i am 41 yrs old. i was in love with girl in long distance relationship and we never met but seen three four times only. we were chatting daily and look like a true love but she was school going girls and get closed to his class mate and chatting with him in regular basis due to this her insterest on mine in lost as i am in long distance and another boy is met him daily face to face . what should i have to do ??
Ans: Dear Raj,
Long distance relationships (LDRs in the relationship space) are never easy but not impossible to live by and live through.
Having said this, I do have a doubt here...You mention that she is school going...not to sound judgemental, but she might be under the age of 18. I would urge you to take note of this kindly as it can work against you if any of your chats are seen by anyone else. Let her be a school going girl and go through her life at her age with boys her age. What makes you not look around for women your age? I say this again not to judge you but do become mindful of underage partners...You will have a lot of explaining to do later.
Let her be a girl, let her go through her life's growing years her way...
All the best!