Home > Relationship > Question

Sign In | Create an account

Language:

Now in हिन्दी too

Need Expert Advice?Our Gurus Can Help

My Crush Asked About Me After 5 Years - Should I Reach Out?

Ravi Mittal |560 Answers |Ask -Follow

Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Mar 31, 2025

Ravi Mittal is an expert on dating and relationships.
He founded QuackQuack, an online dating platform, in 2010 with just two people. Today, it has over 20 million users in India.... more

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 30, 2025Hindi

Listen

Hey... Five years ago, I confessed my feeling to my crush. She declined my proposal politely and asked me to be friends. I respected her decision of putting down my proposal but i didn't want to in friendzone so I broke my contract with her. Since then we never encountered each other. After fuve years one of our mutual friends met her and she was asking him about me. She did ask him about me twice. I know this can be her normal behavior. I want to know if she thinks about me or if she wants to get connected?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Like you mentioned, it is very normal for old friends to enquire about each other, especially if they have not been in touch for a long time. It might be the same in this case. The only way to tell for sure is to ask her. If you are interested in reconnecting, you can think about the same and ask her once you are back in talking terms. But I would recommend not assuming anything and getting your hopes up.

Best Wishes.

RelationshipReply

You may like to see similar questions and answers below

Shalini Singh |149 Answers |Ask -Follow

Dating Coach - Answered on Jun 24, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Jun 24, 2024Hindi

Listen

Relationship

I am a second year student (male), till now in my life i never been i any relationships actually to say i never attracted to anyone, but during the college i met a girl, we started talking, one day while texting she told me that "I heard something I want to ask u.. Something like u likee me?" after that with some fear or i don't know what to say that feeling but I had told her that yes. but then she told we can be only normal friends not to expect more than that. i dont know what to say but i told ok. then even after that we had talk but now a days it reached a point with no replies on chat. i have tried to move on, then suddenly i miss her. as she was my first girl (not even into relationship) that i had some feelings.

Ans: She was nothing but a friend who you may have liked or been attracted to you - it was one way - the sooner you accept this, you will stop missing her. She would have been your 'girl friend' if she reciprocated similar feelings. Hope this helps.

Anu Krishna |1576 Answers |Ask -Follow

Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Feb 05, 2025

Question by Ganesh - Feb 01, 2025Hindi

Listen

Relationship

Hi mam, I liked onw girl whose iet in my office 3 years back . We didn't talk much as she is speaking different language. We used to talk oly work related thinav.i texted her many time personally and she is not responsible properly.but she will reply anyways.one day we all oru team went to mall and played a bowling game including her..that day that cherish moment everyone is happy..that day I fell for her. Use to text her random days regularly.one day I asked her that do you have bf.. she said no and asked me like this" did you saw anay post i put with a guy ". So we used to talk 3 to 4 days a week.the main thing is she and me not at the same location. She left the city afterwe all went to the mall and enjoying one day evening at there. She resigned job because she wanted to do mba..so she came to office where I was at to submit the laptop. I met her..went canteen had some snacks she is in hurry anyways she submitted laptops and she left..after that she called me to take the photos..but we didn't meet. She left the city saying that she will meet next time. One day while chatting I opened up about I liked her. She is laughing

Ans: Dear Ganesh,
She may not have feelings for you like the way you have for her. The only way is to find out by telling her how you feel and see how she responds.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

Latest Questions

Milind Vadjikar |1152 Answers |Ask -Follow

Insurance, Stocks, MF, PF Expert - Answered on Apr 04, 2025

Question by stuti - Apr 03, 2025Hindi

Listen

Money

I have worked for 5-6 companies from 2000 and each of the companies had PF ; while the most recent ones are aligned and carried forward some very early ones are not ; how do i check the amounts in each of the accts AND align/ carry forward all my PFs into one account(under UAN #) ? i have all PFs nos and other details

Ans: Hello;

If you have an active UAN then you can easily link your previous pf accounts to your UAN by following simple process given on EPFO portal.

You need to access the EPFO portal, navigate to "One Member - One EPF Account (Transfer Request)," verify your details, and initiate the transfer request, ensuring you have your old and current employer's details available.

Best wishes;

Prof Suvasish Mukhopadhyay |542 Answers |Ask -Follow

Career Counsellor - Answered on Apr 04, 2025

Question by Shailu - Apr 03, 2025Hindi

Listen

Career

Hello sir Iam 27 years old I have completed my bsc biotechnology in 2018 I have career gap now I want to start my career my doing a job but how to start from where to start iam not getting it which job suits me please suggest me some courses and jobs

Ans: There is a huge gap of 6+ years. Either go for M.Sc Biotechnology or prepare for competitive exams if your age permits. At least do an online MBA for enhancing your qualification. Best of luck. Professor.........................:)

Prof Suvasish Mukhopadhyay |542 Answers |Ask -Follow

Career Counsellor - Answered on Apr 04, 2025

Question by Aayush - Apr 04, 2025Hindi

Listen

Career

I have given 12th for the FIRST time in 2024 and gave improvement in 2025 Am I eligible for jee advance 2026

Ans: Yes, a Higher Secondary candidate of 2025 can appear for JEE Advanced in 2026, as the eligibility criteria allows for two consecutive attempts after passing the Class 12 or equivalent examination. So you can appear. Professor........:)

Milind Vadjikar |1152 Answers |Ask -Follow

Insurance, Stocks, MF, PF Expert - Answered on Apr 04, 2025

Question by AYESHA - Apr 04, 2025Hindi

Listen

Money

MY PF IS OF YEAR 2008 WHEN I LEFT JOB I DONT HAVE PF NUMBER ,AADAHR WAS NOT AT THAT TIME HOW CAN I GET MY PF

Ans: Hello;

Contact your employer at that time. They may have records of past employees.

