Anu Krishna |1321 Answers |Ask -Follow
Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Nov 08, 2022
Dear LM,
Things have moved for him, and he has clearly decided to move on.
Why choose to pine so much? If it is some misunderstanding, give him time to sort it in his mind and get back to you.
Trying and not getting the expected result will cause you more pain and anguish over the fact that he is not responding because of this and that.
Your mind will search for all reasons to justify your pain and the action that you have taken to reach out to him.
Give this a break. Respect his decision as hard as it maybe for you, but if he somewhere in the future decides to be a friend, let him approach you.
The more you are chasing him, the more it is hitting your self-esteem with the rejection and soon it will start to make you feel bitter. So, Pause and take that break.
And to defocus on this, make sure you spend more time with your existing set of friends, go deeper into work (if you are a working professional), spend more time with your family, develop new hobbies and more…
What all this does is, give the mind an alternate path to focus on…slowly, the pain starts to ease as your focus on him eases…and this is possible only if you willfully choose to ease the pain for yourself.
Your life, your choice…so, be kind on yourself and choose what’s best for your mind and you.
Best wishes!
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