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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 01, 2023Hindi
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Hiii Me 40 and my distant cousin 39 started to chat after 20 years and out of the blue she asked me that did had feelings for me earlier i said yes and i said lets talk on daily basis now to which she asked do you still have feelings for me know also to which i asked shoud i lie or say the truth and then i said yes i have and will be forever to which she said tu sach mein pagal hai. I am not sure what she is thinking is she having the same feeling ??

Ans: Sounds like she does, or she wouldn’t keep asking you about your feelings and talking to you. Now you haven’t said exactly how distant this cousin is, nor whether you both are single; those are certainly factors you should take into consideration. And address whether you are making her uncomfortable, or whether she is okay with the whole situation. Depending on the outcome of all the above, you could think of taking things forward.

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