Else visit the EPFO office where your PF account was held and seek support for getting your pf account details.

Best wishes;

Milind Vadjikar |1152 Answers |Ask -Follow

Insurance, Stocks, MF, PF Expert - Answered on Apr 04, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Apr 04, 2025Hindi

Listen

Money

I am an 22 year old commerce graduate. I got a job in December. My salary is Rs 16,000 per month. I am ready to invest Rs 2,000 per month. Should I invest in an RD or a chit fund? What about SIPs or mutual funds? Please suggest where to invest and how it can help me.

Ans: Hello;

Chit funds often turn out to be cheat funds so a strict NO.

A RD with a PSU bank is a good way to begin your investment journey.

I recommend you to look at SIPs in mutual funds after your RD matures, you have 6 month of expense coverage as emergency fund and you have bought term life insurance.

Also don't forget to open and invest in NPS for retirement planning.

Best wishes;

Milind Vadjikar |1152 Answers |Ask -Follow

Insurance, Stocks, MF, PF Expert - Answered on Apr 04, 2025

Question by Shubham - Apr 04, 2025Hindi

Listen

Money

Sir, Age: 26 Subject: NPS ( National Pension Scheme) Scheme Choice : LC 75 ( Aggressive Auto Choice) Tier : Tier 1 Pension Fund: ICICI Prudential Pension Fund Current value of scheme : Rs. 57927/- Investing Rs. 5600/- on a monthly basis My goals: Want my portfolio to beat inflation and provide a pension of Rs. 1 lakh monthly ( in hopes that beating inflation value of Rs. 1 lakh does not decrease over time) Time horizon : 34 years Questions: 1. Sir will my NPS scheme beat inflation? 2. Is the Pension Fund ( ICICI Prudential) a good choice or should I shift? 3. Will one lakh pension after 34 years be enough to support my lifestyle? (Assuming that everything pans out smoothly) 4. Judging by today's tax law income up to 12 lakh p.a. is non taxable, will I be taxed on my pension still if the law remains as is? (Hypothetical question) My details : 1.Unmarried, never planning on marriage or kids ever. 2.Current utility bills amount to Rs. 15,000 per month 3. Other expenses Rs. 5-7k per month. 4. I have other investments too, but I want to know if I can rely on NPS in old age or not. With this information alone, is retirement with NPS feasible?

Ans: Hello;

Your current expenses add upto 22 K per month.

After 34 years this amount will be 1.6 L per month considering 6% inflation.

This would need a corpus of 5-6 Cr.

Your current investment would fetch you around 1.2 Cr which is quite low.

You need to invest minimum 25 K per month in NPS to expect 5 Cr+ corpus build after 34 years. (A modest 8% return considered from NPS)

Also you may shift from Auto choice to Active choice so as to ensure 75% allocation to equity upto 50 age.(In Auto choice after 35 age equity allocation is tapered down).

You are allowed to have different fund managers for different asset classes based on their performance in respective category.

Current fund manager looks okay however you need to review performance every year.

For generating retirement corpus it is better to have 2-3 investment avenues rather then a single one.

A mix of EPF/PPF, NPS and MFs should be more appropriate.

Best wishes;

Vipul Bhavsar |54 Answers |Ask -Follow

Tax Expert - Answered on Apr 04, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jan 11, 2025Hindi

Listen

Money

I don't have any salary income but I do stock trading and have short term capital gain of two lakh. What exemption I'll get?

Ans: Trading income/loss also needs to be considered
Only 2 Lakhs STCG shall bear NO Tax

Vipul Bhavsar |54 Answers |Ask -Follow

Tax Expert - Answered on Apr 04, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 03, 2025Hindi

Listen

Money

My CTC is 17.40 LPA then how much income Tax will be deducted as per New tax regime. Please Explain as per Tax Slab.

Ans: 138320 for FY 2025-26

Vipul Bhavsar |54 Answers |Ask -Follow

Tax Expert - Answered on Apr 04, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 06, 2025Hindi

Listen

Money

For 2025-26, I have salary income of Rs 10.5 lakh and expect long term capital gains of Rs 6 lakh. How much tax do I have to pay ?

Ans: Kindly provide Long term capital gains is from which source - Shares, MF, sale of asset etc.
Then only we shall be able to guide

Vipul Bhavsar
Chartered Accountant
www.capitalca.in

Vipul Bhavsar |54 Answers |Ask -Follow

Tax Expert - Answered on Apr 04, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 12, 2025Hindi

Listen

Money

Hello, My father in law wants to give me 20 lacs to invest in the market through my Demat account. Technically he will transfer the amount into my savings / salary account which is linked to the Demat account. I will then transfer the amount to my demat account and will invest for long time. Will this transaction attract any tax liability ? if yes how to avoid the same ?

Ans: This transaction may not incur tax liability but you need to consult CA for accurate guidance

Vipul Bhavsar
Chartered Accountant
www.capitalca.in

See more questions »

DISCLAIMER: The content of this post by the expert is the personal view of the rediffGURU. Investment in securities market are subject to market risks. Read all the related document carefully before investing. The securities quoted are for illustration only and are not recommendatory. Users are advised to pursue the information provided by the rediffGURU only as a source of information and as a point of reference and to rely on their own judgement when making a decision. RediffGURUS is an intermediary as per India's Information Technology Act.

Video Reply
Audio Reply

WhatsApp
Facebook
Twitter
Copy link

Delete

Close

Dear User, You have not registered yet. Please register by filling the fields below to get expert answers from our Gurus

Sign up

email

uname

mobile no

Country Code

Mobile number

By signing up, you agree to our
Terms & Conditions and Privacy Policy

Already have an account?

LOGIN

x