she does not want to continue the relationship. I am in deep love and cannot live without her. What should to do?

Ans: Dear TRS,

She does not want to continue; what you have to do is as clear as day. Move on. It's easier said than done, I know. But I don't see any other option here. When someone says they don't want to do something, there is no point in trying to convince them. First off, no means no. Second, do you consider yourself so unworthy of real connection that you will force one? It doesn't seem like it today, but all these sad feelings will pass soon and you will find yourself thinking what a good idea it was to move on. Anything other than focusing all your energy on moving on will be a waste of time.

Also, we have all been in this "I cannot live without him/her" phase. But here we are, living a happy life, single or committed to the right person. You will too.

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Question by Rahul - Feb 27, 2024Hindi

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Hllo madam I'm 23 years old . I love so much a girl. But she have a best male friend and he told her all the time I love you so much but that girl love me. So I told that girl to block her , but she denied because that boy help her in many problems and his friendship is almost 3 years old.

Ans: Dear Rahul,
It's understandable that you might feel uncomfortable with the situation, especially when the male friend is expressing his feelings for the girl you love. However, it's crucial to approach this situation with sensitivity and respect for the girl's autonomy and choices in her relationships Have an honest and open conversation with the girl about your feelings and concerns Emphasize that you trust her and value her decisionsBuilding and maintaining trust is crucial in any relationship. If trust issues are at the root of your discomfort, work together to address and overcome them. This might involve open communication, reassurance, and time. Remember, healthy relationships are built on communication, trust, and mutual respect. It's important to approach the situation with understanding and empathy for each other's feelings. If you find it challenging to navigate these emotions on your own, consider seeking guidance from a relationship counselor or therapist who can provide additional support and perspective.

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 25, 2026Hindi

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My son has got 93.88percentile in JEE mains 2026 with General rank 95539 and OBC NCL rank 31008 in tamilnadu . I request you to kindly guide me can he get admission in any nits iiits .

Ans: Based on your son's score, chances of admission to NIT Trichy CSE/ECE are extremely low, and even lower branches may be difficult due to the high cutoffs at NIT Trichy. Admission to IIITs for CSE/ECE through regular JoSAA rounds is also challenging, but it is advisable to try CSAB Special Round for newer IIITs and GFTIs. Consider options like IIIT Agartala, IIIT Manipur, IIIT Kalyani, IIIT Bhagalpur, IIIT Ranchi, Assam University, Gurukula Kangri, and BIT Mesra off-campuses, provided you and your son are mentally prepared for these campuses. Additionally, it is recommended to have 5–6 backup options in reputed private engineering colleges apart from participating in TNEA counselling, such as SSN, SNU, Sastra, Amrita, VIT, Sathyabhama, Saveetha and also some other reputed Private Engineering Colleges based on your/son's preferred locations within Tamil Nadu, instead of relying only on JoSAA. ALL the BEST for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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Sir. My daughter 92.76 percentile in female OBC candidate. Nit Trichy home state. Any nit or iit in any branches are possible sir.

Ans: IIT is not possible unless she qualifies strongly in JEE Advanced, but she may have a chance at lower/core branches in some NITs and possibly newer/lower-demand branches, depending on her category rank and counselling trends. Chances with NIT-Trichy are very slim.

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Question by Srilaxmi - Apr 25, 2026Hindi

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Sir obc ncl rank 5983 state andhrapradesh....CRL...22K

Ans: Srilaxmi Madam, I have already partially answered your question, and now that you have provided your son's home state, here is the updated and refreshed response. With a CRL rank of 22,000, an OBC-NCL rank of 5,983, and Andhra Pradesh home state status, you have good chances of admission in NIT Andhra Pradesh, especially in ECE and EEE branches, while CSE remains borderline depending on the 2026 cutoff trends. Recent data shows that NIT Andhra Pradesh CSE closes around OBC-HS ranks of 5,100–5,500, making your rank slightly risky but still worth attempting; ECE looks more realistic. Admission to CSE/ECE in top NITs like Trichy, Warangal, and Surathkal through other-state quota may be difficult. Good options to fill include NIT Andhra Pradesh (CSE/ECE/EEE), IIIT Sri City, IIIT Kottayam, IIIT Nagpur, IIIT Una, IIIT Bhopal, IIIT Ranchi, and GFTIs. JoSAA confirms that OBC-NCL cutoffs are based on category rank, not CRL. It is recommended to prioritize choices as CSE → ECE → EEE → AI/DS/IT and keep CSAB Special Round as a strong backup. Additionally, reviewing JoSAA opening and closing ranks from the past 2–3 years will provide valuable insights for your son to confidently select and fill preferred choices. Also, keep Andhra Pradesh state counselling as a backup option. ALL the BEST for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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My rank is 3304 female what is possibility for iiit hyderabad cse

Ans: Chances at IIIT-H seem challenging. But keep strong backup options ready, since recent CSE cutoffs have often been around or above this range and fluctuate significantly.

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Question by Sushil - Apr 24, 2026Hindi

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Sir please clarify are iiit better then iit non core for cse?

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 25, 2026Hindi

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Hi, My son has secured a rank of 4320 (CRL) in JEE Mains 2026. Home State is not an option. Can you suggest Institute + Branch preferences that we should opt?

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Asked on - Apr 25, 2026 | Answered on Apr 25, 2026

Thank you Sir. What about IIIT Hyderabad, IIIT Bangalore, and JAC Delhi colleges?

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But these (IITH, IIITB, JAC) should come before or after NITs in the order of preference?

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Respected Sir/Ma’am, My brother has secured 77 percentile in JEE Mains 2026 and is currently at a crossroads regarding his future. We would truly value your guidance on whether he should consider taking a drop year to improve his score or proceed with admission at Thapar Institute of Engineering and Technology, Patiala. Additionally, if he opts for Thapar, we would be grateful if you could advise which branch he should choose, keeping in mind both his long-term career prospects and future growth opportunities. Your guidance would mean a lot to us in making an informed decision

Ans: Taking a drop does not guarantee success. If you can take the risk and have full confidence that he can crack the exam with the required percentile, then tell him to proceed with a drop.

At Thapar, consider CSE/COE > AI/ML/Data Science > ECE > Electrical > Mechanical/Civil, based on his genuine interest and aptitude.

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My cousin's son got 99.91 percentile in JEE mains with AIR 1422. He is from Visakhapatnam, Andhra Pradesh. Please suggest me the NITs & Main groups that are suitable for his qualifications. He is in Gen catagory ( Hindu, Brahmin )

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Question by Kishore - Apr 25, 2026Hindi

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Sir, My son got 94.45percentile Jeemains, Mahindra CSE seat blocked, BITS 220marks Session 1, Manipal 148 marks and board 90%. He is interested in CSE or Maths and physics. What shall we do?

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