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Anu Krishna |1757 Answers |Ask -Follow

Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jul 14, 2025

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 26, 2025Hindi

Relationship

is it ok to approach ex wife .

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
That depends on what you want to approach her for? If it is within the legal framework and there are no intentions of hurting, harming, harassing her, then you may start by requesting her that you wish to reconnect with her, If she says NO, kindly stay away...

All the best!
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It largely depends on the nature of your relationship. If it's a friendship with no romantic implications, there is generally no harm in being friends with your ex, even if they are married. However, if it causes issues with their spouse, it is crucial to assess the situation and reconsider the friendship. Reflect if this friendship is something worth these potential complications.

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Hi Ma'am, I am 49 years Old. Had a relationship with a girl in my college days. Broke up very quickly due to some family pressures. The relation turned very sour . We are distantly related and it happened that we encountered each other but never spoke. Recently she came across my father and talked to him very nicely giving my reference. I feel like contacting her just as a friend . I am happily married for 22 years with a 18 year old son. Should i approach her as I have her contact number. Please guide

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
The obvious thing to do is to stay away, isn't it and you possibly want to confirm that with me.
But hey, the excitement of reconnecting with someone from your past is in itself excitement. You don't want that drama seeping into your married life, I am sure...
So, till you find the mature self in you which actually can connect with your past not for any gain or flutter; do the right thing for yourself and your family...

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