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There is a reason for him ‘ghosting’ you.
Was your ‘relationship’ one sided?
Was he clear that he was not in any sort of commitment with you?
Did you at any point think that this might be a long haul one?
Sometimes, people believe relationships are meant to last forever.
Nice fairy tales they fool themselves with and then build expectations up and then drive into a well of foolish decisions only to realise that they have led themselves to self-pity to play a victim.
This is what you are doing to yourself.
Rise above and know that he isn’t interested anymore. Who are you crying over? Who are you waiting for? And is he worth spoiling your state of mind?
Start by de-focusing…
And you don’t have depression unless clinically diagnosed.
You are just feeling low and sad, and it will slowly fade away. Have faith but take the first step to make yourself feel better.
All the best!
Things have moved for him, and he has clearly decided to move on.
Why choose to pine so much? If it is some misunderstanding, give him time to sort it in his mind and get back to you.
Trying and not getting the expected result will cause you more pain and anguish over the fact that he is not responding because of this and that.
Your mind will search for all reasons to justify your pain and the action that you have taken to reach out to him.
Give this a break. Respect his decision as hard as it maybe for you, but if he somewhere in the future decides to be a friend, let him approach you.
The more you are chasing him, the more it is hitting your self-esteem with the rejection and soon it will start to make you feel bitter. So, Pause and take that break.
And to defocus on this, make sure you spend more time with your existing set of friends, go deeper into work (if you are a working professional), spend more time with your family, develop new hobbies and more…
What all this does is, give the mind an alternate path to focus on…slowly, the pain starts to ease as your focus on him eases…and this is possible only if you willfully choose to ease the pain for yourself.
Your life, your choice…so, be kind on yourself and choose what’s best for your mind and you.