Hi we got intimate on our 2nd date and met few times after that, she was all about dating me and not time pass since after 2nd date she didn’t get fully intimate and wanted to be sure of me, showing all the interest but she had come out of a relationship 3 months back and now suddenly she ignores and ditches to meet, i don’t know what could be the reason, she found someone else or she wants me to try hard for her

 Hello Mam, I have been relationship in past 2 1/2 years. I saw her in my first matches and she didn’t show interest in me. Later she got in touch with me and we got into a relationship. Due to lockdown we couldn’t meet. Whenever I ask her to meet up she used to tell me NO.We met only 4 times in 2 years.And I’m only looking her all daily needs and expenses.She is ready to meet her friends but for me she will tell it’s not possible because of parents and other circumstances.Sometimes I feel she is using me. I’m confused. What decision should I make? I told her many times 'let’s move on.' After a couple of days I will only call her to talk but she never says let’s move on.Please suggest what I should do.

Hello ..I was in a relationship for 4 years and our relationship was very much strong enough. Suddenly she started talking less and ignoring me a lot. She stopped calling me. It's been 6 months today. Did she come back? And what would be the reason for it?

Hi Shalini! While travelling from city A to city B in India, I met this young girl. I say young because I am 44 and single. She seemed much younger. It was basically on the airport bus from the airport to city center. She was the one to initiate conversation and once it started, 2 hrs just went by in a breeze. I really enjoyed the conversation. It seemed like a proper date! :D So, while boarding off the bus, I asked her if she would join me and my friends (2 boys) for a get together the next day. (I was in the city only for a very short time). She said shez fine with it and exchanged nos. But next day she very politely refused to meet me/us. She also said 'next time'. I agreed and thanked her. That's it. No more interaction. She also seemed to like my reply as she put a heart on it. However, later in the day she blocked me on whatsapp! :D Then a couple of days later, I sent her a text/SMS that it was a nice surprise to see me blocked on whatsapp! She read it and never replied. Issue is I think I have fallen for her and would like to at least squeeze 1 date with her. What do I do now? I don't think messaging her on SMS is cool as she never responded the last time. How do I let her know that I want to meet her without any stress for her. Shez in Bangalore.

Ravi Sir, I've been dating this girl for over 3 years now. I have done everything for her, supported her when she changed her job, dealt with her family drama, and emotional breakdowns. Our parents and friends know about us too. She is now in a better job and mental space. I am 34, she is 31. Last week, I took her on a date. She was looking beautiful and I thought we should discuss our future. She simply ignored. When I asked again she said 'I'm not ready for anything serious now.' I was so hurt and betrayed. I felt like she used me during her bad time. She just continued to eat and drink through the rest of the conversation while I was trying to control my emotions. She didn't even text me after I dropped her home. Was I just a temporary comfort? It's been five days. She is online but hasn't texted me. I want some clarity, because I loved her whole heartedly.